Patiala Babes enters a new phase - writers of PB comment - Page 2

Originally posted by: guddi01

I have always said that Babita was to blame for the failure of her Marriage, as it takes 2 to clap and Babita was too busy in playing the ideal daughter in law and not ideal Wife.

But I want her to sort out her feelings and insecurities first with HS or Mini before she marries HS so that she gives herself and HS and Mini a second chance in life as it does not come around all the time and Mini sure does not deserve this again.

I was one of the very few who saw through Babita and did not blame Ashok or Mita for the breakdown of her Marriage being one sided only.

But really she needs to talk openly and not to flip and flop otherwise its going to be a disaster for them all.

I think her flip flopping isn't going away any time soon. Just wait till HS has to deal with it. He won't be that tolerant, I feel. The thing is, a lot of these issues won't even surface until after the marriage so I feel we will see them then. Plus, Minnie will have to learn that couples who love each other may fight too, as long as the issues are not fundamentally conflicting or going on for long periods of time.

Originally posted by: sheen97

I am having feeling that they will go zindagi gulzar hai way. It was most realistic and best show that teaches so many things about life . Finally we will.get to watch in india. There also the main problem between kashaf and zaroon was communication and their insecurities. Here also the main thing is communication. No doubt hanita are perfect for each other, but they never communicate, they never share their doubts , their insecurities and both tend to decide for the other. I think the problem between ashok and babita would have been communucation and lack of time . Babita must have indulged herself so much in caring for family and mini that she somewhere must have neglected ashok, that is why he fell for meeta bcz he must have got attention and love that he desired from meeta but that doesnt mean he was right.

I know there will be problems as it is realistic show but i want major issues to be covered before the wedding bcz after their past both deserve a peaceful marriage where their will not be so much issues, i want their love to succeed and dont want them to regret their desicion of marriage and also i dont want mini to again lose faith in marriage and relationships and again see her parents fighting

Yeah, I say bring it on. They shouldn't regret it because disagreements are part of marriage but the problem is if Babita goes in thinking it's all going to be a bed of roses then she will be upset and will be disappointed. The problem with rushing into marriage right now might mean that they don't have time to understand each other's expectations so it can lead to confusion and surprises later on.

Very excited. Only yesterday I was discussing with Mom that now finally everything seems settled so what can be shown next? I'm glad there's a lot to show and a lot of myths to break. And a lot of progress to make. This is just the beginning! A new fresh one <3

Again, so proud.

I'm at a loss of words how elaborately and intricately they've planned this out.

Like WOW😳

I can't even fully understand it all right now but I'm sure the following episodes would be explaining the various colors of love and life. And Jean ke analysis helping us out with covering the unsaid. <3

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, I say bring it on. They shouldn't regret it because disagreements are part of marriage but the problem is if Babita goes in thinking it's all going to be a bed of roses then she will be upset and will be disappointed. The problem with rushing into marriage right now might mean that they don't have time to understand each other's expectations so it can lead to confusion and surprises later on.

I feel that she took this desicion very carefully. I feel that initially she was running away bcz she after failed marriage she wanted.perfection but after chat with nam bi she finally came to terms with it that will have ti compromise .bcz after her first failed marriage she will give this marriage her all dhr can .

I come from a family where remarriage is strongly supported and encouraged for those who are widowed or divorced. Like literally up and down the family.

The extended family also helps with setting expectations and adjusting to the new atmosphere, especially when kids are involved. Trust me, I have seen so many varieties and flavors and types of issues, that I can relate to what KK is saying in their tweets.

I am also very fortunate that women in my family are told at the time of the wedding, the day he first raises his hand is the day you call us and walk out or we come and get you. Newly-wed women are closely looked after just to spot early signs of abuse if any, that includes emotional abuse too. For those who go live in another country, they always have a return ticket booked in their name and are asked to always keep a packed emergency bag so that they can run out the door in a hurry if required. Some people might think this is a bit much but on the other hand the girl gets married feeling quite secure and knowing what her options are.

Also, if women are not happy in their marriage, even if there isn't any abuse, then they are encouraged to think about moving on and not waste their time in a loveless, pointless marriage if they don't want to.

Originally posted by: sheen97

I feel that she took this desicion very carefully. I feel that initially she was running away bcz she after failed marriage she wanted.perfection but after chat with nam bi she finally came to terms with it that will have ti compromise .bcz after her first failed marriage she will give this marriage her all dhr can .

Yes, and HS is very understanding. He saw up close how her marriage had ended. He will always give her space. I'm not saying there will be lots of fights. Likely not, but it won't be smooth sailing all the time either. Besides, woh roothe gi to HS manaayega apne tareeqe se and vice versa. This was something she had always craved from Ashok but never got.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

Very excited. Only yesterday I was discussing with Mom that now finally everything seems settled so what can be shown next? I'm glad there's a lot to show and a lot of myths to break. And a lot of progress to make. This is just the beginning! A new fresh one <3

Again, so proud.

Me too, super proud to be a fan of this show and the entire team.

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

I'm at a loss of words how elaborately and intricately they've planned this out.

Like WOW😳

I can't even fully understand it all right now but I'm sure the following episodes would be explaining the various colors of love and life. And Jean ke analysis helping us out with covering the unsaid. <3

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Well Naeem Bi also said very wise words about carpe diem, seize the day, seize the moment and also spoke about how permanency is just a chimera. To seize the moment even if it is transient. Do you think she was being prophetic??

I wonder if Babita has really understood the depth of all that.

Still busy. So sad can't elaborate.