Sorry guys, my month end at work has started and this week will be a long week.
Finally I have read everyone's post of today on this thread. I am too tired but I want to give my 2 cents as well...
Archana...
When a person is self sufficient, there comes the confidence. The sufficiency is the state of not requiring any outside aid (her family or Manav's support, or interaction) for survival. it is therefore a type of personal or collective autonomy that in Archana case will take a very long time to get to this state. She will need to go to school and work together to get the jump start. Easier for her as Satish will always have a job for her.
Archana will need to do self confidence exercises which is another way of building strength and these exercises will build character and self-respect within herself.
As she starts to gain confidence, she should challenge herself to take the risks to confront any situation that she has or will have by confronting them such as her own mother, Ajit and his co, Manav's mother and even Manav.
People around her will also respect her for all who she is and what she is worth.
If Archu had all these qualities, she would not have married into this family. She would have known to find the right choice of partner for herself. Therefore, KOOL, she is merely a moolified character from childhood when she gave up her schooling and stayed home to look after the family. Her character had started to build at that time in her life. She had learned very early in life to accept the things as they came in a cool and calm way. She liked serenity so therefore never liked any one fight and thus gave in even if she had to do more work/labor or even give up something to see others happy. After 15+ years of being so good to everyone, she developed her own personality traits. To change this, she will need just as long time and ofcourse decipline as well. All this can be achieved with or without Manav or even her own family.
Manav...
He is a very nice, caring and loving person. Don't understand how his personality never got effected by Savita's expressions of low opinions or even negative opinion on others. loud mouth and always fighting. Greedy and such.
I guess that he has learned to be tolerant and is very composed. He is happy for who he is and lives within his means. He has dreams as well that he wants to fulfil like the garage thing. TANYA, he dreams of living happily ever after with Archana. Will this dream ever come true?
He is getting better and has started to see things through. He has made a commitment to his brother's fiance because he felt her father's pain and also the obligation of being there when her father was needing someone like him the most. Even if Shravan's father was selfish, Manav was not. He made the commitment under the current circumstances when he was divorcing Archana that too under misbelieves and misunderstandings.
He can amend all this. He has to make that choice. He loves Archana and Shravani is only his responsibility. Once he realises this and comes to awakening. he will recogonize the problem with gettting married to Shravani he will not take the risk of losing his only love. I just hope that this realization comes sooner. I just love the aura when ArMan are together...just love it.
The others....
I think that to say anything about others will be ruining my sleep time. JAB MEEYA BEEBEE HOE RAJEE THOE KYA KERGA KAAJI...
Good night guys....I love you all.
Edited by Tulsey - 15 years ago
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