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Posted: 15 years ago
QUESTION FOR THE DAY. If GOD comes down and asks you to chose ONLY ONE of following what would you ask for ? A ) MANAV B ) MANAVS HAPPINESS C) TO GIVE ALL THE PROBLEMS OF MANAV TO YOU AND MAKE HIM PROBLEM FREE. Note : be honest and no diplomatic answers. Also give your reasons in clarified way.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Taziiiiii its my and my mechanic story😡😆

how dare u take the credit???😆

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Posted: 15 years ago
Yeli .. option B .. Manav's Happiness .. I'd always want him to be happy .. To be honest, I'm not that mahaan to take up all his problems and make him problems free .. besides, why to live if to live problem free ? problems are wht make life spicy .. and one should know how to solve all the problems .. problems are in fact our strenght .. the more you have problems, the more you'll try to get rid of them, the more you'l have confidence in yourself, as well as strong both mentally and physically .. but yeah, thn one should definitely not only have problems, they should also have happiness .. one should knw how to overcome everything so Manav should have some problems too .. but I'd definitely be there for him, giving my full support and shoulder if needed.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Nishi, he is my mechanic, my darlin, my sweety pie, my cutie pie ! *tongue*
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Posted: 15 years ago
@tom: heres my bouncer. So you chose manavs happiness and not manav! Arent you confident that had you chosen manau and got him you would have given him all the happiness ?? If not then why do you chose his happiness and not directly him ! Lack of confidence ?
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Posted: 15 years ago
Yeli, now u r giving hints to others, not fair !!
Anyways, I've a reason as why I chose option B and not A .. bt as promised, I won't participate until SD clarifies himslf bout him leaving !
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Posted: 15 years ago
haha ,... here is my answer


i would get manav and i would take away his problems and give him all of the hapiness in the world !
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Posted: 15 years ago
@aarty: so it means you chose option A. So heres my googly. How can you GUARANTEE manavs happiness ? If god himself is telling you to chose him or his happiness how can you guarantee his happiness. Everything is not in hands of humans. What if he suffers an accident ! So just to get manav HOW COULD YOU RISK HIS HAPPINESS ? Go ahead.
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Posted: 15 years ago
Answer to Ali's question...

I wud choose option B (Manav's happiness). Lets say I chose A, bcoz i believe i can give him all the happiness, but what if something happens to me nd I die nd I cant b there for him. So u see option A wud b very selfish. Main marr gayi to Mannu to akela reh jayega udaas😔 If I had chosen option C (which I wud nd take away all his problems), then there wud b no use of choosing that option nd it wudnt make Manav problem free bcoz problem husband ki ho ya wife ki ho, problem hamesha dono ki hoti hai. Lets say I take away all his problems, but that wud still make Manav stressed since he will b my husband. nd problem free doesnt mean happiness. So I choose Manav's happiness over anything😊 U can always live happily even if u hav less money, more tension, but its all about love nd family in the end. If u hav that happiness then anything can solved nd u will b happy.
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Posted: 15 years ago

Hello!

Wow, ali nice question.
All the three options hold some weightage, difficult to choose, they are all interlinked. But I'll go with B.
Here's why not with A or C.
A.) Manav- there is no use asking God to give me 'Manav' cos there's no use having him as a 'possession'. (I'm not Shravani- she also has Manav but he is not hers- you get my point?) I knw that if I have Manav then he will do everything to keep me happy but wat if he loves someone else???(its an IF okay, I know he is mine only) Then he won't be happy . and then I also won't be happy.
C.) Take away Manav's problems- Nah! Not at all. Good couples work as a team to fight problems TOGETHER, and not to 'take away each other's problems.' These problems make us strong in life and help us grow. If I take away his problems then what will he do if he has a problem again??? OF course I will be there for him again, but rather than give the person a fish, it is better to teach the person how to fish- that is, rather than taking away his problems, I would offer him my wholehearted support so that he emerges out strong after overcoming his problem.
B) seems the best to me. Manav's happiness is what I'm really concerned about.

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