Pavitra Rishta rockzzzzzzz.......why????? - Page 3

If all was well b/w Archu and Manav, MAnav wud have done the same, infact more than that... The relation b/w ur hubby and u thankfuly is very sweet and strong, but ur husband and his family hasnt gone to jail, hasnt seen all hatred around.. Your hubby isnt in situation of Manav naa!!! manav wants to show her love, but he is limiting himself as much as possible in front of Atrchu more than shravani...

Ok, I give you the points 4 and 5 .

Archana's has no end


Whose responsible??? manav?? if yes, then equally archana.. When that jewellery epi took place, manav stood for archu and after that archu said u dont need to stand forme. She herself let Savita get over her!!!!


I am leaving for moment, but wil be back after 1 and half hour.. Bye , TC. and dont mind plz..

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@akash:

Don't get me wrong yaar, I have all the sympathy for Manav. Even I understand that he is in a catch 22 situation. It is difficult for him to turn back now when a girl's honour and life, his brother's son's life and family's happiness is at stake. If he is shown selfless, it totally goes with his character, even I don't expect him to come running to Archana in one day saying you are more important to me than family. In fact few Indian boys, in the first year of marriage, would take such a big step- to dump their family in the time of need and stand by the wife.

What I meant by saying 'old Manav' was the ideal husband concept that they have shown ever since the beginning of the serial. He was always depicted as a person whom ganpati bappa sent for Archana to help her in all troubles of life- her future husband, her life partner and her biggest strength. That is what attracted me to this serial- even though he was not educated or rich, he was still the type of person who would be the ideal husband for ANY girl. Lovers bahut dekhe hain yaar... par aisa husband nahin dekha jo shadi ki pehli raat apni wife ke saath bartan dhoye... apni SIL ke liye FD banaye saying they are my responsibility... MIL ko dahej na dena pade isliye khud haar kharid ke laye... he was a perfect husband. Any girl would have been proud to have him. Unfortunately, right now his situations are such that this ideal husband has been forced to take a back seat and the ideal brother and ideal son have taken its place.

Now, I agree that he is a wonderful lover, he accepts it himself that even though he is marrying shravani, he will never be able to get Archana out of his system, but there is a BIG difference btw a husband and a lover. SECURITY! An ideal husband should be able to provide security to his wife, not let her suffer. Unfortunately right now, bcoz Manav is being the ideal son and brother, he is not able to fulfill this important duty of a husband... dekha na Archana ka kya haal ho gaya hai us ghar mein. His Aai abuses Archana... he does not say anything coz he wants her to hate him... he is thinking about her only... but this is a sign of a lover... a husband wouldn't have done that.

A lover loves without responsibility or rights, a husband has both responsibility and rights. And right now, this is what is not entering into Manav's head- that Archana IS his responsibility, she needs him much more than Shravani. He doesn't realise that making her hate him is not sufficient, coz the girl is truly in love with him and can never hate or forget him.

And that is why, right now Manav is a silent lover. Not the ideal husband... coz every girl wants her husband to be an ideal son, ideal brother, great human being etc. but if it does not provide them security, if the husband chooses to be selfless sacrificing his wife, then how is he the perfect life partner?

And so when I say, I want the old Manav back, I mean to say that I want that 'perfect husband image' back. I want him to hold Archana's hand in public and say that he cannot fulfill his responsibility by leaving his wife in the lurch, that she counts more to him that anything else.. I want him to blast Savita for her wrong-doings and prove that he can go against his family for his wife. I want him to apologize to Sulochana and prove that he is not egoistic, he accepts his mistake and for the sake of his wife, is ready to apologize to his in laws for it.

When this happens, I will proudly say that the old Manav is back... that he has passed the biggest test of his life as a husband... he went against his responsibility (as a son and brother), his mother, his reputation (people will call him selfish) to be with the woman he truly loved and who loves him too and to do justice to her. And if this doesn't happen, I'm off this serial

As Ali says, patience is required. Waiting for that day.

So you see, along with Manav I'm also in a catch-22 situation. I understand him, but I want him to get back to the mould of a perfect husband and get back to Archana, coz I want him to be happy and that will be possible only with a girl like Archana and not with that selfish bimbo Shravani. He needs Archana 100 times more than she needs him, bcoz Archna had a lot of well-wishers, but Manav has only one- his Dad. All his life he has been thinking of others, he deserves a wife like Archana to pamper him and love him and make him feel special.

So that is why I say I love Manav, I am his fan... but right now I am not his supporter. I hope I have my stand clear now.

After saying and writing so much on this whole issue , all I will say finally is what Ankita said , ' If you love her then prove it otherwise be quiet '.

He will do that with time,

At this present situation I think its diff to blame either Archana or Manav....both r victims of fate or shld I say Manjusha nd Savita's pawn in a game where both these woman want to pull their strings according to their benefit, the former in her attempt to absolve her brother as well as her eternal wish to see Archana suffer nd the latter to gratify her ever growing desire for wealth even at the cost of her son's happiness.

Manav nd Archana are soul-mates, born to love each other.....but they equally love their family nd will never go against them, even if it means leading a barren life, God made them this way......nd maybe that's why they suffer so much, both with equanimity

Both are destiny's children.....nd m sure some day they will find the courage to fight this together nd I hope till then it's not too late.

I know I've digressed quite a bit frm the topic but this is how I feel.

@akash: Arey akash, I'm saying exactly the same thing that you have written... Manav is not bad, he is very very good... and his situation is perfectly understandable. Its been 6 months into this relationship and he has to make the choice of siding with his family of 31 yrs or his wife of 6 months. So like most 'good' Indian boys, his spontaneous decision would be to go with his family, even if he doesn't like it. The husband is overruled by the son and the brother

i totally agree pavitra rishta rockssssssssssssssssss

Originally posted by: Akashspartan

Oh Niki u turn again,

I am the die hard fan of Manav, still i feel strongly that its the situation which needs to be blamed for the catostrophe.

His love for Archu hasn't changed with time he his still cares about her.

But one most need to understand that he his placed in a precarious situation of sorts.

An unborn baby in the wings, a girls honour dignity at stake.

He hasno otheroption right now he has choosen the responsiblity over Love.

One needs to get into his shoes to understand, may be i am expectind few rotten eggs and tomoatoes thrown at me for saying this.😵

But i will stand for Manav i think the man has the courage to do it......

@Tanya

i know u would never buy this concept,🤔

its unfortunate but thats how it goes.................😔

If i was in Manav shoes i would pull psycho girl aside and say, listen when i committed to you, i thought my wife was not in love with me and she was responsible for landing my family in jail thus causing my brother to be killed, although i know for a fact it was really your dad's phone call that really did it. But seeing as i am so dense i chose to believe what my aai was rambling on and on, cuz she wanted me to marry you to get her hands on house and car and jewels.
But now that i know for sure that she is innocent beyond a doubt and that she really loves me for eternity, i cant marry you anymore, i just cant. After all i didnt tell you to go sleeping around before you were married, and seeing that you are so far along it is apparant that you did it before you knew you were getting married to sachin. This sort of behavior is unheard of and frowned upon in this society. So why the heck i should be the one to get you out of this rut. You are an educated girl and your father got money. I think you should go to america or somewhere far and have you baby and settle yourself.
My wife is a virgin and she never played around, and if i want babies, Archana will be the one giving them to me. So lady there is the door, take a walk through them and mind you DONT LET IT HIT YOU ON THE WAY OUT! And from now on i am goin to be the man i shouldve been long time back, and if ever i want any sort of manly advice i will ask my father.