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Posted: 6 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: inlieu

Was looking forward to read your post. Just read this and realized we've had similar thoughts about Kammo's future and the pre-cap!

I would like nothing better than to see her evolution and independence/split from Khatri but she needs to make amends with the people she hurt. It was nice to see that she still wanted to help them during the water shortage. I so hope she finds out about Khatri's deal with the water supplier and eventually everything else he's done.

Totally agree about the awkwardness and silences in Hanita's interactions as well as HS feeling shy seeing NB and Beeji. It's basically a loud and clear message not to expect physical intimacy between them any time soon. There will be a lot of these moments of hesitation when they start sharing a room.

I am loving this bullet points style a lot. Sorry I wanted to post a longer reply but couldn't. Promise to do one soon.

Yup could totally see that. There's gonna be lots of awkwardness and hesitation. Its gonna be interesting to see how they evolve as married couples, and as lovers now ๐Ÿ˜ณ

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Posted: 6 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: inlieu

For some reason the bit with HS saying he'd take care of the water shortage and that she need not worry seemed to be there to address our concerns about grown-ups not helping Minnie. Likewise with Pinku offering to help pay for it. I wondered once again if they were stalking the forum. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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Yesterday Minnie said dhain and today she did the countdown. She also asked Lala to help her, with the same haq that HS would have, even though there were tons of other people who could have done it.

Missed the BOLD .. But for the rest .. Yes .. To me .. she is her Daddy's (HS) girl .. talking like him, acting like him, wanting to be like him, doing things taught by him ..

It's all deliberate to counter what Kammo said. Plus, she behaved like HS himself would, or would have liked her to, in a crisis situation by trying to reason with people and dropping the idea of using 'violent' means to get them to back off. Neither of her biological parents can keep their heads cool in such situations, as we've seen with Ashok and yesterday with Babita, so she is totally taking after her real father. And before anyone jumps on me, I am not bashing Babita or her bond with Minnie. Merely talking about crisis management skills.

Yes she struggles with her DNA characteristics .. but her soul is that of HS .. selfless and tashan Wala

Also, the pre-cap seems to show that HS is going to start to tackle her insecurities regarding her place in her parents' lives by making the haveli officially her home, where she belongs, with her newlywed parents, rather than making it long-winded at this moment. It will also be public enough to shut everyone up so that no one dares to say anything about his daughter again. Of course, he truly means what he says in the pre-cap but there are additional reasons for taking this decision. He is also already starting to exercise his rights as a father by expressing what he wants from Minnie, not just for her happiness but also his own to welcome her into his home. It's an extension of his footprint comment.

Yes ..

Those deeper discussions can happen later on but for now he is applying some balm so that she begins this new phase of her life together with her parents, full of positivity. Smart boy!

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Posted: 6 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

the only thing I think was unnecessary was to say he will miss their friendship .. this is one relationship which he should've said need not end .. instead he could be her best friend for life and vice versa..

Yeahh, just becauase they're getting married, doesn't mean that their friendship needs to end. In fact, this is the one aspect of their relationship where they will thrive the most.

Word .. Noticed it but never acknowledged it .. They are so comfortable discussing life and emotions .. but when it comes to them they become quiet .. if I look at the other aspect of it .. they have not been in that proximity or appreciative environment since the departure of their respective spouses .. you get so involved with things around yourself that subconsciously you've forgotten what that feeling actually feels like .. he hesitates because she hesitates & is shy .. Somewhere both of them will need to spend more time .. That's how Babita's shyness will she'd off ..

That's true. This is why Minnie was pushing them to spend more time with one another. During the rooftop scene, when Babita finally makes it to the top and Minnie tells them both to talk, the awkward silence was massive. The only thing I could think of was, Talk about what? ๐Ÿค” They had muted whatever conversation they were having, but I doubt it was anything meaningful. It's going to take time for them to open up and get to know one another. Personally, I can't wait till they reach the level of comfort where they can share the tiniest details with each other without any sort of hesitation.

If not ominous .. heartbreaking for sure .. That realization has sunk inside her that this very well will be last time .. 17 years of living together and that's going to change .. Yes Kammo's words did the damage already .. But now there's no going back to correct those words but looking at precap, HShas already began taking steps towards rectifying the situation

That's HS though, and we know he will always put in the effort to keep his daughter safe and happy. But what is Babita going to do? As a mother, it must be tough to be put in a position where she has to reassure her daughter that she's not a kaata in her life. She had said the same but Minnie had dismissed it with a smile and was clearly not convinced by Babes' reassurances. I feel like they need to have a long heart to heart conversation with each other post marriage like the olden days.

I think I mentioned in @AreYaar's post .. that somewhere Kammo is not an out & out vile woman but it's her association/environment (Khatri) that made her say those things that she shouldn't have .. He is her husband, it cannot be denied .. given her mentality and from where she comes, she isn't in that space to break the marriage, drag/leave her child and walk out on him .. Hence, due to his vile acts, she will also have to bear the brunt of others as well .. perfect ladoo .. na ugal sakti hai na nigal sakti hai ..

Given she is unaware of his molestation stint .. I am glad she said in ignorance .. because that leaves the scope for redemption for her words .. And that time will come ..

Somewhere I feel .. CVs will let them have this conversation post wedding because somewhere she did show up for her haldi, she genuinely wanted to help during water crisis .. Babita was emotional when she put haldi on her .. I don't know who will say sorry to whom .. but maybe Minnie's problem will heal their wounds and somewhere her becoming aware of Khatri's stint hopefully makes her walk out on him with everything ..

Agreed. Woh kehte hai na, "sangat ka asar". It's the same thing with Kammo. I truly believe she is kind and good at heart but it gets stifled due to the kind of people around her. She may not have the guts to leave home like Minnie or fight for divorce like Babita, but she tries her best in whatever way she can. We have seen from the beginning of PB's days, not all women are strong. They all possess their own level of strengths and weaknesses and they're constantly fluctuating. Minnie, who has always not given two hoots about the world thinks, is now being haunted by their words. Babita, who has always suppressed her inner desires due to the fear of not meeting up to their expectations, is learning how to vocalize her wants. For Kammo, respect is everything. Right now, she sees her respect being intermingled with Khatri's. The day she no longer sees it that way, that's the day Khatri will be a goner.

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That was downright cute and hilarious .. I absolutely loved how NB was pretending to be shy and Beeji was kissing her cheek ..

They were adorable! Especially Naeem Bi! Although I have to say, watching Hanita just react to the performances was weird. I wanted them to interact with one another more. ๐Ÿ˜ณ

HS leaving now chance to appreciate her openly .. You can also say this is his consciously effort to make her feel appreciated, loved, cared for .. etc .. everything that put her insecurities to ease .. all the little things that matter when you are in love and for your lover..

Babita should be feeling over the moon! She had told HS that one of her fears was that she thinks she might not be pretty enough for him. Par yaha toh inki nazar hi ni hat ri. ๐Ÿ˜† Aahh, the happiness I feel for Babita is indescribable. She has finally found someone who will appreciate her and wouldn't leave any stone unturned to make sure she feels no less than a Queen.

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Posted: 6 years ago
#54

Although the episode was nice, I actually preferred the end of the previous episode where hs admitted to being nervous, and babita said something along the lines of โ€œwhatโ€™s there to be nervous about, weโ€™ve been married beforeโ€ and he said to her I have experience of a first marriage before but this is the second marriage, and itโ€™s the first second marriage heโ€™s going to have

I really liked this statement cos although theyโ€™ve both had the experience of marriage before, theyโ€™ve not had the experience of a second marriage. Most ppl would think cos theyโ€™ve been married before its nothing new, however IT IS NEW.

I am in awe of the actor that plays HS, I love his cheeky little smile

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Maybe they revisit this to retain the friendship .. they will need it to handle matters pertaining to their relationship..

True.. even I couldn't think of anything that they can talk about .. but then in their case actions and sounds have played a bigger role than words in daily routine .. whereas heavy words were only used to relay messages ..

Well in this case more than babita, HS assurance will help.. yes babes will also have to step up with her conviction to put Minnie's fears to rest .. sometimes when our own assure us, it feels less .. but the same thing said by someone else makes an impact .. actions, long heart to heart conversation .. whatever can create an impact


Word for word agreement .. every coin has two sides .. she has one side muddles with keechad .. and the other clean but with few sprinkles .. if she gets out of that keechad she too will be clean .. but to get out of it she will also need a jhatka and courage

In their defense they were in that moment and went with the flow .. moreover their romance has always been very private .. never public .. I think they are waiting for marriage to be over with to interact with one another ..

And hs-minnie is doing exactly that .. making her feel like a queen ..

On a side note we all have become extremely greedy & uncompromising with CV/PH .. it is only so much u can do within 20 mins .. 30 mins episodes in the middle didn't help either .. u always feel something is missing .. it's the time

Another thing - in our lives we can only see what's in front of our eyes not behind . Atleast in shows we r getting multiple tracks and it is only so much they can focus on .. I think we need to cut them some slack ..

In the days of forgotten concept and ekta serials .. these guys have done a wonderful job of sustaining 200+ episodes wowing us .. let's wait & watch they must have some tricks up their sleeves

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Posted: 6 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: inlieu

Was looking forward to read your post. Just read this and realized we've had similar thoughts about Kammo's future and the pre-cap!

I would like nothing better than to see her evolution and independence/split from Khatri but she needs to make amends with the people she hurt. It was nice to see that she still wanted to help them during the water shortage. I so hope she finds out about Khatri's deal with the water supplier and eventually everything else he's done.

Totally agree about the awkwardness and silences in Hanita's interactions as well as HS feeling shy seeing NB and Beeji. It's basically a loud and clear message not to expect physical intimacy between them any time soon. There will be a lot of these moments of hesitation when they start sharing a room.

I am loving this bullet points style a lot. Sorry I wanted to post a longer reply but couldn't. Promise to do one soon.

Thank you! ๐Ÿค— I've been missing your analytic posts too. ๐Ÿ˜ณ

I would've agreed with you until yesterday. After today's episode, I can't see her changing. I really doubt she would change her ways even after finding out Khatri tried to molest Babita. If anything, she might find a way to put all the blame on her. ๐Ÿคข

Hanita can take their own sweet time to get close to one another. ๐Ÿ˜ณ Mujhe koi jaldi ni hai. ๐Ÿ˜† Personally, I'm gonna enjoy them being cute, and sharmeele with one another a lot more than anything.

Haha, thank you! ๐Ÿค—

It's been inspired by you. ๐Ÿ˜ณ Your initial thoughts post, gave me a solid structural format to follow. It made it easier for me to pen down my thoughts scene by scene rather than them being all over the place. ๐Ÿ˜†

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Posted: 6 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: rivaanvira

Maybe they revisit this to retain the friendship .. they will need it to handle matters pertaining to their relationship..

Maybe. I don't see how a husband/wife's relationship needs to differ that greatly from friendship. I think you're blessed if you're able to get a best friend in your spouse.

True.. even I couldn't think of anything that they can talk about .. but then in their case actions and sounds have played a bigger role than words in daily routine .. whereas heavy words were only used to relay messages ..

Or maybe that's just the kind of couple they are. They're more than capable of bonding on little matters as was shown by their late night walk or them eating mangoes, but it's easier for them to do it when it's natural, not forced.

Well in this case more than babita, HS assurance will help.. yes babes will also have to step up with her conviction to put Minnie's fears to rest .. sometimes when our own assure us, it feels less .. but the same thing said by someone else makes an impact .. actions, long heart to heart conversation .. whatever can create an impact

Idk, I feel like it needs to happen in equal measures. Babita will have to be the one to ensure that she's not a kaata in her newly married life while HS will have to ensure Minnie that she's his daughter in all manners of the word, not just title.

Word for word agreement .. every coin has two sides .. she has one side muddles with keechad .. and the other clean but with few sprinkles .. if she gets out of that keechad she too will be clean .. but to get out of it she will also need a jhatka and courage

Kammo Rani will have to do something very big to make up for what she did. Itna saara zeher ugal ri hai ki kya bataoon. I'm really disappointed with her.

In their defense they were in that moment and went with the flow .. moreover their romance has always been very private .. never public .. I think they are waiting for marriage to be over with to interact with one another ..

I don't mean it in a romantic context per say. Just having some more Hanita scenes in general would have been very nice. It is their wedding after all.

On a side note we all have become extremely greedy & uncompromising with CV/PH .. it is only so much u can do within 20 mins .. 30 mins episodes in the middle didn't help either .. u always feel something is missing .. it's the time

I agree with you to a certain extent. We've had 20 mins episodes before and they've always balanced the material out well. The thing with PB is that it's not structured like most shows. Their pacing is smooth and natural, and they don't dwell on a certain topic for very long. For example, if in the hands of other PHs, the Jaggo confrontation could have lasted the entire episode. Instead, PB spent about five to eight mins on it and then moved on. Or in today's episode, they showed so many different things: the bath scene, Khatri being a leech and getting the CD, the three evil witches talking, the chooda, the lehenga, and the mother-son conversation which has obviously been left in the middle.

Tbh, even if the show had been an hour long, it still wouldn't feel like it's enough. ๐Ÿ˜†

Another thing - in our lives we can only see what's in front of our eyes not behind . Atleast in shows we r getting multiple tracks and it is only so much they can focus on .. I think we need to cut them some slack ..

This is true but we can only judge the content we are given. A smart audience can read between the lines but for that too, they can only work with what they're given.

In the days of forgotten concept and ekta serials .. these guys have done a wonderful job of sustaining 200+ episodes wowing us .. let's wait & watch they must have some tricks up their sleeves

Yup! I don't have a major problem with the show or the writers. I'm more focused on the characters and how they're dealing with the situations they land themselves in.

Edited by asmaanixx - 6 years ago

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