Enough blaming Kunal

I know everyone here is upset because Kunal didn't trust Siddhi with whole Gaurav EMA track. Even though Siddhi trusted Kunal with Richa case and she did so much for his family. Well everyone wanted Kunal's POV, so put your self in his shoe.

First of all Siddhi trusting Kunal, she has more reasons to trust him than not to. She already knew about Richa's intentions. But when she saw Kunal drunken with Richa, she did question him. That night Kunal did explain himself that he has not done anything with any woman. How many times does he need to tell her that? But if she doesn't trust him then he won't stop her. Even though he said he won't stop Siddhi, he did go after her and stood in her way. he literary begged her to believe him and not leave. He confessed how much she means to him and that as a husband he has remained faithful. Siddhi believed him because given Kunal's character, he wouldn't lie like that. In past he had always told Siddhi when he went to Richa's house or why he's helping Richa. Also Kunal never asked Siddhi where she's going or why she was so late, because and I quote, " tum kaha jati ho kisse milti ho, mujhe tum par pura bharosa hain." Once Kunal lied to Raj because Siddhi was later from work. Every time Kunal explained his actions, even why he wanted divorce. So yes Sidhhi believed him.

Second, even Kunal has done so much for Siddhi. Isn't Kunal responsible for shilpa's wedding. Why did Kunal tolerated so much insult, because it was about Shilpa wedding, somethign Siddhi was so happy about. So Siddhi is not the only person sacrificing her life and all. Kunal was willing to give away his proof of innocence for Siddhi. So it is two-way stream people.

Now Kunal never said he doesn't trust Siddhi. Kunal agreed that whatever Siddhi saw, she may have misinterpreted Gaurav. Everyone must agree that Sidhhi Vs. Gaurav, Gaurav presented and defended himself very well. He agreed that flat is his and that girl lives there, but as a tenant. What did Siddhi said, she saw him with that girl, girl said he was her BF and they hugged. Now SIddhi can repeat this 100 times and Gaurav can deny it 200 times. So that lollypop girl came and denied any relationship and even brought up age issue. forget Kunal, would any other family member believed Siddhi. Siddhi was so emotional that she didn't present facts in organized manner.

Also is Kunal suppose to believe that his brother is having EMA because what his wife may have seen. So Kunal is just suppose to take his wife's words and believe that his brother who loves his wife and kids so much is cheating, with no proof what so ever. We as viewers saw what Siddhi saw and also we saw much more than Siddhi, so we know for fact that Gaurav is having EMA. Siddhi ddin't tell Kunal how she came to know about any of this and simply kept saying I know he's having an affair and you must trust me and Kunal must forget that his brother had love marriage for 10 yrs and he has never seen him hurting Seema in naay way possible. EMA is very sensible issue and no person would simply believe it because his wife saw one thing.

Kunal never denied that Siddhi ddin't see anything or she fabricated the whoel thing, he's suggesting that Siddhi may have misunderstood it, WHICH IS HIGHLY POSSIBLE AS THAT"S WHAT HAPPENED WITH KUNAL. If Kunal trusts Siddhi blindly, then I would have a problem. trust should build gradually and not blindly. Let's say one day out of no where Kunal comes and tells Siddhi that Shilpa is having an affair because he saw her with another guy. Is Siddhi going to believe that? Or even better, Kunal blames Kapil for something similar where he's with lollypop girl. No she wouldn't and she shouldn't believe him just because he said so.

Now Kunal just wants to pacify the situation so he's telling Siddhi to stop thinking about it and ishe still insisted that's why he gave her warning. Was such warning necessary, we can debate that forever. Kunal only wants Siddhi to take care of herself and their baby, any loving husband would wish that.

I know everyone is upset that Kunal is not supporting Siddhi at this moment, but it's not about trusting Siddhi, it's about not trusting his brother. No normal person is going to have doubts about his brother, especially if you value your family virtues so much. Kunal has no reason to investigate this manner because Gaurav did hell of a job defending himself. Being a gold medalist lawyer doesn't mean you go doubt YOUR BROTHER and simply hear what YOUR WIFE said. If Siddhi would have not trusted Kunal with Richa's hug, we would have cursed her as well.

As viewers we have so mcuh information that at times it gets hard to understand a character's position. In real life we would not know as much.So please I request all to stay back for a while and control your emotions. it's also very hard for me to see my favorite character being manipulated like this but we must wait and watch.

Agree with your each and every word jay_bpm. I am actually going to be little blunt here and say that It's not Kunal's fault that his brother is smarter and cleverer than his so called lawyer wife. Just imagine Kunal playing judge and Siddhi and Gaurav they both presenting their cases, who would the judge believe? The one with all the evidences proving him innocent or the one who is just verbally saying I saw such and such thing? I am calling Kunal a judge here because he has to be objective here as one is his wife and the other one is his brother. He can't blindly trust Siddhi's words when Gaurav had all the profs to make him prove innocent.

neither i blame kunal nor siddhi...both are right in their own way...kunal has more trust in gaurav bcz he knows gaurav since his childhood...he have seen SeeRav relationship grows in the span of 10 yrs...he saw how gaurav is such a good father for his 2 children...for him to trust gaurav is just normal...n he needs proof to believe siddhi...bcz one mistake of his...it could break gaurav's marriage...n the kids future will be affected...thats kunal's POV

Originally posted by: Mages

neither i blame kunal nor siddhi...both are right in their own way...kunal has more trust in gaurav bcz he knows gaurav since his childhood...he have seen SeeRav relationship grows in the span of 10 yrs...he saw how gaurav is such a good father for his 2 children...for him to trust gaurav is just normal...n he needs proof to believe siddhi...bcz one mistake of his...it could break gaurav's marriage...n the kids future will be affected...thats kunal's POV

siddhi is right in her POV bcz she have seen the truth...but what mistake she did was...she told it to seema w/o taking a proof with her...that was a mistake...she handle it in a wrong way...her intention is noble...thats nothing to be a mahaan or whatever our friends call her...its just human nature...who is very honest n could not tolerate injustice...if i was siddhi...i would have done the same...rather than just keep quiet...but yes i would not have done what siddhi did...i would have brought a proof with me to expose the culprit...

being mahaan is different...n being honest n loyal is different...here i don't think siddhi is mahaan or trying to prove to be mahaan...she is just being honest n loyal...above all she is trying to repay her thanks to seema...bcz the happiness she got now in the form of kunal n her baby is bcz of seema...not everyone thinks like what siddhi thinks...such people have guts...i salute siddhi for her guts...but there is always a say that god always give test to honest n loyal people...a test which the person can loose every happiness in her/his life...thats what happening to siddhi...

currently i am worried for kunu...if gaurav's truth is expose...he will be shattered completely for not trusting his wife words...n as a brother he feels cheated by his own kin...kunu will be heartbroken...n while this process happens...he will loose alot of things...i just hope he doesn't loose anything precious especially his wife n little one

both are right from their pov ...so i dont blame either of them ..if anyone is to be blamed they are the cvs for making a mess of everything..

Superb post jay...i agree with u ..i must say jay all ur posts and comments on this forum have been so convincing n sensible..i like to ur posts
I said the same thing on salman's thread

Regarding siddhi
Siddhi suspecting gaurav is fully justified if i would be in her place then i too would have been doing the same...bt this EMA is issue is a very sensitive issue so it should be handled with proper care coz once a wrong steptaken it makes very difficult to make things settle down...first suspect gaurav get proofs n then tell to seema bt she got emotional seeing seema's conditon...she should nt leave the issue in the middle...n she is like want the people around her to be happy ...whatever her condition should be ..i agree with her bt approach should be diff...

Regarding kunal
Kunal on her part is right yr...i mean someday if my hubby tells that my bro is having EMA i wont agree with him...kitnabhi trust kar lo...bt that means ki i dont trust my bro...trust sirf wife pe hi thoda kiya jata hai bro pe bhi hota hai... To trust some1 in this world is damm diff...n kunal's trust have been bronken many times...so he needs sometime...Agar kunal siddhi ko kapil k EMA k baaremein bata tha toh siddhi would also nt agreeyr..
Moral both r correct on their parts__________________

Jay, this is a great post. While I don't agree with everything you have said, I love the way you have presented your facts in a cogent and systematic manner.

Actually I agree with most of what you said. My major grouse with the way Kunal's character has been handled is that all he is doing in the whole matter is handing out vitamins to his wife😕 When she was insisting that she had not misunderstood what she saw, instead of warning her he should have questioned her further and listened to what she had to say and just for the sake of his wife's word, investigated it further at least once. Rather than saying sorry to Gaurav for her actions and then asking her not to repeat it like she is his 4 year old daughter😕

hi Jay, I have tried to stay away from this debate coz its a never ending one, but as few people have pointed out, I agree, both are right in their own way so we cant pick one over the other.
And in situations where both are right, what one needs to see is how they react to each other and what happens to their relation in such a situation.

There is only one movie damini which comes to my mind, where inspite of the leads being on opposite side, their relation stood the test of times. And same will hold good for Kunal/Siddhi, inspite of Kunal's so called warning- i think that dialogue was just said by the way or rather thrown in by cv to confuse/create drama.