Originally posted by: -ALI-
@Kool: hahaha. That would have been GREAT step but VERY UNLIKELY IF YOU ARE TALKING BOUT INDIAN SOCIETY. I mean marriage is not a joke. And asking for anulment on day when they got married is HIGHLY unlikely. Ok. Let me go through your suggestion. What if Vandu would have said still that NO , I HAVE MARRIED HIM IN MY FULL SENSES AND FROM NOW ON HE IS MY HUSBAND. You cant do anything then. What Rasika TRIED TO PORTRAY WAS THAT HER SON IS VERY GUILTY AND HE WANTS TO COMPENSATE FOR HIS MISTAKE. If girl is ready to marry him then he has no objection. What she tried to show that Ajit is feeling guilty for his deeds and want to prevent her life from being destroyed. In indian society its difficult for a girl to get married once she is being raped. I know you WILL TELL THAT MARRIAGE IS NOT EVERYTHING. But if you are talking bout INDIAN MIDDLE CLASS SOCIETY MARRIAGE IS NEARLY EVERYTHING FOR A GIRL. And what MS would have thought that suppose they punish Ajit, but still girls life will remain ruined and no one will marry her. So if GIRL IS HERSELF READY IN HER SENSES THEN ITS BETTER IF SHE MARRIES THE BOY IF THE ANY IS GUILTY.
Ali
1] My entire life was spent in MUmbai I came to the US only in last decade and still I go there as I have a home
2] Mahila Samitis r NOT like this . My mother in law is on the committe of one , a very active member , and I have seen quite a few of these samitis and how commitees take decisions
3] I repeat : Although Vandu said herself she took decision , her statement can be construed as the statement of an unstable mind especially as there is the record of her suicide in a police court
4] The way Ajit himself came to Mahila Samiti wud be regarded as very suspicious by a real life MS and the ladies wud fire innumerable questions at him and Rasika , some which I listed above
5] In Indian middle class society although marraige is EVERYTHINg , it is NOT just for a girl .A boy needs a girl to get married too . It goes both ways .And IF boys are NOT ready to marry girls who are NOT virgins , why shud girls marry boys who are rapists ? Or murderers ? These R CRIMES and they cannot be waved aside and cloaked by some rituals. Even villagers say categorically NO to marrying their daughters to sex offenders. In some cases when Panchayats give these sick decisions , issues r automatically made
6] Lastly , Ekta Kapoor had made cartloads of money and has already reached the highest rung of her ladder .Ab kitni aur upar jayegi aur paise ki itni bhi kya bhook ki she is sending a very uncivilized , ignorant message and adding to the ignorance of the society ? Serials shud do their bit by eradicating social evils . not increase them with such faaltu dramas .And ok , if serials r not here to give messages , maan liya , chalo .Then at least don't increase it by showing B.S
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 15 years ago