The Fears of a Father - Aa Jao Saarey - Full Update Page 1 - Page 4

Originally posted by: tk2015

Ugh this much tragedy should come with a bloody disclaimer! I wouldn't have touched this story in the first place.

Does that mean though that Arya would grow up looking up to her sister with a reverence? Hearing so many stories would've surely impacted her.

Will she want to become like her or grow resentful of this person who isn't present but holds a piece of her parents' heart?

I don't think she'll be resentful. She's far too young to be so. Reverence maybe, but it might be more awe and fascination. Her big sister gets to travel the world so she may want to do the same. But given how she carries the police doll with her all the time, she may be fixed on wanting to be just like her dad instead.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

If he speaks to her in a dream, then it really wouldn't be him now would it? It will still be a part of Minnie's subconscious making that up for her. It's just that she has now morphed her wish to come out of his mouth and his words.

yes . but many here were predicting that HS in her dream will request her to go back and take care of her sister so if that happens it will not be minis subconsciousness

Originally posted by: naq5

even if he said he was scared of loosing her and even not talked about he wanting to be his father it would still have been ok. He should have stopped her from leaving early. why does she need to go and stay with someone in delhi all alone . he should have haq se stopped her. The thing is everyone thinks mini will handle it. but till when can she keep handing herself alone.

Also when she said that babita dosent want to have t do anything with ashoks part so she should go he should have tried to talk to her about it. Better still at this point if he would have told her she is his and imartis part she would have felt so much better

It was not about making her stay back forever it was about making her feel better about going. 2-3 days in patiala would have done her a load of good with things getting somewhat normal and some conversations after the huge fight in the night.

I know. That's why I said that even if he had mentioned even a fraction of what he was thinking, it would have been enough for her.

Jaana zaroori hai lekin itna bhaari dil leke jaana toh nayi.

She gave him an opportunity to lay a claim to her when she said, "Aur aap ki toh kuch lagti ni". He should have spoken up then and there but he kept quiet.

Originally posted by: naq5

yes but not like this. This isnt better for her. She needed a few more conversations with her mother, a reassurance that things were said in anger. even 4-5 days would have been good. The way she is going is not going to help her at all

I never said that her going this way is best for her. I'm talking about her overall departure being the right decision for her.

HS tried but he didn't give his 100%. He effed up by holding himself back. Babita just kept crying when she should have gone upstairs and talked to her. HS thinks he doesn't have any haq over Minnie, but what about Babita? Woh toh Maa hai na uski. Why couldn't she have gone upstairs and spoken with her? Usse kaunsi majboori rok ri thi?

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I know. That's why I said that even if he had mentioned even a fraction of what he was thinking, it would have been enough for her.

Jaana zaroori hai lekin itna bhaari dil leke jaana toh nayi.

She gave him an opportunity to lay a claim to her when she said, "Aur aap ki toh kuch lagti ni". He should have spoken up then and there but he kept quiet.

HS is an idiot. She was repeating what he said that i dont have a right over you. He should have got that she was hurt by that

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

I never said that her going this way is best for her. I'm talking about her overall departure being the right decision for her.

HS tried but he didn't give his 100%. He effed up by holding himself back. Babita just kept crying when she should have gone upstairs and talked to her. HS thinks he doesn't have any haq over Minnie, but what about Babita? Woh toh Maa hai na uski. Why couldn't she have gone upstairs and spoken with her? Usse kaunsi majboori rok ri thi?

well babita should have ideally spoken next day mini was too hurt by her then, she would have not got thorough her. It was HS who would have got through her as mini had some hopes from him

Originally posted by: naq5

yes . but many here were predicting that HS in her dream will request her to go back and take care of her sister so if that happens it will not be minis subconsciousness

We don't know how the dream sequence will play out so I won't comment on it.

As it is, initially both Babita and HS were to be in her dream. But because Paridhi didn't go, don't know if the writers changed the entire scene or they still worked around with what they had.

Originally posted by: naq5

HS is an idiot. She was repeating what he said that i dont have a right over you. He should have got that she was hurt by that

He was an idiot yesterday too. When he saw the letter burning, he should ran forward to salvage whatever little bit that he could.

Instead, he just stood to the side and let Babita do whatever she wanted. Things got to this extreme because he didn't step up in time.

In a way, he's like Dadu. He saw all the atrocities happening, but he never spoke up about it.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

He was an idiot yesterday too. When he saw the letter burning, he should ran forward to salvage whatever little bit that he could.

Instead, he just stood to the side and let Babita do whatever she wanted. Things got to this extreme because he didn't step up in time.

In a way, he's like Dadu. He saw all the atrocities happening, but he never spoke up about it.

true i said that yesterday too what was he doing standing. He has become too much of let babita do what she wants to do

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

His fear overpowered him. All he had to do was say it.

Literally, if he had spoken even a fraction of what he was thinking, she would have stayed. But because he didn't give her a reason to, she's now leaving.

Minnie's 'aap ki toh kuch nehi lagti' question to HS literally broke my heart.The girl was literally begging him to decline that.

But he didn’t get that.

Just the way HS said about how he has no right over her.He just wanted her to deny that.

The only time they needed to see Through their facade of pain,they both failed.That's so damn painful.