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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Thanks for sharing this!

My concern is that this mentality seems to belong to an older generation; perhaps something that Babita's parents will believe. I wouldn't be surprised if this was instilled into Babita as well. Then given the fact that Ashok was never around, she never had the freedom to express her desires for him. Even in their private times, we don't know how close they were, or how much Babita expressed to him. There still seemed to be a lot that she kept quiet.

Then the same thing with HS. It was all through silent communication that she expressed her love for him, never in blunt words.

I really do hope she breaks out of this mentality and truly starts expressing herself more. Otherwise, this is a really sad and in some ways, a horrifying state to live your life in.

She keeps asking HS to prove his love for her and for Minnie but she has yet to tell HS that she loves him.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Sometimes I just want Babita to let HS be so that he can have a moment of peace.

Me too. He needs a vacation.

Good episode, HS was spot on... didn’t like when mini said it hurts her a lot because HS n babes us se jhoot bolte Hain.... well in that case she’s in the same boat...

Babita kuch bhi keh le, Hanuman Mini do not take her seriously😆 Hanuman ki ghalat fehmi kabhi due nahi hogi😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It sucks that they're expecting HS to meet them. I get that they've been through a lot and what someone won't screw them over, but HS has been through a lot too. He also has some needs and wants of his own that he wants to be fulfilled but he doesn't hold it over their heads.

Agar ye baat woh dono samajh leti to baat hi kuch aur hoti.

They don't even see him. He's supposed to be there to fulfill all their dreams but what about his dream of having a family of his own? No one is thinking about that.

Mini kitne maze see har cheez mein apne aap ko right samajhti hai.. ye Wala confidence hOna chahie that when I was 18 years old

Originally posted by: divyadaya13

though mini and babita respect hs. But both need to value hs more. Inko heera mila hai par dono maa beti apne insecurities main hs ko taken for granted kar rahe hain. Mini bhi hs ka ek mistrust ko bhool nahi sakti but she herself had lost trust in hs when she came to know he loves her babes. She can trust that useless khuranas, but she has to understand that khuranas are opportunists (minus daadu).

@bold - exactly! The way she reacted then was just nuts. She conveniently forgot it though.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

It's funny how now she doesn't want any teesra in between her and HS when just a few weeks ago she yelled at HS for saying the same thing.

Maybe she finally gets what he meant the other day.

It's true. Husband and wife should have no third person interfering between them, not even kids. There's nothing wrong with thinking that way, and this is a good kind of selfish if Babita wants to feel that way, if you know what I mean.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Bold - exactly! Mini got away with the WHOLE crap she said to Babita. HS would've been mad if he'd heard that.

This wouldn't happen in personal life. I would've been kicked out if I dare said something like that.

I love the discipline part but I feel they're not in the right zone of feelings at the moment to learn from this. Mini will think he's being very rude to her and may distance herself even more. And Babita might not be able to speak up against his avatar which will make Mini feel that now her Babes wouldn't stand up for her.

Whatever it is, the writers have sure become sadistic AF.

This reminded me of the episode where he scolded Minnie and then scolded Babita when she wanted to go after Minnie to pacify her. 😆

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

But what did she even want? To have a happy, little family composed of the three of them? That's not too much ask, especially considering how that's what we wanted from them too.

Yes, but Minnie expected it to all fall magically in place, like some fairy tale.

Today she finally got that it needed work.