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Originally posted by: asmaanixx

Watched the episode. In some parts it was amazing and hilarious and in others thoda peekha sa.

Dunno who that woman is and how she's gonna figure into Babes' life but I hope it's something positive.

Minnie's wish of wanting some happiness after all that rona dhona is echoed by all of us. Please hamari baat sun lena Babita. 🙏🏼

Saach mein.. Mini ne hum sab ke dil ki baat kehdi.

I feel that woman is either Babita's friend poonam or some other friend.

Originally posted by: inlieu

This is why I love the direction the story is taking. That each pair has their own equation makes it interesting but also confusing. Sure, HS has said he was her father and it was in holy settings, but what about the legal angle? There is still something lacking there. If he had married Babita it would give it some concrete framework. Not that he has to marry her, either. If Hanita never happen then does it make him feel insecure about Minnie? Of course it does.

I know that Minnie and HS have accepted each other as father-daughter but something tells me that there will be challenges there as her loyalty is questioned and she is torn between her parents. The way she has been pampering him and being all kid-like, just enjoying being his little princess set off alarm bells in my head. She had told Babita that she would support her in fighting back or standing up for herself because of what HS said, which I completely understand and is in line with what I would expect her to do.

While Babita still thinks of herself as a tenant more than part of this family, Minnie no longer does. Financial transactions, i.e. paying rent are handled by her mother but for all intents and purposes she is just living in her father's house now, in her home. She knows she belongs with him.

Yes, she can be quite mature but to be in a family unit is something she has craved since she was a child. What happens between Hanita is not really in her control and it's possible this dream of hers never comes true. I know it will be painful for her and she will go through more trauma if the separation is indeed long and difficult. Leaving home with Babita will mean one thing in terms of her standing up for her mother's and her own pride as she had said, but it will also be very very tough for her because she won't see herself leaving as a tenant. She will be leaving her father, and the right to be his life day in, day out. Just when he was saying to her in the hospital that they would still have their strong bond of friendship if they moved out and he would be the 4 am type of friend, her heart was already breaking. They are not just friends anymore. This is not the same Minnie anymore who was adamant about leaving home with her Babes and rashly fighting with HS and throwing words like ehsaan and tenant on his face. They have gone way beyond that since.

After the way she got him to stop drinking and helped him deal with Imarti's memories, the way she hugged him yesterday... Oh boy! I don't know if I can see her crying and pining for a father's love again. She has shown remarkable growth and progress and I don't want her to have to be lonely in the coming days. Babita might adore her but she is not in the right headspace to provide Minnie what she needs right now, a carefree life as a college student. I have a feeling deep down Minnie is a bit insecure too that if Babita leaves and this "family unit" that she pictures breaks apart, she will feel at sea again.

The legal aspect is what I was trying to get at when I was talking about his hesitation. He may consider himself as Minnie's father but legally he has no rights over her. He can't make her stay behind, just request it. It'll be entirely in Minnie's hand as to where she wants to go.

When it comes to her and Babe's pride, Minnie will always be with her. But I hope Babes at least attempts to speak to HS before just throwing their departure in his face.

One thing I noticed in the episode was when HS was telling SS how he wouldn't be alone, he only mentioned Lala and Naeem Bi. Babes and Minnie weren't even alluded to. It was a bit odd considering how he had referred to Minnie as his daughter the night before and had even sworn off drinking for her sake.

All this constant separation, displacement of homes, broken hopes and promises - none of it is good for her mental health. Minnie needs stablitily right now and she was getting it with the 3 of them together. Shifting to a new place, away from her father she had just gained is the last thing she needs right now.

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Saach mein.. Mini ne hum sab ke dil ki baat kehdi.

I feel that woman is either Babita's friend poonam or some other friend.

Whoever the woman is I feel she has an important role to play in the Hanita dynamic. I have not understood yet about where are we going with this but they have to begin with Hanita story at some point

Originally posted by: Cinnamon_Kisses

Whoever the woman is I feel she has an important role to play in the Hanita dynamic. I have not understood yet about where are we going with this but they have to begin with Hanita story at some point

She has this certain level of confidence that I liked. She won't settle for anything less and will only take what she wants and is happy with. Not to mention she called HS out on his flirting.

Both things that Babes has done the opposite of. She doesn't have the confidence to go after what she wants (HS) and is settling on less (career and daughter). (Not that Minnie and her job isn't important, but the point is that she could be having a lot more but she's not grabbing the chances for it). Then there's the fact that she didn't call HS on his hurtful words. Despite everyone telling her why he did it, she still hasn't confronted him about it. Not all the advances he made towards her nor him pushing her away.

Originally posted by: Cinnamon_Kisses

Whoever the woman is I feel she has an important role to play in the Hanita dynamic. I have not understood yet about where are we going with this but they have to begin with Hanita story at some point

Exactly! I think thats what majority of us are saying. They gotta move forward with Hanita's storyline now. If they don't, they are just dragging it, and honestly what else can they show now, besides moving forward with Hanita's storyline.

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

The legal aspect is what I was trying to get at when I was talking about his hesitation. He may consider himself as Minnie's father but legally he has no rights over her. He can't make her stay behind, just request it. It'll be entirely in Minnie's hand as to where she wants to go.

When it comes to her and Babe's pride, Minnie will always be with her. But I hope Babes at least attempts to speak to HS before just throwing their departure in his face.

One thing I noticed in the episode was when HS was telling SS how he wouldn't be alone, he only mentioned Lala and Naeem Bi. Babes and Minnie weren't even alluded to. It was a bit odd considering how he had referred to Minnie as his daughter the night before and had even sworn off drinking for her sake.

All this constant separation, displacement of homes, broken hopes and promises - none of it is good for her mental health. Minnie needs stablitily right now and she was getting it with the 3 of them together. Shifting to a new place, away from her father she had just gained is the last thing she needs right now.

Yes, he didn't mention Minnie because he is still insecure if she is his. He has already decided he will be her father 100% but cannot be certain that it will be same the other way round. I also feel that one of the reasons he is maintaining a distance from Babita is that he doesn't want their fights to affect his equation with Minnie.

He has to apologize to Babita, because that's what he would normally do, but whether she stays or not is her decision. Yes, Minnie needs stability and as you can see her anger management has been slowly improving. I really don't want her to go back into depression. They never quite completed that track and we kind of all forgot about it but the therapist had wanted them to keep an eye on her progress. I know she supported HS recently but that took a toll on her. She went through a lot of pain in that process. Yes, we may see her having fun and trying to relax a little but the impact on her mind is something to consider. Perhaps this is coming up as a future track. At least, I hope it will.

The whole Babita trying to leave the Haveli can work this way round ... She wants to leave but Minnie doesn't want to go ... VB suffers because of babes and so Hanuman asks Babita to stop for the sake of his daughter ... I am actually afraid for Minnie ... If babes continues to remain rigid ... She might need to go and see a counselor again

Originally posted by: LoveInAutumn26

Exactly! I think thats what majority of us are saying. They gotta move forward with Hanita's storyline now. If they don't, they are just dragging it, and honestly what else can they show now, besides moving forward with Hanita's storyline.

There is content in Hanita's frustration and confusion too but what's with all the silent dragging?

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes, he didn't mention Minnie because he is still insecure if she is his. He has already decided he will be her father 100% but cannot be certain that it will be same the other way round. I also feel that one of the reasons he is maintaining a distance from Babita is that he doesn't want their fights to affect his equation with Minnie.

He has to apologize to Babita, because that's what he would normally do, but whether she stays or not is her decision. Yes, Minnie needs stability and as you can see her anger management has been slowly improving. I really don't want her to go back into depression. They never quite completed that track and we kind of all forgot about it but the therapist had wanted them to keep an eye on her progress. I know she supported HS recently but that took a toll on her. She went through a lot of pain in that process. Yes, we may see her having fun and trying to relax a little but the impact on her mind is something to consider. Perhaps this is coming up as a future track. At least, I hope it will.

yes i completely agree. Mini has been through a lot past few months & since a child never seen dads love. she suddenly has found a father whom she can call her own. Babita should be actually thinking about her right now. a few days back she was asking mini if she was ignoring her but actually she is now. Did she ask Mini if she wants to move out, if she is happy doing it. She is taking a decision on her behalf too. i dont like the way parents treat kids like property. And here when an important decision has to be made babita wont take initiative . it is mini who has to take it and make decisions. And suddenly out of the blue she will suddenly decide that she is mother and take a decision without involving mini. I am actually not sure if babita has it in her to make the right decisions, that is why someone like a Hanuman is needed in minis life. I feel there is not much of a difference in their ages. Some children at 18 years have Younger siblings being born while babita became a mother at that age. I think they both should be discussing among themselves like adults before taking a decision for each other like that.

I just realised... that they haven't spoken properly ever since he left the Haveli with the bottle in his hand. Cause what happened in the next to next morning can't be considered as a talk.

It's been like 4 days in the show that they haven't talked!