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addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
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i will put it this way . By encouraging to slap her and then going home leaving her in that animal's hand is even more unpardonable .

So ok .to a certain point they got sucked in by Rasikas drama at the MS office and actually decided to give this marraige a chance . But now the mask felll off . Now they KNOW what lies in store for their sister .

And there is no guarantee that after getting slapped

1] she wont be raped

2] she wont be abused further

3] the next slap will perhaps be for Savita

4] She may be subjected to horrendous abuse resulting in her suicide coz Rasika was breaking her promises like anything

U see ........there is no GURANTEE for VANDU"S LIFE . Earlier Archus bravado fell flat , true but that time , whether her bravado succeeded or no , no LIFE was at stake . This time there is ...she is right in the TIGER'S DEN. One cannot leave a lamb in the tIgers den and walk away , the Tiger may eat her up any moment . One has to pull it out somehow at the risk of getting mauled and run away !

Yes, there is no guarantee of anything happening...we r dealing with the Gotti's of India...but rashika did scolded her son for his attempted misbehavior on vandu.......

rape...i guess even if she is a willing participant...i would call it rape for all the obvious reasons.

abuse...well that happening daily with others..except manju and shravani...and hopefully vershu..

if she decides to give her mom a slap...well deserved..hip hip...hooray

glad u r aware that rashika is breaking her promises....that is y to to alleviate a worst case scenario...i honestly think archana did the right thing...could u imagine if vandu did not slap archana..?

at the meeting when savita aai wanted to take vandu away, what did rashika said..this is my bahu..or it was ajit who said this is my wife....these ppl r sooooooooooo helpless...i dont like what is happening...i did not even watched yest's online video...totally disgusted..but dont blame archana for today....

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#62

well i do addenise . my views r different .😊 I respect urs but I firmlly believe that one who encourages evil with submissiveness or antiquated philosophies unapplicable in todays age , INVITES misery . Archnas philosophy is a loser philosophy , straight and simple . Well fine if she wants to be a loser , why teach it to other vulnerable girls lllike her younger sisters or Vandu ? If Vandu walks away NOW still she has a chance at life , if Ajit really rapes her one day [ how long is Rasika going to hold that animal back] she WILL NEVER BE THE SAME PERSON AGAIN . If Archu cannot figure out this simple equation she is hopeless .

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carpe-diem

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Posted: 15 years ago

#63

Vandu needs some tough love right now...i understand that she has been through so much trouble and the fact she did this to save her family... but the family that she is doing this for is just watching this BS... i mean what kind of a father lets his child get married to a monster.

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#64

yes . at times for ur loved ones one has to play HARD BALL and this is the time , not to adjust and weep like archu says

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#65

Kool,Archu isnt Vandu's guardian...Vandu is an adult and is solely responsible if she decides to stay in her sasural and suffer.

Archu is in no way responsible for leaving her in the tiger's den bcoz thats what Vandu chose...

Archu has record for listening to atrocious conditions of Savita...true

but when it comes to Rasika,the scenario is very different....in case Archu stands up and fights for Vandu,what do u think will happen?

Rasika will keep quiet or is she going to get discouraged and stop pursuing relentlessly her quest for revenge...nothing like this is going to happen.

For the time being,Archu is just trying gandhigiri with Rasika...since the last time she tried fighting ,she fell flat...why not try by agreeing to their demands,may be Vandu will be spared some torture....Is it wrong to think this way?I dont think so

When everything will be over,then they'll have guts bcoz they wont have anything to fear then....not about Vandu atleast...so they'll go ahead to seek justice without any emotional bindings ....presently they hope Rasika will spare Vandu if she gets her revenge from the slap...and their love for Vandu is holding them back

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carpe-diem

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Posted: 15 years ago

#66

GM i agree with you but one thing will lead to another. who is to say that this will stop...i feel like right now no one can get vandu out of her state other than vandu herself or tough love form her family members

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addenise

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Posted: 15 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
well i do addenise . my views r different .😊 I respect urs but I firmlly believe that one who encourages evil with submissiveness or antiquated philosophies unapplicable in todays age , INVITES misery . Archnas philosophy is a loser philosophy , straight and simple . Well fine if she wants to be a loser , why teach it to other vulnerable girls lllike her younger sisters or Vandu ? If Vandu walks away NOW still she has a chance at life , if Ajit really rapes her one day [ how long is Rasika going to hold that animal back] she WILL NEVER BE THE SAME PERSON AGAIN . If Archu cannot figure out this simple equation she is hopeless .

I agree with u....our views r diff...thanks..same for me..i do respect urs...well, u said it....anyone that encourages evil with submissiveness is all those things....but main thing..:a loser:...so 3/4 of pr characters r losers....manav, kaka, dadomar, archana and her entire fam..satish and his fam.......so pr has become a rotating cycle of ppl submitting to antiquated philsophies that is not applicable to today's society...I am not Indian...I am mixed american, however, my bf is "India" Indian and my best friend isTriniidadian Indian....y i diffrentiated is cause he teases her by saying,"u r not indian cause u r not from india"...so they have their own arguments going on with that....and i tend to be judgemental when i watch the soaps..i am so hooked on them....my mom is black and spanish..my dad is white...so all r like y u want zee tv, colors, star plus..and all...lol....

my bf always say, please dont judge my family or country cause of what u see in these soaps..which i tend to do..and we have huge fights...i always have an excuse as to y my point of view is right...my point is...i am american...these things dont happen..my bf said, neither in any middle class family....but still it scares the hell out of me and freaks me out....what to believe?..i cannnot for the life of me think any daugther in law can accept such abuse...i mean i ask him is this for real..he would always scream..nooooooooooooo....what do u think..r we in stone age..then huge fighting about it..lol

dont get me wrong....i hate what is happening now....yest, i made no comments about vandu's marriage..most ppl think that cause she was in such a state of mind...they excused her..i did not..so i refused to comment...here we have counselling and all that..and no doubt..no amout of money could have gotten ajit off..i remember jfk cousin or nephew...raped some gal yrs ago..came up again few yrs back and he got jailed...so this whole power and money thing with the lokhandes....freaking me out...

another thing, like i said...restraining order..huge here..he and his mom should never have been no way near vandu..but according to my bf....stopppppppppppp watching the soaps..ha ha ha..

but kools..i do respect ur views..i always look forward to them but i totally disagree with u on archana....according to storyline...she and everyone seem helpless against the money and power ppl....leaving now for home....will follow updates later....

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gaurimisha

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Posted: 15 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: carpe-diem
GM i agree with you but one thing will lead to another. who is to say that this will stop...i feel like right now no one can get vandu out of her state other than vandu herself or tough love form her family members

Thats how the story has to be developed i guess....

I would rather Vandu fights for herself,with a bit of help from ArMan,when she gets fed up of Rasika's tactics...as I want Archu to fight for herself someday...high expectations must say.

Vandu jumped into the tiger's den without as much as thinking twice about herself.....I believe when a person has the guts to marry a man like Ajit,she must at some later point stand up against him as well...lets see what the genius group of CRs r goin to show

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carpe-diem

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Posted: 15 years ago

#69

i think that vandu has attained so much power. first of she is married to a rich guy. she can torture the lokhendes by tallying and keeping a record of their evil deeds.

We all know how much they care about their position and status. if she exposes them for what they really are or blackmails them and they will back off and leave manav alone. in all of this i feel very bad for manav...he is the only person i feel sorry for...

if she wills it she can get ajit and RA to bend at her will but this idiot is going to cry and not see or take the golden opportunity

Edited by carpe-diem - 15 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: gaurimisha
Kool,Archu isnt Vandu's guardian...Vandu is an adult and is solely responsible if she decides to stay in her sasural and suffer.
Archu is in no way responsible for leaving her in the tiger's den bcoz thats what Vandu chose...

Archu has record for listening to atrocious conditions of Savita...true

but when it comes to Rasika,the scenario is very different....in case Archu stands up and fights for Vandu,what do u think will happen?

Rasika will keep quiet or is she going to get discouraged and stop pursuing relentlessly her quest for revenge...nothing like this is going to happen.

For the time being,Archu is just trying gandhigiri with Rasika...since the last time she tried fighting ,she fell flat...why not try by agreeing to their demands,may be Vandu will be spared some torture....Is it wrong to think this way?I dont think so

When everything will be over,then they'll have guts bcoz they wont have anything to fear then....not about Vandu atleast...so they'll go ahead to seek justice without any emotional bindings ....presently they hope Rasika will spare Vandu if she gets her revenge from the slap...and their love for Vandu is holding them back

If she is not Vandu's guardian , why did she rush there , like family , why did she hold Manav's hand with right as if both she and Manav r guardians of Vandu ?

Why did she go to Mahila Samiti ..without telling Vandu's mom , mind u ....just see the boldness and stupidity of her actions , coz Archu had no business keeping it from Savita ..whatever she is , Savita is Vandus legal guardian . SHE HAS TO KNOW , Whether ARCHU likes it or not . The girl had the audacity to take the case upto the MS level and not infoorm the girl's mom ..............who was the legal guardian ! If we r talking legalities here only to prove a point or do a case for Archna , my dear , in no way was Archu justified for keeping it from Savita even if Manav told her .....coz initially Archu had gone ALONE to the MS office annd initiated the case .

No GM it is very very obvious that Archu regards herself as Vandus guardian .Infact , Archu doesnt regard herself as the one getting divorced AT ALL .In her mind , this IS her family , and she keeps saying HAmaari Vandu .If she is not guardian , fine , but then let Vandus brother do na what he was going to do , with what haq , right she held his hand like a wife and pulled him back ?

So if she is gonna defy legalities and act as a guardian , she might as well take the right steps and NOT WAIT TILL IT IS OVER .COZ MAKING ISSUES AFTER ONE DIES IS REALLY WORTHLESS.

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