Why Manav took this decision?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

all the above are misunderstandings , even if they were not , even if they were true , still it does not change the fact that Archana is his wife .

Even if she is a monster then also she is his responsibility ,emotionaly financialy , in every way .

He cannot move on in life without settling things with her .The way he is going out of his way to take care of an already wealthy Shravani and completely ignoring his own wife, totally shrugging her off is WRONG .

The girl even turned down divorce to save her marriage but still for him she is a gone case , whatever she thinks or wants means nothing to him.

Archana is not a rich girl , he knows that she not very educated , working hard to start life at this age . he also knows that she does not have a rich father , her dad is retired .

What is wrong is wrong .....manav for whatever reasons , taking responsibilty of Shravani and ignoring Archana is WRONG

I stand with Vaishali when she told Archana that this time Jeeju is wrong . Shravani and Sachin made a mistake and he is making Archana pay for that mistake

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Right on . What ALL seem to forget is a wife is not a joke . Leave aside the fact that r they in love etc and all that for a moment . The fact remains.......angry or not , whether he wants or not , SHE IS HIS WIFE AND SHRAVANI IS NOTHING AT THIS POINT . JUST LIKE WHETHER VINOD REALLY LIKES MANJU AS AN INDIVIDUAL OR NOT......MANJU REMAINS HIS WIFE AND JUST AS WHETHER DAMODAR HAS RESPECT FOR SAVITA OR NOT SHE REMAINS HIS WIFE .

THe divorce has NOT come through . She has a court order to live in that house , IT DOES NOT DEPEND ON MANAV AND SAVITA's wish . He is kicking her out and asking Shravani who has no legal or blood relation to them to live there .........if some neighbour squeals Manav can go second time to jail . Manav didn't kick Archna out of the house. Rewind back to the scene between them that day. He asked her why she came back, she confessed her love and said THAT NOW SHE WOULD NEVER LEAVE THE HOUSE. It was then that Manav said that it wasn't possible since he was going to marry Shravani. He didn't say that leave my house right now, court or no court, since I want to marry Shravani. Archu's decision to leave was her own.

He has shown no responsibility in making enquiries on a humanatarian level to see if her maayka accepted her back , as she had directly told him she had fought with them before leaving them for him . Why shud he? He knew that her maayka was worried for her, he had heard her talk on phone twice to her family members and had even talked with Varshu. Varshu had been concerned and asked questions. When he had come to her house, everyone had come out buzzing like bees. There was no question of their not accepting her, she had said that they were angry with me and didn't want me to go, but she didn't say that they threw her out so they wouldn't accept her back.Forget as a husband , as a human Manav has to ask this question . He has to ask her how she is supporting herself ........just 4 500 rupees isnt enough boss in costly Mumbai in today's world ............even a municipality watchman has better income . Aren't we jumping the gun here? He knows she is well provided for cos she lives with a caring family whose condition is much better than his own. Add to it that she has a job. Its not as if she is living in costly Mumbai without a house or support. He doesn't know that she has sold her jewellery or is being forced to leave house. I admit it is his duty to make sure his wife is financially secure after divorce and give her a part of his income/property...but the divorce is 3 months away, and there is still a lot of time.He has had too much handling of other affairs all these days, . He is not rich and making arrangements for Archu will need planning. In the coming episodes we will probably see him thinking and arranging for Archu's alimony. Remember, he is the same guy who was shown few episodes earlier as the one who made FD's for Varsha and Vaishu saying they are my responsibility. If they don't show him making arrangements for Archu's future I will consider it as a big blooper/flaw by the creatives.He also needs to know that she cannot be tossed out simply by his and his mom's wish , that it is her RIGHT to live there whether that whole dysfunctional Deshmukh clan likes it or not . His heroism in protecting Shravani and his noble goals have nothing to do with these legalities ...........and what he needs is a blasting from Varsha in front of all the Deshmukhs to remind him of that .

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@koolsadhu:In the second point rather than Archu's words, I was actually laying more stress on Manav's conversation with Varsha who had been concerned and later very worried, when Archu was at the house Varsha had called twice to ask if she was ok, suggesting that there was no animosity... her family had come running outside to see her, Sulochana's eyes full of tears...all this actually makes me feel that Manav had reasons to feel Archana would be accepted easily and it was actually best that she return home. Perhaps I feel it this way cos Manav has always been portrayed as someone who quietly watches peoples behavior and accesses them and doesn't speak much himself. Just my opinion.

About the third point: I did not mean to say that he shudnt be concerned about his wife's financial security since her family is well off... what i meant to say was... she isn't really in any dire need of money or financial threat at the moment cos her family can provide her well and sothere is no realhurry in this matter., especially when Manav had been dealing with other matters as well... pregnancy, divorce case etc.There are 3 months for the divorce to officially take place and so in these three months he can plan for Archu's financial security, this is what I expect to be shown on the show. Anything else wouldn't go with his character of someone who is still concerned for Archu.

@koolsadhu: Shravani is the mother of Sachins child, so I dont see anything wrong in her living there, irrespective of whether she is marrying Manav or not.

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@koolsadhu: Shravani is the mother of Sachins child, so I dont see anything wrong in her living there, irrespective of whether she is marrying Manav or not.

Savita throwing Archu's luggage out of the chawl was I agree, wrong legally.

About Manav telling Archu that he is getting married to Shravani and indirectly kicking her out...I actually thought it was a good thing to end all her false hopes that very minute when she was going on with 'I will live all my life in this house now and do pashchataap and face all your anger and hatred'... I actually felt it was good he said it himself that these things wont be possible and you wont be living here forever cos I'm marrying shravani...so its better you don't expect all this and instead we go on our differentroutes now rather than reflect on the past and waste your life (precisely the advice we have all been giving Archu: to concentrate on job and school and not think of the past)... rather than not talking and giving her a corner in the house where she wud be silently suffering Savita's abuses... and three months later come to know thatManav was marrying shravani and silently sob andgo away...I dont know... even though it hurt Archu then, I thought it was good that he made things clear, it saved her from three months of agony... I thought he was right in thinking ek baar mein jhatka de do taaki roz roz takleef na ho...Whether it was wrong legally I dont know.. but life is so difficult that going by the rule book is very difficult at all times is what I feel... sometimes for the betterment of everyone you have to do the wrong thing.