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Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

It was a beautiful scene between Hannie no doubt and I am so happy the misunderstanding is over and th grihapravesh happened. They are the integral part of the show as well.

However is it so necessary to sideline Babita and Hanita alway? Why the efff is everything about making Babita react immaturely to situations when she’s capable of making rational decisions? Why do they need to create drama in the expense of butchering Babita’s character? It pisses me off. Can someone tell me why should Babita forgive Khuranas? She was always a Mahaan bahu who was there to do their seva always, why should she care about them now when she’s already moved on from her past and the relationships? 🙄

I do not freaking want Khuranas in Babita’s life or Hanita’s life.

i am sincerely hoping that all this is to show that:

1. Jab bade apna badappan bhool jayein woh izaat ke haqdaar nahin hote. Insaan ki umar chahe kitni bhi ho jaaye, usko apne karmon ka phal bhugatna padta hai.
2. She doesn't have to be rude or mean to them, but she doesn't need to care for them or make them part of her life at all. It's her life, her wish.
3. Women who choose not to be mahaan and all-forgiving have every right to do so without being judged. Why must she take the beaten path and not the right one? She didn't forgive Ashok so why does she need to forgive his parents?
4. She will understand and acknowledge her failure in leaving that "marriage" and find a balance between blaming the Khuranas for the wrongs they actually did and holding herself accountable for the areas she could have done better in.

If the aren't going to show the above things then I have no clue what it is they are trying to do.

One day, HS and Minnie will just end up leaving the house when they are fed up and she will be left all alone.

I wouldn't want Khuranas in HS haveli for a single day.. I wish Babita would for once sunaofy Minni about what she said in precap but that's like impossible.. Bari Bari batein karna bohut asaan hai.. Mini always asked Babita to not pay heed to what ppl say.. but jab khud pe baat ayi tou what did she do? Did she not get affected by Kammo? Abhi she says Babita is herself responsible for not raising her voice against Khuranas.. but when dadu broke his relations with her she went into depression..

Originally posted by: shazam1

I agree. That wouldn’t be practical and they are not Babita’s responsibility. On humanitarian grounds help them find a house but not into her own home. She doesn’t need any ugly reminders of her old life- they were selfish all this time now she has a right to be too. Plus Minnie is the one who said Babes apne liye jee. She is also flip flopping like her mom now.

Yeah, it's not like NB's house is the only one in the city or moholla.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

But my main issue is if HS and Babita have to step up and take Senior Khuranas responsibility fir toh.. ata maji satakli.

I don't think HS will agree so easily. At least, I hope not. He is mighty pissed with them after Babita's outburst during the wedding.

Actually Babaita is the one who should move out and live away from HS haveli for a while.. maybe her catering takes her to another city.. at least Hanuman Mini can continue their baap beti jaap and Babita can. Be free to feel whatever she wants without being forced to feel guilty about it

Originally posted by: porankisrilata

Permanently shifting would be dumb act...

Khuranas have never treated Babita as their daughter... They do say but jab nibhane ki baari aayi to peeche ho Gaye... But stopping Minni from meeting her grandparents is wrong...

Babita hai hi aisi kitni baar bhi samjhao maan ke nahi deti... Impulsive go jaati hai had choti baat pe... Use calmly handle Karna nahi aata pehle khud raita phelati hai air pair khud saaf karti hai..

It’s not impulsive. I would react the same way. The same Khuranas who hide lovely’s disgusting ways, how do you trust them that they won’t bhadkao mini against Babita?

I wouldn’t trust them going by their past behavior. So Babita’s reaction is justified. They never treated her like Beti so why should she be mahaan.

Yes she should let Mini decide whether to keep a relation with her grandparents or not. But it’s ok. Mums are possessive. But she has to let Mini take her decisions. Babita will get there. Ek din mein to gyan nahi hota sab.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think HS will agree so easily. At least, I hope not. He is mighty pissed with them after Babita's outburst during the wedding.

I am hoping too. But given his reconciliation with Mini today, if Mini is sad he might step up to help them out for Mini’s happiness.

https://twitter.com/laxmi_mm/status/1177648151706124288?s=19

True that 😔

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

It’s not impulsive. I would react the same way. The same Khuranas who hide lovely’s disgusting ways, how do you trust them that they won’t bhadkao mini against Babita?

I wouldn’t trust them going by their past behavior. So Babita’s reaction is justified. They never treated her like Beti so why should she be mahaan.

Yes she should let Mini decide whether to keep a relation with her grandparents or not. But it’s ok. Mums are possessive. But she has to let Mini take her decisions. Babita will get there. Ek din mein to gyan nahi hota sab.

I also wonder if deep down she is worried about the Khuranas being a negative influence of Minnie, and their blood being too thick, so that she ends up learning the wrong philosophies about life, or worse still none at all. Looking at how Lovely and Ashok turned out, I won't be surprised if this is part of Babita's concern too.

Originally posted by: NimbuMirchi

I am hoping too. But given his reconciliation with Mini today, if Mini is sad he might step up to help them out for Mini’s happiness.

Yeah, he might think of an alternative that no one else did.

I know, get them to go live with Khatri... He had offered to help Minnie out, hadn't he?