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This probably doesn't matter given everything else that is happening but why did they show Shiva trying to stop Raavi from signing the divorce papers even after Dev disclosed his 'affair' with Rishita. Was he expecting her to forgive him and try to make it work? He even said she would be ruining her life.

Shiva then confused about why he is feeling bad for Dev and Raavi's marriage breaking was kind of weird. Dev is his brother and Raavi is someone he has known all his life. One would feel bad about the situation even if it happened to complete strangers. I did not get what the intention was behind that dialogue.

Originally posted by: mpks1

When Mitthu has not accepted Shuva as his Dad and Shiva has not accepted Mitthu as his son, how can Arushi be his new mom?

There is only one mom for Mitthu, that is Raavi. She is more than enough to take care of him. Raavi will be an amazing single parent like she has always bern. There is no need for Shiva in her life or Mitthu’s life.

So, don’t say Arushi is Mitthu’s new mom. She is NOT.

As for Mitthu, don’t want him to grow up like Shiva, arrogant, ziddi and a fool. He has to be completely out and out Raavi’s parvarish. Kandyas ki saaya bhi nahi padni chahiye

I meant arrogant and heartless to pandyas fir revenge. Soft and lovable for others .

Originally posted by: anoniyaa

Even more than self-respect, what about her pain and fears. She should be hurt by what is happening and how Shiva is behaving, and worried if things will go the way they planned.

They don't seem to understand what should and shouldn't be made into comedy. This situation is not at all funny.

She is very much worried and looks unconfident...

Bold: exactly....they don't understand it is not comic at all.. all are disgusted by this continued comic treatment given to Shiva raavi track. What comes across worst is Shiva's behaviour....

Please someone just put an end to this gobarr gal...

Can't tolerate her presence even for a second onscreen.

Originally posted by: Saumyas23

She is very much worried and looks unconfident...

Bold: exactly....they don't understand it is not comic at all.. all are disgusted by this continued comic treatment given to Shiva raavi track. What comes across worst is Shiva's behaviour....

She is the rest of the time but not in those 'comedy' scenes. Those should have been toned down, if not completely removed, given what was at stake. It just doesn't make sense to me personally.

Not to mention how the plan is so illogical. It's not allowed for Raavi to tell Shiva the truth or remind him of his past but this marriage drama with the bride swap thing is fine? What makes them think he will get his memory back because of this? They don't even know he has been getting any flashbacks.

Originally posted by: mpks1

I have been saying this for a long time. This time he is going for his mukti from Raavi on his own. He kept asking her and she was not giving it to him. Now is the right chance for him to escape and get on with his life with a new girl. That’s exactly what he is doing.

As much as the writers and the actors are saying that Shuva has gone back to 9 years and turned onto pre marriage Shuva with his famous usage of MKBKB phrase etc. This memory loss Shiva has nothing common woth old Shiva

- old Shiva never cared about girls, was not desperate for marriage, dud not pay attention to clothing, dressing up, putting on perfume, did not emotionally blackmail by attempting suicide before marrying Raavi (first time) but the current Shuva is doing all that and much more 😕

Even Bjabima called him Bailbuddhi today and called Raavi of acting like a bailbuddhi him too when she was told Bhabima that no one cares about her wedding while others are enjoying the celebrations.

This version of Shiva does not care about anyone but himself and his wants. He was supposed to be someone who put his family above himself but now he is just constantly jealous of his brothers' marriages and complains about the family not supporting him in doing what he wants. He even mentioned how he lived for them till now. Quite ironic for a person who is missing 9 years worth of memories.

Quoting a previous post

Originally posted by: anoniyaa

Shiva has not only lost his memories, but also compassion towards his family members. How is he behaving so self-centred and insensitively. He only seems to care about getting married right now.

It doesn't take him a second to put Raavi's supposed situation aside and start getting excited for his own marriage rituals.

Even what happened with Krish and Prerna and her being pregnant doesn't deter him from talking about how Krish has previously been married so he deserves to go first.

He hated Shweta but now is asking her to go along with him to Arushi's house just because he wants to not go there alone.

Originally posted by: Lovely2021

I meant arrogant and heartless to pandyas fir revenge. Soft and lovable for others .

No, that is not how a child should be raised. Him not giving any bhaav to any of the kandyas is the best punishment for them. Hatred, revenge will only destroy self. Mitthu should become a compassionate, loving, intelligent, street smart, most importantly not be rude or fight with anyone instead tackle them with his smartness.

I sincerely wish he is the opposite of any of the Kandya brothers.

Originally posted by: anoniyaa

This version of Shiva does not care about anyone but himself and his wants. He was supposed to be someone who put his family above himself but now he is just constantly jealous of his brothers' marriages and complains about the family not supporting him in doing what he wants. He even mentioned how he lived for them till now. Quite ironic for a person who is missing 9 years worth of memories.

Quoting a previous post

How the writers have changed most of his characteristics for this track is beyond me. The only 3 qualities that are still part of him are - his anger, his zidd and rudeness.

The way he talks to everyone us as if he is a saint, doesn’t do any mistakes, doesn’t create any problems, always righteous etc, but in reality he is coming across as selfish/sslf centered, compassion less, full of attitude and rudeness, disrespectful and they are justifying every behavior of his by showing he deserves to get married more than his brothers 😕
The writers have completely decimated the character in the name of memory loss. It is like watching a whole new person.

What is going on?

Why is bhabhima mahaan plan being dragged all the way to wedding?

There is deliberate attempt to bring abuse to Alice- Raavi.

Because she is generating sympathy - while writer’s narrative is she is stupid, taiksi raita & bhabhi is smart- this is how she sameto raita!!
Bhabhi is great. Bhabhi is everything.

She is given old full cloths. Bad hairstyle.
She got most praise in ott drama sequence- not their Bhabhi or others. so now they want to dampen that too.

Yesterday episode Suman Dhara gombi prerna all wr given dialogues saying she is doing over acting! In the end they will blame rasvi for all this. Losers.

Kinshuk needs serious mental help: he peddles this things offscreen too!
bringing hate to Alice. - it is not a joke anymore. He looks deliberate gaslighter in all offscreen segments these days.

Originally posted by: anoniyaa

Why do they keep making Dhara act so curt with Raavi? Instead of sympathising with her, she keeps behaving like Raavi is overreacting and being an annoyance.

The whole family treats her situation like it isn't really a big deal. How can Rishita and Prerna even talk about wanting to enjoy their marriage rituals given what is happening in her life.

The lack of concern towards her, while not new, is still bewildering and off-putting. Is it because their marriage has always constantly been in trouble and so no one thinks anything of it now? Again, not saying things were great before but this is another level.

We also have Dhara's mother constantly mention how Arushi marrying Shiva would ruin Dhara's life (how?). Not once has she thought about how Raavi, Shiva or their child would be affected.

I think it’s partly Shinys poor acting but yes, Dhara has always treated Raavi poorly. She has always taken her for granted, made her feel small, invalidated her feelings and knowing the influence she has on Ravi, always abused it. There is a stark difference in how Dhara treats Rishita, Swetha and Raavi.

I mean Rishita has physically abused her, Swetha has been the reason her whole family ripped apart, yet Gaumbi only finds it rude when Raavi disrespects shara.