justify kunal...O_o

Originally posted by: shumi.

girls we all hate richa like hell ...we don't even want to see her aas paas kunal right.let us see why we hate her to the core?...is she really that bad!...is kunal no way responsible for her evilness?...Kunal is no way responsible for witcha's evilness.this topic is purely for discussing the character richa and kunal not for bashing ...

well... richa is a from very rich and high profile family...she has every thing in her life and she can get any thing for her just like that. in spite of going behind rich business tycoons she fall in love with a simple man from a middle class familyHe's not a simple middle class man then,he's successful lawyer and their life style then is equal to thakrals....and she keep loving him for years together.She loved him(more than love i would say infatuation) as long as he was successful and rich and left him when he really needed her support,sorry to say but i don't find it to be love in anyway. it is not one or two days relation...kunal too loved her as much she loved him...in fact he claims that his love is true...

fine...all the troubles started when thakral told kunal to take wrong case. it was between thakral and kunal, richa is not at all responsible for that. the only wrong thing she did was she was with her father. obviously we girls go with our father before marriage, of course after marriage we support our husband that too without going against our father. Well ,girls doesn't go against her father,ok but did she even for once tell kunal that i know you are not wrong,i respect your principles and i'll support you but at the sametime i can't go against my father.Sometimes words speak more than actions,had she atleast once told some words in his support,he would have been more than happy even if their relation couldn't go furthur.

waise while they were showing their past they did not show richa supporting her father, only thing is she was going on telling kunal to say sorry to her dad...other all things she will take care of it...' This single statement,say sorry to my dad is enough to show that she supports her dad even if he's wrong and doesn't care for kunal's self respect,i can't call it love.When his self respect is gone what will she take care of.this may be because thakral might have put forth the condition to richa that only if kunal ask sorry he can accept him as his son in law.

but kunal did not want to say sorry...he was adamant in that...but why...people do any think for the sake of true love. but not at the cost of their self respect.thakral is his would be father in law...father in law means his father...what is wrong if he say sorry to satisfy his father for the sake of his true love.Thakral may be would be father in law,if saying sorry to your father like person at the cost of your own father's self respect and ideals-thats not acceptable at least for me. he always claims personal life and professional life should be kept apart. true love is his personal life .why he messed up his personal life with professional life.there is a thin link btw personal and professional lives and in this particular case that link has got affected directly.As seema said its easy to say to keep personal n professional lives apart but its not possible.

fine...heart broken richa with no other go left the country and went to US. in US she might have come across lot of guys better than kunal but she did not fall for them.she was waiting for three long years either kunal or thakral to come down. but they did not.Without any try from her side how can she expect them to come down,and what was madam true love doing when her father is destroying her so called true love and his family.

after 3 years when she returned to india she went in search of kunal but he dejected.she requested, plead ,cried in fact she put her hands together and begged him ...but kunal refused to listen her.Why should he listen to her when her father has made life hell for him n his family and she was just a silent spectator for all that.Is it justifiable-first you support the wrong,you ask your love to leave his family and come with her and after that without even repenting for that,you start pleading and blame the other person for not forgiving her or accepting her. finally thakral brought some guy and told her to get engaged . here also she did not go for that boy. it was her father's decision. obviously how long she can be refusing...again when kunal faught with gundas she removed her engorgement ringwhen kunal pleading her to just be in his life n support him,he can manage anything as long as she's with him didn't bring any change in her but kunal saving her made her realise that she wants him.and got ready to come with him...but kunal ji rejected her again and handed over her to her would be...After all that has happened in his life,there is nothing wrong in what kunal did.For the sake of some crazy girl's on and off love he can't give pain to each n every member of his family.

later by force without even giving time thakral to richa said aaj hi tumari shaadi hoyege and he arranged for that. richa was helpless , she kept calling kunal could not reach him...finally left the message for him. she was waiting for kunal till the last minute.Very nice,when you have 5 long yrs you didn't do anything but expecting other person to come and save you at the last minute,that too on the day of his dearest brother's marriage.Why didn't she question thakral at anytime that why you did this to kunal,why you fired anand?Thakral didn't let her know is a foolish answer.

thakral hid the death news of anand from richa.

when she found that the guard did not allow kunal inside the hall she miss understood that kunal came to take her so she left the mandap and went to kunal's house and then to mandap.

there she was shocked to see kunal as a groom...on the top of that she was insulted in front of the big mass by kunal and blamed her for anand's death which she was not at all aware of it.she took all those insult and blame considering the mental condition of a man who lost his loving brother.

when she came to know that his marriage with siddhi was just to cure his mother she came to him again with his father ...again she was insulted and rejected by him and kicked out of his house...Coming to a newly wedded couple and asking the husband to divorce his wife and marry her and she'll make his life secure,again blame the husband for not accepting her proposal👏👏

when richa was engaged first time kunal said all the best to her( ...do you remember while kunal was wishing richa in her room siddhi and thakral came with police and send him jail.later anand went to police station to take him out of the cell...so that time anand was very wellalive) now after kunal married siddhi, when richa announced her marriage he is feeling uneasy.He made it clear what he really felt when ViTcha's relation was announced.He moved on in his life n definitely not expecting her to come back to his life.

in the previous epi kunal said to richa 'hum dhono kay beech mai bahuth kuch hogaya...kuch tumare papa kay wajai se kuch mere zidd kay waise... he did not add kuch tumare wajaise....and he himself agreed he lost his true love cuz of his zidd .For me he was referring mere zidd ke wajah se-for blaming her for anand's death,not for loosing his love.

If i were kunal,i would never say sorry,
-when i haven't done any wrong,why should i say sorry,for me mine and my dad's self respect is more than any one else.

-that too for a girl who never supported me and tried to take me away from my family.

If i were in Richa's place

If my love is genuine,i would have repented a lot for not supporting my love in his thick n thin and would regret for my actions.I wish him to be happy and would never try to get him back into my life when he's married to someone else.

These are my POV,no offense to any one(nothing personal)

now...

if you are in richa's place what you will do?

cuz of his zidd kunal lost his love...it looks as if in one corner of his heart he regret for that...

is kunal right?

justify your answer...

my answer:

if i am in kunal's place i will say sorry to my father (in-law) and get back my love.😃

if i am in richa's place i will not go behind a man who don't have any respect to my words , feelings and to my tears and i will not go behind a man who insults, degrade, abuses me and my father in front of all even if my father was wrong.

instead to prove my true love i will never get marry in my life...may be i will go out of the country to live rest of my life with painful memories of him.😭

Originally posted by: shumi.

girls we all hate richa like hell ...we don't even want to see her aas paas kunal right.let us see why we hate her to the core?...i only hate her cuz of the message she left and she's trying to break up a marriage with deception! how low can one go! is she really that bad!...is kunal no way responsible for her evilness?...ya but then so is her dad! this topic is purely for discussing the character richa and kunal not for bashing ...

well... richa is a from very rich and high profile family...she has every thing in her life and she can get any thing for her just like that. in spite of going behind rich business tycoons she fall in love with a simple man from a middle class family...remember, he use to be rich too.. maybe not as rich as thakral but pretty rich.. it was after her father destroyed them that they're middle-classed and she keep loving him for years together. it is not one or two days relation...kunal too loved her as much she loved him...in fact he claims that his love is true...

fine...all the troubles started when thakral told kunal to take wrong case. it was between thakral and kunal, richa is not at all responsible for that.understandable... the only wrong thing she did was she was with her father. obviously we girls go with our father before marriage, of course after marriage we support our husband that too without going against our father. I understand her position, but supporting her father meant supporting the wrong and that tells you something about richa doesn't it? i mean even I support my dad but when he's wrong he's wrong and there is no justification to it! I don't support him for anything!

waise while they were showing their past they did not show richa supporting her father, only thing is she was going on telling kunal to say sorry to her dad...other all things she will take care of it...' this may be because thakral might have put forth the condition to richa that only if kunal ask sorry he can accept him as his son in law. then she should've told Kunal this, if this is the case.. even then, fight for THE RIGHT as well as your love!

but kunal did not want to say sorry...he was adamant in that...but why...people do any think for the sake of true love. thakral is his would be father in law...father in law means his father...what is wrong if he say sorry to satisfy his father for the sake of his true love. he always claims personal life and professional life should be kept apart. true love is his personal life .why he messed up his personal life with professional life. but it wasn't for his professional life. it was for his conscious. he was supposed to apologize for fighting for the right? and if thakral tried to do this again it would happen all over again.. jhooti maafi se behtar hai NO MAAFI!

fine...heart broken richa with no other go left the country and went to US. in US she might have come across lot of guys better than kunal but she did not fall for them.she was waiting for three long years either kunal or thakral to come down. but they did not. if she loved/knew kunal she should've realized he wouldn't have especially if she was nowhere in sight! and she must know daddy-dearest! he wouldn't dare do such a thing

after 3 years when she returned to india she went in search of kunal but he dejected.she requested, plead ,cried in fact she put her hands together and begged him ...but kunal refused to listen her. finally thakral brought some guy and told her to get engaged . here also she did not go for that boy. it was her father's decision. obviously how long she can be refusing...again when kunal faught with gundas she removed her engorgement ring and got ready to come with him...but kunal ji rejected her again and handed over her to her would be... after all this you also have to think of kunal's family; 3 years is no less. personally i don't see any wrong in kunal doing what he did. if she stood up to her dad for kunal IN FRONT of him, then maybe but she never did. not dad i love him... how about dad kunal is not wrong for taking that case and i trust him and his decisions...

later by force without even giving time thakral to richa said aaj hi tumari shaadi hoyege and he arranged for that. richa was helpless , she kept calling kunal could not reach him...finally left the message for him. she was waiting for kunal till the last minute. like i said stand up to dad and if still you have no other choice, run away!

thakral hid the death news of anand from richa.

when she found that the guard did not allow kunal inside the hall she miss understood that kunal came to take her so she left the mandap and went to kunal's house and then to mandap.

there she was shocked to see kunal as a groom...on the top of that she was insulted in front of the big mass by kunal and blamed her for anand's death which she was not at all aware of it.she took all those insult and blame considering the mental condition of a man who lost his loving brother. i still blame her for leaving that stupid message on the phone. i agree it was kunal's phone but still.. u don't leave suicidal phone messages! that's just stupid! if it wasn't anand, it would've been kunal. tell me, would that have been any better?!

when she came to know that his marriage with siddhi was just to cure his mother she came to him again with his father ...again she was insulted and rejected by him and kicked out of his house...

when richa was engaged first time kunal said all the best to her( ...do you remember while kunal was wishing richa in her room siddhi and thakral came with police and send him jail.later anand went to police station to take him out of the cell...so that time anand was very wellalive) now after kunal married siddhi, when richa announced her marriage he is feeling uneasy. he did love her after all... but he isn't going to drastic measures to stop it! and that convo was kind of like closure.. something he wanted but couldn't have cuz she ran to US for 3 years.

in the previous epi kunal said to richa 'hum dhono kay beech mai bahuth kuch hogaya...kuch tumare papa kay wajai se kuch mere zidd kay waise... he did not add kuch tumare wajaise....and he himself agreed he lost his true love cuz of his zidd .

i'm not saying it's because of her.. i'm saying all the steps she's taken afterwards!

now...

if you are in richa's place what you will do?

cuz of his zidd kunal lost his love...it looks as if in one corner of his heart he regret for that...

is kunal right?

justify your answer...

my answer:

if i am in kunal's place i will say sorry to my father (in-law) and get back my love.😃

if i am in richa's place i will not go behind a man who don't have any respect to my words , feelings and to my tears and i will not go behind a man who insults, degrade, abuses me and my father in front of all even if my father was wrong.

instead to prove my true love i will never get marry in my life...may be i will go out of the country to live rest of my life with painful memories of him😭

my answer: if i was in Kunal's place back then.. cuz i'm such an egoistical person i would've been clear to richa that i'm not sorry and if it arises again I will take the same step! at the same time I would apologize to thakral and make it clear to him too that if the situation arises, the outcome will be the same but I am sorry for hurting him!

now, kunal needs to try n move on... at least be friends with his wife, siddhi.

if i was in richa's place: I would tell dad that Kunal is not wrong and I trust him! I would go to his family and explain the situation to them and ask for their input! then, I would ask Kunal to apologize because a father-in-law is like a father.

if he still insults me n my father I would not marry him even if he apologizes and would not go to find love but if it comes in front of me then why not give it a chance. I may love him truly but that does not mean someone else can't love me. hell, i didn't do anything wrong so why punish myself? especially agar vineet jaisa good-looking, well-mannered, polite and successful banda ho!

Originally posted by: -sahasra-

Originally posted by: brainychild92