was rakhi right in her behaviour and what she said - Page 2

Originally posted by: Beenish.Fatima

MAZA lana means clubing & enjoyment . so she just in tafree mode say this but yeah i know its not good to ask him like that but rakhi make whole conversation worst.

My dear its 'cant' for something else which I have already mentioned and a whole lot of people have interpreted it in that way..not as clubbing,maybe she didn't know about it...

Rakhi is playing the girl's mom here. She has every right to discipline her. She is not here as an item girl. So let us leave her profession out of this discussion. Should a teen say all the things she did to her parents? Apparently not. Even if the said parent has had past g/f or b/f that does not mean the teen gets the right to ridicule that and demand that he/she also is allowed to have them. Rakhi said correctly, first act like an adult and ask for the privileges of one. A girl who demands things like a kid, throws up tantrums like a kid cannot suddenly turn around and demand she be treated as an adult. The girl wants to be treated with respect and spoken to politely but has she done what she expects from others.

Originally posted by: ishtar

I think Rakhi was right,that girl Sakshi is screwed up.Unless she wasn't bought up in India she should be fully aware of what she said and I am not talking about swear words.Its the way language plays out...
she said to Elesh" aapki aathvi girl friend hai ...aapne toh maze liye hai mast wale"
that doesn't seem like a relationship question more like questions on his sex life.
That is what shocked Rakhi..and I don't think any girl will talk like that to her dad.

yh she seems so fake talking in that high pitched irritating voice and shes taking advantage of the situation even though she clearly knows theyre not her real mum n dad...

That girl is sick!🤢
I wish Rakhi breaks her bones!Sakshi is just too much and deserves it!🤢

Rakhi has a different tale to tel everytime...rite now she might be saying something but the very next moment she wud have a diff thing to say..such a hypocrate and downmarket woman...😡

Originally posted by: aurorarose786

Do u agree with what rakhi said and how she behaved with her teen?I felt sorry for her because it seemed like she had a total shock and it wasnt right that her teen mentioned Elesh's girlfriends....i think she got hurt she treats him as though he is already her hubby and any women wouldnt want to hear about her hubbies past......i dont know why i felt for the teen too ..when she said i want to have fun the way u did elesh(or whatever she said )...i think she just meant she wants to be loved and know what its like to be loved but perhaps no...t since she seems like an immature teenager...is she seriously a model or what?...she behaves like a bimbo...

Rakhi is right. First thing of a household is respect for parents, and love amongst all.

The child could simply say i would also like to have a boyfriend etc. BUT NOT DEGRADE FATHER OR MOTHER'S CHARACTER.

Just because she knew through the shows that Elesh had affairs. But otherwise which child would know the secrets of life of their parents.

Rakhi was absolutely right, no mother will allow the child to insult or talk bad about the fathere, how much even in realty the father may be have done some wrong. . It is beween the father and mother to solve their life issues. THE CHILD CANNOT INTERFERE IN SUCH THINGS. SHE CANNOT SAY JUST BEC YOU HAD I MUST HAVE AND ENJOY ETC. ETC . andd if you encourage the child in such talks he/she will get spoilt and hence the mother has to ensure that otherwise it becomes difficult to bring up the child well and the father will have no say as he would be insulted every now and then . SO THE MOTHER NEEDS TO ENSURE THAT THEY SPEAK GOOD OF THEIR HUSBANDS TO THE CHILD . OR THE CHILD MAY HATE THE FATHER ON GROWING UP AND THEN IT WOULD BE DIFFICULT FOR THE MOTHER TO CONTROL THINGS.

She could have asked politely the permission, which RAKHI ANSWERED AND SAID YES YOU CAN HAVE LET US KNOW I WILL ALLOW YOU. RAKHI OBJECTED TO THE POINT THAT SHE SAID ELESH ENJOYED ETC, ETC, WHICH A I CHILD CANNOT SPEAK TO THE FATHER EVEN IF HE HAD. THAT IS WHAT THE RESPECT, LOVE OF A HOUSEHOLD SHOULD BE. AND CHILDREN NEEDS TO LEARN THESE BASICS THINGS OR ELSE THE HOUSE WILL BECOME A KURUKSHETRA.

I FULLY AGREE WITH RAKHI AND ELESH . BOTH ARE VERY VERY GOOD PARENTS

Originally posted by: crazymonkey

that girl is DISGUSTINGLY spoiled. she has no manners

it wasnt really about the money issue, its more about once ur rents put a limit or try to explain something why does she have to scream and act like a kid.

Sakshi sounded promiscous wen she spoke to Elesh that way, like she just ruinied her own rep on national tv

She curses and talks rudely as if its casual...HELLO DUMBO THERE ARE PPL OF ALL AGES WATCHING THIS SHOW INCLUDING KIDS!

rakhi did go to the parlor, but think about it guys she didnt wash her hair for days and also they are all working their butts off (RMR WHEN RAKHI WENT TO WORk) so you CANT compare pocket money for simple chores to actual hard work

and obiously SAKSHI DID NOT EARN that money she barely did anything, she complained more..pshh no wonder they didnt wanna give her more. UNGRATEFUL!

I fully agree. First of all this show is how a parent should be for different age groups child. It is not about the celebrities and their lives. They have taken the celebrities so that people will watch it. If i and you go nobody will watch it. This show has a lesson to learn for children and parents. So they bring such children, to show how you should handle them . May be they asked Sakshi to behave that way for now a days these are household issues, like pocket money, clubs, boyfriends. SO THE SHOW IS TRYING TO TEACH VIEWERS HOW THESE ISSUES COULD BE HANDLED AND HOW THESE COUPLES ALSO LEARNING TO HANDLE WITH EACH OF THEM FROM DIFFERENT UPBRINGING ETC.

You should not compare what the mother does or father does the child also should do the same things like beauty parlour etc. Okay if a working mother is earning she definatelty needs to look herself presentable at work and if she spends somthing out of her own income nobody should question her .She has the full right, not that she is depriving the child from having her age things. If sports, music,, tuition, even clothes of gtheir choice nowadays , but the child cannot ask more money for pocket money, as we do not know they may go into drugs. INSTEAD BUY THINGS AND GIVE OR PUT THEM INTO ACTIVIITES ALL WHATEVER THEY ARE GOOD AT TO KEEP THEM OCCUPIED . ALL PARENTS CANNOT AFFORD TO SPEND ON POCKET MOENTY AND HENCE SHOULD NOT BE COMPARED. ETC. THE CHILD MAY BE FROM MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY AND MAY HAVE A RICH FRIEND AND WANTS TO DO WHATEVER HE DOES OR PURCHASES. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE

THEN THE CHILD ALSO SHOULD CO-OPERATE IN OTHER THINGS THAT THE PARENTS ASK THEM TO DO. IT SHOULD BE JUSTIFIED AND NOT ONLY DEMANDING ALL THE TIME.

Originally posted by: Opti

Rakhi is playing the girl's mom here. She has every right to discipline her. She is not here as an item girl. So let us leave her profession out of this discussion. Should a teen say all the things she did to her parents? Apparently not. Even if the said parent has had past g/f or b/f that does not mean the teen gets the right to ridicule that and demand that he/she also is allowed to have them. Rakhi said correctly, first act like an adult and ask for the privileges of one. A girl who demands things like a kid, throws up tantrums like a kid cannot suddenly turn around and demand she be treated as an adult. The girl wants to be treated with respect and spoken to politely but has she done what she expects from others.

As to the money part, I agree with Rakhi. Just because other couples paid their wards more does not mean she has to do the same. The teen hardly did anything around the house. So even the 100 bucks is a bonus for her. Rakhi spent some money on herself. so what is wrong in that. She has been working very hard and deserves to pamper herself once in a while. She has had to do much more than the other couples in the show, throwing a pyjama party for all the kids and later keeping an eye on the teens when they were partying.

I am not a fan of Rakhi's but the way she has handled the kids so far really impressed me.

Absolutely right. I fully agree. SHE AND ELESH WOULD BE GOOD PARENTS. RAKHI HAS BEEN BROUGHT UP VERY STRICTLY ONCE SHE MENTIONED HER UNCLE BIT HER HAND WITH A FOOTSCALE AND SHE BROKE HER THUMB BEC SHE WAS DANCING. SHE GOT HER BOY FRIEND ETC. ONLY AT VERY LATER AGE NOT AT 19 THAT TOO AFTER WORKING HARD AND EARNING MONEY AND NOT ASKED MONEY FROM PARENTS TO SPEND ON BOYFRIEND.

I DO NOT WANT THEM TO BREAK UP. RAKHI IS VERY SENSITIVE TOO. I THINK SHE FELT IN FUTURE HER OWN CHILDREN MAY SPEAK SUCH THINGS IF THEY WATCH THE SWAMBAR SHOW. ELESH WAS HONEST BUT COULD HAVE KEPT QUITE ON THESE TTHINGS.

ELESH IS ONLY GOOD FOR HER AND VERY TOLERANT, UNDERSTANDING HER WELL. SHE SHOULD NOT BREAK UP. HE IS BROUGHT UP OUTSIDE INDIA AND HENCE BROAD MINDED. BOYS FROM HERE MAY NOT LOOK UPON RAKHI . INSTEAD I FIND SHE ALL THE TIME TAUNTING ELESH THIS IS INDIA , AND INDIAN GIRLS ARE LIKE THIS AND OUR CULTURE THIS AND THAT. POOR ELESH... BUT HE IS GOOD TO HER. SHE SHOULD MARRY HIM ONLY. HE HAS UNDERSTOOD HER. SHE MAY BE AFRAID HE MAY LOOSE INTEREST IN HER AND LEAVE HER. THAT WORRIES HER.

BUT EARLIER AFFAIRS THE GIRLS WERE FROM ABROAD AND SO THOSE WERE DIFF ISSUES MAY BE , SOME MAY HAVE BEEN JUST INFATUATION. ETC RAKHI SHOULD NOT WORRY FOR THAT

Originally posted by: uzair08

At one point Rakhi said that she is making me do all the work like putting oil on her head and all, she said she remembered Sia like she was talking about Sia k mujhe toh Sia yaad aagayi aisa laga k Sia badi hogayi hai dont u all think she was bringing Sia in btwn for no reason at all.

I mean k woh beachari bachchi ka kya dosh? usko kyun laa rhai hai beech mein rakhi?

sia was a little girl she cudnt do al her personal things like tying her hair. and rakhi was comparing sakshi to sia. I think she was bringing sia for no reason at all.

What Rakhi meant was that the way she used to look after Sia (the kid), so again she has the girl who behaves as if she is the same age as Sia who cannot look after herself, Rakhi has to do all the work for her. A teenager is supposed to do her own work.

Originally posted by: anjalibc

I fully agree. First of all this show is how a parent should be for different age groups child. It is not about the celebrities and their lives. They have taken the celebrities so that people will watch it. If i and you go nobody will watch it. This show has a lesson to learn for children and parents. So they bring such children, to show how you should handle them . May be they asked Sakshi to behave that way for now a days these are household issues, like pocket money, clubs, boyfriends. SO THE SHOW IS TRYING TO TEACH VIEWERS HOW THESE ISSUES COULD BE HANDLED AND HOW THESE COUPLES ALSO LEARNING TO HANDLE WITH EACH OF THEM FROM DIFFERENT UPBRINGING ETC.

You should not compare what the mother does or father does the child also should do the same things like beauty parlour etc. Okay if a working mother is earning she definatelty needs to look herself presentable at work and if she spends somthing out of her own income nobody should question her .She has the full right, not that she is depriving the child from having her age things. If sports, music,, tuition, even clothes of gtheir choice nowadays , but the child cannot ask more money for pocket money, as we do not know they may go into drugs. INSTEAD BUY THINGS AND GIVE OR PUT THEM INTO ACTIVIITES ALL WHATEVER THEY ARE GOOD AT TO KEEP THEM OCCUPIED . ALL PARENTS CANNOT AFFORD TO SPEND ON POCKET MOENTY AND HENCE SHOULD NOT BE COMPARED. ETC. THE CHILD MAY BE FROM MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY AND MAY HAVE A RICH FRIEND AND WANTS TO DO WHATEVER HE DOES OR PURCHASES. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE

THEN THE CHILD ALSO SHOULD CO-OPERATE IN OTHER THINGS THAT THE PARENTS ASK THEM TO DO. IT SHOULD BE JUSTIFIED AND NOT ONLY DEMANDING ALL THE TIME.

I agree with you it's not about celebrity,here they are being the parents,what made Rakhi angry was that the girl was not treating her like a mother instead she had Rakhi in her mind all the time.