For Kunal Chopra Fans- life is beautiful - Page 24

Originally posted by: Simi.

Pooja I read ur posts most of the time...woh alag baat hai mujhe tareef karne ke liye comments kamm likhne aate hai......and yess I also love August episodes too, thanks for writing abt those episodes...even though I started watching Parichay in late September but caught up with old episodes in two days...god, I still remember I wass so mesmerized by Kunal and Parichay that I stayed up whole night bcz I cudnt help watching one after one episodes😆...ohh those were the days...

Originally posted by: poshah

Kunal Chopra's diary 30th Dec, 2011-Vishwas, woh jo bina saboot ke kiya jaye

Vishwas karna..=In english, if we translate it, it means to believe in someone when your eyes and ears say otherwise, to believe in someone inspite of the facts. Kunal rightly said, that before you form an opinion on someone take a moment and think with your heart and not with your brains.

Jab insaan kisi par vishwas karta hai
to ek tarah se woh apni zindagi uske haantho mein sop deta hai
galat insan par vishwas karke woh khud saza pata hai
aur sahi insaan par vishwas na karke bhi woh khud saza pata hai
dono hi suraton mein rishta aur woh insaan khud bhi toot jata hai
jahan kisi par vishwas karna asan nahi hai
wahi yeh bhi sahi hai ki vishwas ke bina rishta bhi nahi judta

Kisi ke kiye ehsaano ko bhul jana, insaan ki fitrat hai
Koi acha kare use insaan bhale yaad na rakhe
Magar koi galati kare, use kabhi bhoolne nahi deta
Aur yahi Gaurav kar raha tha,

Papa ne sahi kaha, Jispar jitna bharosa hota hai na
usse umeedein bhi utni hi jud jati hai
Aisa kyon hota hai ki jo jimmedar insaan hota hai usse hum kuch jyada hi umeedein jod lete hai
Isliye shayad sab tum par ungli utha rahe the
Raveena ki galatiyon par kisi ka dhyan hi nahi gaya

It was said in a film..mann by manisha
kisi ki vishwas jitna bahut asan hai
aur usse bhi asan hai kisika vishwas todna
Magar sabse jyada mushkil hai vishwas nibhana..

Tumhe jitna bhi jana hai
Utna hi samjha hai ki
Tum humara bura kabhi nahi chahogi
Aur jo bhi tumne mere liye, aur mere (hamare) pariwar ke liye kiya, main yaad rakhonga

Maine tum par vishwas kiya hai, aur yahi umeed karta hoon ki tum use galat nahi saabit karogi.

Siddhi's diary

I may forget the pain you gave me
But I will always remember the good times I have shared with you
I may forget the fights I had with you
But I will always remember the moments when you stood by me

Aapne jaise aaj mera vishwas kiya hai, waise hi hamesha karna

This post couldn't have been made at an apt time, if only I had read Bhavi's views correctly though.
Siddhi would look for Kunal's trust and Kunal, I hope if the creatives keep a sense of things, for once he will maintain his trust on Siddhi and atleast reason it out before he makes any conclusion. I don't want to justify or discuss Friday's episodes because for one, it may be Kunal's initial reaction, which is of a disbelief at his brother's infidelity. And 2nd is that the soaps thrive on misunderstandings- its a std thing.
But otherwise, I would want Kunal to atleast think why would Siddhi put such a blame and reason it out with her or either to himself. And I want Siddhi to not be a jhansi ki rani all by herself but reason it out with Kunal who can be her only supporter even at times when she is wrong.

Originally posted by: BHAVI1972

Pooja - kuch bhi likhle - as long as it is written with kunal in you - you always ace it. This was one episode where Kunal rocked all the way. The way he sided Siddhi - as a wife she was bound to fall in love with him. Siddhi - is really lucky to have a partner who trusted her even when they did not share any physical or mental relation. With mental i mean the relation of love. They just shared life together. She is one lucky girl - her then boyfriend trusted her and now her husband.

This episode was one where for the first time Kunal believed his heart rather than his brain.

The day after also they had a nice convo when he was trying to pacify Siddhi that she should not be crying.
I bet if this serial would have stopped after their confession - it would be remembered for decades for each and every little part. The story, the characters, the dialogues, the acting ...everything was just superb 👏 ... I miss those days of Parichay so much.😭

And now about your signature - Officially Insane ---😕 now what is that- 😆 I mean insane mein bhi unofficially and officially hota hain yeh nahi pata tha...😉

Originally posted by: Savz_uniqueblis

@poshah : the first parichay in kunal's life is gaurav than siddhi. so no surprise he believes his bro. ya me too voicing tat kunal himself n before family mems must say wat motive siddhi will ve blaming gaurav n all.
i m not saying here who is right or wrong. every character has it's flaws tat make interesting. sinal need trust n communication in their relationhip tat it is heading towards.

but gaurav being sibling of kunal expressed his doubt before family mems abt kunal character in kunal-richa case as kunal in not senses.
i think kunal thinks he is principled n ve sandards expect the same frm others too. even in reality we see children coming frm same background ve diff thinking n standards. so kunal i think thinks all in one way than one in all ways.
as it's leading to seerav mus n siddhi not able to prove he might brush it off at the moment n later he can investigate wats the truth is by communication with his wife in pvt.
as i said before sinal needs communication n trust factor in their relationship it may leading to it by hok or crook tat means by small mus begining n later solving each other as evoving their relationship togetrher to another next level. or by seperation but to next level.
so it can shatter kunal or take kunal to new life , it depends cvs which route taking it.

Originally posted by: poshah

Kunal Chopra's diary 19th Jan, Main Joru ka Gulam banke rahonga..

Now that I have full freedom to write about past, I have picked and probably made a khichdi of three episodes or scenes
13th Jan- when Kunal tells siddhi that he does all that she asks him to (after she convinces vikram to give his marriage another chance)
17th Jan- when he shouts at her (I never watch this episode because whatever were his reasons, he shouldn't have given back to Siddhi in black n blue- I am wondering if the dates I have listed are wrong)
19th Jan- the false preg news-

Siddhi's thoughts 17th Jan

Aage se mujhse baat karne ke koi jaroorat nahi hai
Main aapse baat nahi karongi to fir kisse karongi


Jab jab main kehti hoon, ki mujhe aapse baat nahi karni
Main kehna chahti hoon ki aap mujhse baat kyon nahi karte hai
Jab jab main kehti hoon, ki aapko aapke doston ke saath ghoomna acha lagta to unke saath jao.
Main kehna chahti hoon ki kabhi to mere saath bhi raha kariye
Jab jab main kehti hoon ki leave me alone, I don't mean it

The arguments and fights that happen between a couple are portrayed very well in these few scenes.
Siddhi portrays that one trait of a lady, that if you don't like something, you have to say it loud and clearly, else you will not get the desired results..😃 But cant blame her, lot of women have the same trait, they want to say something but they say something else. And what she says she doesnt' mean it. Now that I am writing this post, I am getting the dejavu of my post for 30th Jan (my first post in this forum 😉). Women have the habit of beating around the bush and not saying what they really feel until it is almost the end of the world.
Here also, Siddhi is angry at Richa as she is trying to get Kunal back and Siddhi is hurting because she loves him. But she doesn't know how to say it directly to Kunal, so she beats around the bush.

She portrays the thought well, that even if I shout at you, it is because I am hurt, hurt by your behaviour, hurt because I care for you and hurt because you broke my heart. And also loved how she was doing the running around manoaing him- she truly takes a back seat when Kunal shouts at her and tries to manao him...She will argue with him, but every hour he doesn't talk to her/ignore her, she keeps hurting more.
The cold war which a husband/wife have [after their argument ] if they live in a joint family and -is depicted so well in the lodhi scene.

Kunal's thoughts - It is not a diary, of Kunal, but my diary because whatever they are feeling is depicted so well I can't add on.

All I can say, is
Kehne ko to rishta majboori ka hai
ek samjhote ka hai
magar jane kyon, yeh aanson mujhe kamjoor kar dete hai
tum khush rehti ho to mujhe pata nahi kyon acha lagta hai
Shayad har pal ek rishta jud raha tha
har woh pal jab tumne mera khayal rakha
mere pariwar ki parwah kari
har woh pal jo tumne mere saath khamoshi mein bitaya
har woh pal jab kabhi hum lade, kabhi hanse, kabhi ek doosre ko manaya
us har pal ek rishta jud raha tha

Two traits of Kunal, one is the ever ready tissue, whenever he has seen her crying he has reached out to her with the tissue and also a shoulder to lean on .He also makes it a point to cheer her up always with some joke, as he says, tum hansti ho to acha lagta hai.
His helplessness when he sees her crying is depicted well, he just doesn't know what he should do to stop her from crying, and it pains him probably to see her crying. He realises that he hurt her by not talking to her and ignoring her all this while. Sleeping with the enemy is so true for a marriage, it is like, you have to stay together, you fight, laugh, argue or whatever 😃

There are those few times when he has shouted at her...but most of the times his intention is not wrong, if we leave the diary stealing one and all the misunderstandings during Nov for the case, whenever they have argued it is with a good intention, just that he jumps the gun. He admitted that I listen to everything that you say, because as he rightly pointed out, he doesn't want to disrespect her, which was another good dialogue and I have also realised that any heated argument is not about what is right, but who is right, no wonder ppl say we should listen to our elders.

I would say, they both thrive on the goodness of each other, Siddhi makes it a point to not argue with him in front of everyone and so does he. He does listen to all that she wants him to do.They live the adage that in any relationship at any point in time only one is allowed to be insane. If there was infinite time, i would have written more.


Bhavi, aapki farmaish next. I wanted to write about this 19th jan scene for a while..honestly I am just so confused, saare episodes hi ache hai magar sab ke baare mein kaise likhe.

Originally posted by: poshah

unfortunately its not Kunal's diary-😆

I hope to be not repeating myself, from my diary on the 30th Dec,

Siddhi is caught with Rohit in some car- All the proofs show that she was doing something which is not respectable.

The police inspector tells that wah, shaadi kisi aur ke saath aur gadi mein koi aur.

Many a times, we are faced with situations in life where what we see is different from what we want to believe.

Probably Anand gave a good lesson or advice to his brother on the value of trust and faith. Probably it is Kunal's experience with Richa which had made him so bitter in life, unconsciously he started thinking of Siddhi to be just like Richa which is not very unusual if someone had such a bad experience.

Two scenes which Anand had were good

Anand/Kunal

Sach ko sunne aur dekhne se jyada jaroori hota hai sach ko mehsoos karna. Very aptly said, not often but sometimes in life one is faced with a situation where one needs to decide whether to believe what we hear/see or what we feel. Always our decisions may not be right,. always what we feel may not be right, but then there is no way of knowing it unless we take the bullet, life is all about taking a risk and some relations are worth taking the risk for.
If I take it a step further, many a times people have to say or do things which they don't want to, and it is for us to judge or gauge if that is what they really mean, just because you see someone doing something wrong, doesn't mean they don't have valid reasons for doing it. Finally it is our faith that takes us forward in life..

I am not sure if I have explained it well,

Anand/Siddhi

He never once doubts her and not even bothers to ask her that what is it that actually happened. He simply believes her. He knows that she must have some valid reason for whatever she did but for some reason she cannot disclose it to him. He talks about the look or the apnapan in her eyes. I think I have spoken a lot about silence and the eyes so I can't write anything new about them.

I think, as I mentioned, people thrive on the goodness of the other. I am pasting what I had written a while back,
kabhi kabhi kisi ki burai hume bura banne par majboor kar deti hai aur
kabhi kabhi kisi ki achai hume acha banne par majboor kar deti hai.

In this case, even if Siddhi was wrong, I am sure she would have changed her ways looking at the faith Anand had in her. How could she not 😃

I wonder is Siddhi lucky, I think she deserved the trust others have put in her, and many a times, trust is implicit in the relation, one always trusts their close family, and finally it is the responsibility of the family to maintain it.

Shayad kafi gyaan ho gaya hai..I know I am not so good with writing diaries for others..😭