Originally posted by: Lovely2021
Biggest problem of Shiva is his insecurity and male ego which will never go as long as Choubays writes hus character.
Shiva is character who feels entitled..when he thought ravi didnt love him, he immediately turned to another women in search of ravis sache ehsaas rather than asking her what she feels..when he thought ravi was with anitha for tiffin kaand, he is the one to not trust her and created a havoc in the hosp..then later the way he behaved with her after she was drugged and kidnapped was no less than a abusive husband..all his justification?..bhabhi ka dukh?..that ravi questioned bhabhi earlier on how she and shiva could keep such a secret from her abt dev and rishitha leaving?..and when dovorce happens he against play the victim game .everytime he ignores his own actions and put the entire blame on ravi..and most often ravi never consciously did a wrong..she was not responsible for sneha badmouthing shiva..she wa snot responsible for anitha cheating bhabhi even when she had once exposed her infront of everyone when anitha is her own sister..and she was definitely not responsible when mami double crossed her and filed the domestic abuse case..whixh i sincerely think should have been filed by ravi herself..and now even with the shirt, shwetha swapped the name slips..still she blames herself for making the mishap and for shiva feeling bad..when its shiva who is assessing her love with the price tag of a shirt she gifts him after all that she did to love him?...still she always owned her mistakes which was more abt her ignorance regarding her families cunningness..and these cunning family members include anitha, mami, bhabhi, shwetha and in a way shiva because he is selfish and manipulative to victimise himself for all the atrocities he does towards ravi..