Truly disgusted with Hanuman Singh - Page 4

Originally posted by: Mishti_Dahi

That's totally possible. Cause there are segments of him and NB at her place maybe the next morning.

Yes, Naeem Bi is going to talk some sense into him next morning. He will be moved, will think about everything and then go home to find Minnie, Mickey, and NB prodding him to express his feelings for Babita.

Originally posted by: Lakshs

Same here...I wasn't going to comment but seeing all the negativity so quickly is sad.

Anyone giving up alcohol just like that and being subdued just like that is a wrong message....there is work involved even if it isn't about he giving up alcohol. And here his eyes are merely stating love passion and pain of controlling and staying away. Perhaps also is seeking help to take his pains of his past away. It is not easy to forget the past even is he has found something new and beautiful ... remember he did love his first wife and unborn child too

I know this because of personal experience....so this serial is being more realistic rather than "reel"istic!!

Totally agree with what you said. The drinking is a symptom. The actual problem lies elsewhere, and until that is solved nothing will change. He seemed to be fully in his senses so the pain must be burning him right now. The pain of wanting her so badly but not being able to do much about, of having to battle against all the signals and situations, the loss of his wife and child, and of course the major heartache he has been living with since his childhood regarding his mother's death.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

I dont know how can we end up comparing HS with Ashok. We need to know, that HS has had a worse past than Babita. His wife DIED WHILE GIVING BIRTH. It's not that easy to move on. Neither did his child escape, nor his wife. We think that it is only Babita who has suffered a lot in life. But, HS has too. You cannot expect him to move on in life, when there is no one to even ask him how he feels. There were many people in Babita's life, who helped her get out of the problem that she actually faced. But, HS had no one. And, I am sure there are many better ways of explaining why alcohol should not be consumed, rather than continually throwing his glass. Hanuman, has always explained in such a manner where Babita realises what she is doing is wrong. Similar is in this case. Not all the time, we can expect a person (HS) to be perfect. And if she keeps irritating him, this is how he would react. Learn to accept a person with imperfections. And if it bothers you so much, try to find a way to get out of this problem rather than bashing him. And please, to all who are telling what he is doing is wrong, please let us watch the Monday's episode and then jump to conclusions....

At the risk of offending some people, I would say HS has suffered far more than Babita and Minnie have, and then wanting them both in his life has caused him further pain, especially with Babita blowing hot and cold.

It's all about Babita accepting him for who he is and then choosing him in spite of that. I think he is also a bit tired of Babita displaying her anger and telling him off in this way, jumping to conclusions without understand the reason behind his actions.

Originally posted by: inlieu

At the risk of offending some people, I would say HS has suffered far more than Babita and Minnie have, and then wanting them both in his life has caused him further pain, especially with Babita blowing hot and cold.

It's all about Babita accepting him for who he is and then choosing him in spite of that.

Yes, that's exactly what I am saying. Its upto Babita to accept him, knowing his flaws....

Originally posted by: inlieu

At the risk of offending some people, I would say HS has suffered far more than Babita and Minnie have, and then wanting them both in his life has caused him further pain, especially with Babita blowing hot and cold.

It's all about Babita accepting him for who he is and then choosing him in spite of that. I think he is also a bit tired of Babita displaying her anger and telling him off in this way, jumping to conclusions without understand the reason behind his actions.

Yes, same as what I mentioned. He needs someone who can explain properly. Rather than showing her dominance over him, explain in a manner, where it is understandable.

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Yes, same as what I mentioned. He needs someone who can explain properly. Rather than showing her dominance over him, explain in a manner, where it is understandable.

I don't think Babita is mature enough to do that yet, frankly. Even when it comes to disciplining Minnie she yells and becomes harsh. HS had pointed that out to her before, too.

Originally posted by: rose1000

I guess nowadays people tend to take this feminism too far.

The difference between HS holding her like that and Ashok holding like that is the same as day and night.

There are times when a child is doing something wrong, and a parent grabs the hand of the child roughly. Does that mean the parent does not love the child?

When Ashok grabbed Babita's hand, he had hatred in his eyes. He gave the vibe..Main tumse nafrat karta hoon

In this pre cap HS's eyes are soft and has pain. There is no hatred or anger. Here HS gives the vibe....kay aapko pata nahin kirayedarniji main aapse kitna pyar karta hoon

Just my opinion. I did not want to comment. But seeing all the negativity, I could not stop myself.

No offence to anyone.

I think it was also a mentor-student think. He knows she's not ready for any of it yet, neither his passion, nor his pain. She is just adding fuel to fire burning inside him. Let's find out why he's drinking in the first place, that too at home.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't think Babita is mature enough to do that yet, frankly. Even when it comes to disciplining Minnie she yells and becomes harsh. HS had pointed that out to her before, too.

Not necessarily Babita. I even meant NaemBi. Babita being the immature and predictable woman that she is, may feel jealous of Imarti. He must tell what he feels to NaemBi, because she is like his mother. And, if she is going to bring these two together, it's her duty to solve the indifferences as well. Lale is just a person who would make HS feel even worse. In my opinion it is either NaemBi or senior citizen....

Originally posted by: Nature-Happiness

Not necessarily Babita. I even meant NaemBi. Babita being the immature and predictable woman that she is, may feel jealous of Imarti. He must tell what he feels to NaemBi, because she is like his mother. And, if she is going to bring these two together, it's her duty to solve the indifferences as well. Lale is just a person who would make HS feel even worse. In my opinion it is either NaemBi or senior citizen....

NB knows how he feels, knows exactly why he drinks. I think she might tell Babita about Imarti and the unborn child but not necessarily about his mother. Gosh I still remember how heartbreaking it was to hear him talking about his mother to Minnie. He still tears up about it and you can hear the guilt and the pain wracking him.

I think NB should continue to gently nudge them when required and guide them to each other, but they both have to do some heavy lifting themselves.