Originally posted by: sarah_singh
I really feel SAD for Siddhi because everyone feel she's at fault --- But what was her fault - signing a deal with Richa to save Kunal. Well look at Siddhi's plight when she did it - She was Pregnant, had to deal with an unstable motherinlaw who was accusing her of killing one son & sending the other to jail, a father inlaw who was more bothered about his wife's health & his son that he didnot have the decency to support her, sister-inlaw's who were not much help - she had to deal with her own guilt of thinking her husband may spend the rest of his life in jail for her mistake (even though she didnot kill Rohit she knew she had no evidence or witnesses) -- The only person who understood her was Kunal --- so in her desperation & helplessness she did what she did & played into Rishas hands --
Yet, Kunal being a MAN he is being manipulated for 9 years by Richa, & now he is feeling he has no other option than to marry her - so why was Siddhi's helplessness considered lame?? ---
What was SAD is to see Kunal stand & do nothing --- And as usual he will overhear things & draw his own conclusions without taking the trouble to find out anything --- As much as richa disgusted me today was disappointed by Kunals reaction ---
Sarah, the day has come in our show when we have to argue over who is the lamer of the two.. hmm, such a bad state to be in for us fans!
Siddhi's signing the deal and 'sacrificing' herself for Kunal and the C-family was lame. She could have told Kunal the truth even after she went to jail. But she opted to honour her so called deal with Richa than being truthful to her husband. She hid a lot of things from Kunal pre-leap which actually landed her in such a situation to begin with. She was the one who helped Richa get into Chopra family good books.. that was not part of the deal, but she did it. I would have preferred her, if she told Kunal the truth about R's deal and then they both together put their brains at work to trap R because Sid had 10 days time for the final hearing. All she in the 10 days was cried, and then signed the deal. I agree she was preggys and her in-laws turned psycho on her.. but what about Kunal. He always trusted her to do the right thing. She should have confided in him then.. even if they could not trap R before the final hearing, Kunal would have done it after Sid went to jail. What was the need to talk crap to him when she very well knows Kunal's nature. I would have loved to see a strong husband-wife team work there. She could have done something intelligent and substantial rather than jump off buildings in her pregnancy. She made way for the psycho vamp to be close to her family and Kunal.. how is that going to help them in any way? And Kunal wasted all those 9yrs unable to move forward. So, how did it help Kunal? What was the meaning of what she did when everything stood still except the vamp who took advantage of their sorry situation? Sorry, but I don't consider her lame choices as sacrifice.. it was utter foolishness! Even now, when she is not preggys she did not take action against the vamp who according to her killed her elder son! This is just too much for me to handle! Siddhi's character has been butchered beyond limits!!
And don't get me started on Kunal Chopra.. they have been trying to portray him as a vulnerable father and a pathetic lover. Please.. he is 40plus and has no idea who is who in his life. He has been around the vamp for 9yrs who also put false rape charges on him but still her trusts her words when it comes to Sid. Ok, he has wasted 9yrs without working, but he could have spent an hour of all the wasted years to try and find out what exactly happened! When Sid told him about Rohit being alive when he was in jail, he was very passive and did not use his brains or guide her. He seems to shut of his gold-medal brains when most needed. He hasn't been using it till now. It pains me to see him being manipulated by the vamp endlessly. I was happy on Monday when he stood up to his feelings and told Richa he does not love her or will never marry her. But for the past 2 days, he is making me sick. Yesterday, was the heights of his lameness when he looked at Sid put his shirt in his closet while R clinging on to him and pretending to be his wife! I don't want Sid to forgive him easily for thinking that she would kill her child.. that is a pretty big accusation on anyone.
So, what I am saying is I am not blaming Sid or Kunal but both for the pathetic situation they are in today. Sid did her fair share of stupidity and so did Kunal.. he is doing it even today. At least Sid is clear on what she wants now and she did go to Kunal and pour her heart out! She has said she would go back to Kunal for the sake of her son but Kunal is totally confused and in my eyes, he refuses to see anything beyond what is in front of his eyes.. he knows in his heart that Sid could never possibly think of killing their son but then since he is unable to see that in front of his eyes, he will not accept it. He will keep believing the vamp until the truth one day miraculously falls in his lap and then he will go into his famous guilt trips! CVs will never give him brains to expose the vamp by doing some work.. that is the pathetic state of the leads!