Its my challenge - Page 2

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

I think as much as there are Neeti fans (me) and Pari fans, I seriously can see no fan base for Rajiv/Sanju. HIS actions are the catalyst for what has happened to both the women on the show. For me, Neeti is the clear victim and the gaslighting she has suffered would drive anyone crazy. Pari is doormat material but she also has been a victim of Rajiv. The difference is she has taken to her subjugation and is a willing participant In other words, she is the perfect heroine that the writers believe the Indian public will root for. There seems to be a strong dislike for an independent, confident woman; she is always presented as the villain in Indian serials. It really is an indictment of how the Indian writers view Indian women.

What we are seeing is the writers attempt to rehabilitate Rajiv by quickly sweeping his crimes under the proverbial rug. They must know this bigamy situation is a sticking point for anyone with a working brain so they are finding ways to ameliorate a stupid plot twist to begin with. However, I do not believe Rajiv is a character that can be redeemed nor should he be. Their best option is to bring in 2 new leads and punish him by sending him to jail or have Neeti kill him. I vote for this optionTake Pammi and Chandrika with you too.

If they wish to retain the actor then say he has a twin or some long lost cousin who is his splitting image,whatever but they cannot continue with him as the lead as he has zero rooting value.

You cannot destroy another person's life then live happily ever after; no audience will accept this.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

To the other ladies on this thread, please indulge me as I love Bold and the Beautiful as was a faithful viewer, once upon a time.

Noby, I have seen this soap opera and it is great fun indeed. I think you might be referring to the Brooke/Ridge/Taylor triangle that drove their fans nuts. The thing is that Ridge never committed any crime nor did he mislead the ladies. But from the first episode, Ridge loved Brooke and was drawn to her. He did end up marrying Taylor but she was aware of his relationship with Brooke and he was not ever married to them at the same time. Also, Brooke remained a great insecurity in his marriage to Taylor.

But you are correct: he was torn between his love for Brooke, who was more of a vamp and Taylor, who was seen as the more moral and family oriented one. However, please remember, at several moments he continued to choose Brooke over Taylor; his first marriage to Taylor resulted from him thinking Brooke should marry his father, Most of time that he chose Taylor was because he was angry with Brooke or his mother did something for him to remain with Taylor, including her infidelity with James.

Anyway, in the end, how did the writers "resolve" this triangle? Both ladies told Ridge off and said his behavior to the other is wrong. I believe presently both are with different partners.

Can we hope that both Neeti and Pari will dump Rajiv?

Anyway, in no way, would immoral storylines on the Bold and Beautiful fly in India and for that I am grateful

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

bold - what??? 😧

The difference there is they are all immoral but not criminalsunlike the Bajwajs

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

I think as much as there are Neeti fans (me) and Pari fans, I seriously can see no fan base for Rajiv/Sanju. HIS actions are the catalyst for what has happened to both the women on the show. For me, Neeti is the clear victim and the gaslighting she has suffered would drive anyone crazy. Pari is doormat material but she also has been a victim of Rajiv. The difference is she has taken to her subjugation and is a willing participant In other words, she is the perfect heroine that the writers believe the Indian public will root for. There seems to be a strong dislike for an independent, confident woman; she is always presented as the villain in Indian serials. It really is an indictment of how the Indian writers view Indian women.

What we are seeing is the writers attempt to rehabilitate Rajiv by quickly sweeping his crimes under the proverbial rug. They must know this bigamy situation is a sticking point for anyone with a working brain so they are finding ways to ameliorate a stupid plot twist to begin with. However, I do not believe Rajiv is a character that can be redeemed nor should he be. Their best option is to bring in 2 new leads and punish him by sending him to jail or have Neeti kill him. I vote for this optionTake Pammi and Chandrika with you too.

If they wish to retain the actor then say he has a twin or some long lost cousin who is his splitting image,whatever but they cannot continue with him as the lead as he has zero rooting value.

You cannot destroy another person's life then live happily ever after; no audience will accept this.

Originally posted by: Jazzkapur

yes even rakesh also has fans but sanju doesn't except for shippers becoz i think no1 can feel bad for him. N there were many strong independent FLs in itv which have been loved by Indian audience like Ishita, mauli, prerna etc. But this pari is weakest n lamest FL i have ever seen

Let's not compare Pari with any of these ladies pls Ishita, Mauli, Prerna etc

Pari is in no way a positive fl. Infact she is a vamp in true sense who kept on playing along.

I won't forget her chachoondarpan. Chalo sab eyelocks seductive dance falls etc sab maaf lekin what was the point of her to keep the fast? Also to make sure that she breaks her fast first?

I repeat no way Pari is innocent. She has no integrity, honesty or self respect.

Now makers are realizing that audience are disliking Pari so now they waking her up but still I can't forget she is the one because of whom Sanju/Rajeev is dreaming of bigamy life. Also because of her Neeti was mentally tortured and took a step in crime due to her constant lying and gaslighting

"Nahi Neeti aisa kuch nahi hai jaisa soch rahi hai" and next moment she will romance and then fast for that guy

Fact is she is problem ki Jar. Iski jaisi friend se achha hai enemy hona. Point blank truth.

Originally posted by: kiransgirl

To the other ladies on this thread, please indulge me as I love Bold and the Beautiful as was a faithful viewer, once upon a time.

Noby, I have seen this soap opera and it is great fun indeed. I think you might be referring to the Brooke/Ridge/Taylor triangle that drove their fans nuts. The thing is that Ridge never committed any crime nor did he mislead the ladies. But from the first episode, Ridge loved Brooke and was drawn to her. He did end up marrying Taylor but she was aware of his relationship with Brooke and he was not ever married to them at the same time. Also, Brooke remained a great insecurity in his marriage to Taylor.

But you are correct: he was torn between his love for Brooke, who was more of a vamp and Taylor, who was seen as the more moral and family oriented one. However, please remember, at several moments he continued to choose Brooke over Taylor; his first marriage to Taylor resulted from him thinking Brooke should marry his father, Most of time that he chose Taylor was because he was angry with Brooke or his mother did something for him to remain with Taylor, including her infidelity with James.

Anyway, in the end, how did the writers "resolve" this triangle? Both ladies told Ridge off and said his behavior to the other is wrong. I believe presently both are with different partners.

Can we hope that both Neeti and Pari will dump Rajiv?

Anyway, in no way, would immoral storylines on the Bold and Beautiful fly in India and for that I am grateful

Yes I have watched B&B but in no way I find Sanju/Rajeev similar to Ridge.

Ridge truly loved Brooke and had an integrity. It was only due to the constant misunderstandings and ego trips that made Ridge choose Taylor. But still Ridge was always clear with his feelings for Brooke.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Let's not compare Pari with any of these ladies pls Ishita, Mauli, Prerna etc

Pari is in no way a positive fl. Infact she is a vamp in true sense who kept on playing along.

I won't forget her chachoondarpan. Chalo sab eyelocks seductive dance falls etc sab maaf lekin what was the point of her to keep the fast? Also to make sure that she breaks her fast first?

I repeat no way Pari is innocent. She has no integrity, honesty or self respect.

Now makers are realizing that audience are disliking Pari so now they waking her up but still I can't forget she is the one because of whom Sanju/Rajeev is dreaming of bigamy life. Also because of her Neeti was mentally tortured and took a step in crime due to her constant lying and gaslighting

"Nahi Neeti aisa kuch nahi hai jaisa soch rahi hai" and next moment she will romance and then fast for that guy

Fact is she is problem ki Jar. Iski jaisi friend se achha hai enemy hona. Point blank truth.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Let's not compare Pari with any of these ladies pls Ishita, Mauli, Prerna etc

Pari is in no way a positive fl. Infact she is a vamp in true sense who kept on playing along.

I won't forget her chachoondarpan. Chalo sab eyelocks seductive dance falls etc sab maaf lekin what was the point of her to keep the fast? Also to make sure that she breaks her fast first?

I repeat no way Pari is innocent. She has no integrity, honesty or self respect.

Now makers are realizing that audience are disliking Pari so now they waking her up but still I can't forget she is the one because of whom Sanju/Rajeev is dreaming of bigamy life. Also because of her Neeti was mentally tortured and took a step in crime due to her constant lying and gaslighting

"Nahi Neeti aisa kuch nahi hai jaisa soch rahi hai" and next moment she will romance and then fast for that guy

Fact is she is problem ki Jar. Iski jaisi friend se achha hai enemy hona. Point blank truth.

Originally posted by: sumz_d

Let's not compare Pari with any of these ladies pls Ishita, Mauli, Prerna etc

Pari is in no way a positive fl. Infact she is a vamp in true sense who kept on playing along.

I won't forget her chachoondarpan. Chalo sab eyelocks seductive dance falls etc sab maaf lekin what was the point of her to keep the fast? Also to make sure that she breaks her fast first?

I repeat no way Pari is innocent. She has no integrity, honesty or self respect.

Now makers are realizing that audience are disliking Pari so now they waking her up but still I can't forget she is the one because of whom Sanju/Rajeev is dreaming of bigamy life. Also because of her Neeti was mentally tortured and took a step in crime due to her constant lying and gaslighting

"Nahi Neeti aisa kuch nahi hai jaisa soch rahi hai" and next moment she will romance and then fast for that guy

Fact is she is problem ki Jar. Iski jaisi friend se achha hai enemy hona. Point blank truth.

exactly like first pari has no right to take that decision away from neeti when she found out about the truth of rajeev. If i found out I would stay 20 ft away from that guy especially if i claim i want him to be with my best friend and want to appear sacrificial. I will not wear sindoor and keep fast and stay in the same house and constantly be around that guy to the point he has no issues physically caressing her. If pari truly wanted neeti to be happy she would have established and kept strict boundaries with rajeev and not gone around to do her wifely duties behind their back and constantly lying and manipulating every time neeti suspected her. Not justifying neeti’s attempts to murder or hurt her but i hate how this show tries to act like pari is at no fault. If i truly cared about my friend I would have left and def not tried to do maraam patti of that guy. There were enough people to take care of him and if she actually wants their relationship to be restored she should stay away from rajeev which she won’t do so in a way neeti is not wrong in accusing her of appearing to be good but not really doing the good thing. Its lit disgusting how both rajeev or pari are acting holier than thou and making neeti out to be unreasonable when neither are saying or doing anything to prove that they truly intend to make the relationship between neeti and rajeev stay. Both of them just want neeti in the house so they don’t feel guilty and then they will be off to their secret escapades and romances. Just pathetic.

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Yes, I agree with you! You can see that Pari and Rajiv have NO boundaries. Pari is such a venomous snake. She claims that she only wants Neeti and Sanju marriage to work which is all lies. First, Pari mind your business; you have no say in the marriage between Neeti and Sanju. On what planet do any of us get close to our best friend's husbands? Our relationship is with our best friend and our loyalty is to our best friend. We all know to keep boundaries with anyone's husband, much less best friend, who is like a sisterEye contacts, close dancing, longing gazesPari knows exactly what she is doing and this is why she is so hated. She has 100% been nurturing a one sided marriage, keeping that fire burning; well, now she has the cheating prize. Congrats.

Boundaries went out of the window when Pari became a surrogate for Neeti and Sanju and moved into their house. Meanwhile, if someone needed to tend to her, during pregnancy, it should have been the women. I am not being misogynist but we, women understand pregnancy more than Rajiv ever could. No wonder Neeti feels no connection to that child;Rajiv is always there to make the bond and cut her out.

The one thing I still don't understand about this dumb show is how Pari began living with the Bajwahs? How was this explained to Neeti. I have always been confused as to how she ended up there in the first place.

It's all too much.

Neeti deserves so much better than this $hit fest