Satyanarayan puja???? - Page 7

I do not agree that cirustances kill you.

Everyone on this world has the power to make their own decisions. Nobody ruined Manav other than himself. He is a very righteous man, living for others. He should start living for his wife first. She came in his life before Sharavani.

As far as his mom ruining his life, that is because he is letting it. All of us have 2 voices within us, one good and one contradicting the good. It is our responsibility to choose the right one for us and once we have made the decision it becomes our responsibility.

Similarly in Manav's life these two voices are of his mom's and his dad's. He has to listen to the one that he thinks is right. In this case he is always listening to his mom even though he knows that it is not the right thing to do. So we cannot blame Shravani, or her dad or Savi aii. They are doing their duty as per their character.

Savita: Lalchi and selfish. All she can think about is she.

Shravani: God knows if she ever loved Sachin , selfish and immature

Girishji: Good dad looking out for his daughter.

According to me only Manav is to be blamed and if he really loves Archu, he would have to admit it to himself some day and make the right decision. Right now he is not taking any decision on his own. He is backing up his aii's decisions. He is getting closer though, to be able to listen to his heart and not his head. He is having the feeling and thoughts of the times he had with Archu. He knows that he depends on Archu for emotional support in times of need. When he went to find his dad couple of epi ago, he pleaded to Archu to take care of his mom. If he was starting to develop his commitment towards Shravani he would have asked her to do so.

Anyway, long story short, I think Manav is slowly realising the strength of his feelings for Archu. When it overpowers his feelings of responsibility…he will burst out. Till then, my friends, we would have to see Manav oscillating between love and responsibility.

I am personally keeping my fingers crossed for the day he bursts out and I don't think the creatives will be so s----- to not let that happen. IT will be sooooooooon.

@sid: manav archu getting intimate is impossible to me. Because both of them are shy. Their relation is more of heart rather than physical. Both of them are matured and responsible enough to do such tings at this point of time. Both of them knows their limit. Even if they hug each other they come back to their senses quickly. Both of them knows context of this situation and they cant do such big risk at this point of time. No way especially when both of them are trying to forget each other. @cool mom: spot on. Agree with you. But i do not think that manav is doing all this for his mothers sake. He is doing all this for his brothers last nishani and his baby. But as you said although slowly but he is realising his mistake and feeling guilty from inside. You are hoping that he will burst out but i am sure he will burst out soon. Just some incident is required which will act as catalyst to speed up his feelings.

It was to b some earth shattering twist to make these two intimate bcoz as ALI said it,they r very shy n highly mature,responsible individuals. Waiting for Manav to burst out...I hate the CRs for testing my patience.

ali, its not impossible to me. they were shy with each other but we have seen that they r getting more comfortable with each other. shyness is not such a big issue. didnt u see the happiness on archana and manav's face b4 the satyanarayan pooja when manav got the tickets for their honeymoon? they were both happy and they were ready to move ahead in their relation. they were happy that they will b getting some time alone with each other and maybe a chance to come close to each other.didnt u see the hug after archu told manav her feelings? there is nothing wrong or unusual in that. its only natural and they have a right to come close to each other. the only reason they r away from each other right now is the divorce and shravani. they both have created limits by themselves. they can break those any time they wish. it depends only on them. getting intimate is just another form of expressing ur love. y wont manav and archana do that? they r so much in love with each other. they want to b with each other. the want and need to get intimate with ur partner comes from the heart only (when there is no lust involved). so manav getting intimate will only make their pavitra rishta stronger. i agree with u that its impossible for them to think about this at this time but i m saying that something might bring them closer. u never know. but if that happens then i dont want them to regret this later.

u r saying even if they hug each other they come back to their senses quickly. well even if they come to there senses, they still hugged each other!! they might get intimate just like they hugged. but if that happens then i dont want them to come back to their senses. we all loved the hug but we didnt like the part when they separated and they had guilt on their faces. y shud they feel guilty? i know its the situation. thats what i m trying to say. i hope the CVs dont show guilt after they get intimate, if they do.

and i wish they were both mature and respsonsible enough to understand that by separating they r only destroying 3 lives (manav, archu, shravani).

i only raised this point bcoz all of a sudden satyanarayan pooja is back and obviously there is some reason behind it. since everyone already expressed their point of view (which i agree with), i just added some more. this is also a possibility and its not impossible.

Gauri I am happy that Archana is reconsidering her decision that she does not want to move on in life . I think that day she was vulnerable and emotional. He had got engaged that day and it happened so soon ...it took her time to accept it . But she is a sensible and practical girl Though extremely emotional where her husband is concerned but now that he himself keeps pushing her away and is doing so many rituals with another woman , even before divorcing her .

Just now I saw the pre cap . What is baba trying to achieve by making Archana think how much it will hurt to see manav with another girl?/

Sid, to be honest i do not want them to get intimate. First manav has to tell everyone that he lover his wife a lot and he cant marry other girl. Then only they should do all such things. On one hand he is committed to other girl and on other hand doing such things is crime to me. It will kill manav for me.

thats what i m saying Ali. first i want him to confess his feelings and love for archu in front of everyone. he shud tell them he is not marrying shravani and archu is his wife and will always remain his wife. then he shud move ahead.

u know how these CVs bring new unpredictable twists. i was just trying to see the possibilities of this new twist. u know CVs always show the unpredictable.

btw, we shud remember manav and archu r only human!

Actually unknown18 could be right , you never know ...

But I don't think this Shravani issue will be solved this easily . It will go right till the point where manav is in civil court ...to divorce Archana .