Originally posted by: anoniyaa
It is natural for Dhara to be upset with and about her mother. She has undoubtedly suffered a lot due to that. Normally I would say it is her right to decide when to let others know. She should be allowed time to process.
Unfortunately the situation here is different. She isn't the only one affected. The thing she is keeping the rest in the dark about is adversely impacting someone else's present and future. Despite being aware of that her continuing to do the same is foolish and selfish.
Raavi getting angry upon finding out about Dhara hiding that Arushi is her half-sister is to be expected. It will feel like a betrayal especially since she already thinks Dhara (along with the rest of the family) isn't interested in helping her out. Her suffering does get ignored and that is something even she has started to notice and voice.
Your first paragraph about her needing time to disclose under normal circumstances, I disagree. Even under normal circumstances she needs to tell atleast Gautam about it. He could definitely help her with the situation.
Since the situation is different, her hiding the information is affecting Raavi and Mitthu’s life directly, she is coming across as selfish.
Dhara always plays with other peoples lives. I will not agree she is selfless. She always thinks, what she can get out of it and how she can win the challenge at any cost. If she was selfless, she would hide things from the family, lie and most importantly won’t be rubbing her sacrifices on other family members face,
Her not telling anyone about her mother and half sister is a huge blunder. Here she is inly thinking about her self respect eunv lost. That’s the monologue she has been saying for the past 2 episodes. Not once she thought about Raavi. Even when she was ordering her mom and sister to leave Somnath, she acted as if she owns Shiva, not once she mentioned his maritsl status out of concern for Raavi or Mitthu.
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