NOTHING IN LIFE CAN JUSTIFY EMA.
I am just saying that this is a common mistake that men make when there is no attention from your wife. I am giving my opinion based on what i saw on the show. Not once but there were many occasions where Gaurav mentioned that your attention is only towards Siddhi & Kunal and you don't care about me. Even Seema have discuss this with Siddhi that she does not give much time to Gaurav. If you blame Gaurav for EMA than Seema is equally responsible for this. For Kaam wali bai... i think she was more of a Kaam wali bai for Sinal rather than Gaurav as gaurav has said to seema you leave it i will do my own work. The whole Kunal/Siddhi saga as shown was for a year only.
This means that after the wedding for many years if your wife does not pay attention for a year that gives husband freedom to go out and find lolly??
I am not blaming anyone just saying point blank - EMA is not the solution to the institution named marriage.
Especially when you have chosen to live in the joint family this is the biggest disadvantage and the guys have to deal with it. They have to chose between wife or family and by living with family they chose extended family. Gaurav wanted to be separated not because he wanted more time with Seema and kids but was thinking about money. (Two different things).
There are ways to gain a wife's attention and for sure Gaurav missed it and as Ramya suggested he could have used all sham dam dand bhed...š
To me there is no reason why he had to go out.
Your NO ENTRY dialogue also does not stand here since Seema is no where near to the character shown in No Entry. Lara Dutta's character was shown as one of the most shakki aurat ever some one can find. That movie and this show is two different scenarios
Edited by BHAVI1972 - 12 years ago
