Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #208 - Page 37

Originally posted by: nami2811

Omg the confrontation between Raavi and Shiva today was so nicely written. KDice were too good in terms of acting!!

Raavi had valid points. She's seen Suman break down, she's seen the behavior of Krish and I guess she's the only sensible person who understands the situation. She was right in her place giving advice to Shiva. If Shiva wasn't in that phase with Raavi (SM one) he would've listened at least. But now that his relationship with Raavi is kind of disturbed due to the "dabba" (phone) he is not in a state to understand her. Out of all the sensible things she was talking he could only catch the word "yaar". That hurts him more rather than Krish's antics. It hurts that Raavi is not spending time with him. It hurts that she is not calling him every 2 min when he's in PS. He has been holding this up for few days now (few epis for us) and this outburst was very much valid from his POV. Raavi being Raavi still tries to not stray away from the current issue and is trying her best to explain him. But Shiva is stuck on his and her issue.

For me this speaks volumes about how Shiva is treating his relationship with Raavi. He is affected by the change in her, he is worried he might lose her. I've never supported Shiva over Raavi but today the words he spoke of breaking their relationship though sounds raw it had an emotion to it and for the first time I'll chose to ignore them. I'll justify that he spoke out of anger. Raavi too might feel that but I hope she does take his words seriously and notice that he is missing her. Hopefully amidst this mess she gets to pacify him first, set things right in their relationship and then make him understand Krish's issues..

I liked today's episode. It had drama, emotion and strategy (janu's plan totally cracked by Rishita)

This is very well explained and puts their conversation in a whole lot of different perspective from a viewers point of view.

I haven’t watched their “argument” but when I see the episode I will think of the lines you have written above.

Lets hope Raavi leaves her SM obsession behind and understand the real reason behind Shiva’s anger and most importantly I hope SM obsession doesn’t put Raavi in a major trouble.

Originally posted by: mkc12345

Just read the LU and Dhara literally blamed Shiva when Krish blames her for getting Shiva to hit him for smoking. If I remember correctly it was Dhara that was telling Shiva what Krish did. What did she think was going to happen that Shiva would just stand there and let Krish to to his pyaari bhabhi like that? Stupid Dhara.

I agree Raavi's SM obsession is crazy but for Shiva to not even listen to anything Raavi has to say because she is being practical is even more crazy. It hasn't even been 6 months since they have been married again and Shiva already wants to end his marriage again, wow. Still the worst husband on TV. I don't understand Shiva, he is saying that families need to stay together and not apart but he is so quick to say that he wants to end his marriage. Does he not consider Raavi part of his family because if he breaks his marriage then the family will break. Shiva doesn't consider Raavi his family because he feels if he breaks his marriage then his parivaar will remain the same and it won't break. I will say it again WORST HUSBAND ON TV, SHIVA PANDYA.

He’s the second worst husband because the Top most worst husband is still Virat Chavan of Ghum🤣🤣 anyway shiva almost committed bigamy by getting engaged to that disha phisha..!!! Openly engaged in a uninterested romance with her..!! Always treated Raavi as shit..!!! The entire family treats her like a doormat!! I started watching PS thinking it might be less toxic, but its the same.. same female cast treated as doormat and constantly manhandled by her husband and his good for nothing family and coincidently she’s an orphan... that Rishita does all sort of blunders, but the rules don’t apply to her..coz they’re saved for the orphan bechari female cast that is adored by the audience... i hate ITV.. and the makers should stop using the Shiv bholenaath reference for Shiva coz unlike Shiva, bholenaath was not an adulterer bhabhi bhakt, also didn’t manhandle his wife..!!

Originally posted by: Seja1

This is very well explained and puts their conversation in a whole lot of different perspective from a viewers point of view.

I haven’t watched their “argument” but when I see the episode I will think of the lines you have written above.

Lets hope Raavi leaves her SM obsession behind and understand the real reason behind Shiva’s anger and most importantly I hope SM obsession doesn’t put Raavi in a major trouble.

Thank you! I watched that part again and must say it felt nice.. For someone like Shiva who doesn't believe in PDA and expressing love openly to say things like "tu kyun aaj kal mujhse door jaa rahi hai" is actually something refreshing.

I still don't support the fact that Suman asked her to shut up or she'll ask Shiva to throw her out 😵

Originally posted by: Elska18

He’s the second worst husband because the Top most worst husband is still Virat Chavan of Ghum🤣🤣 anyway shiva almost committed bigamy by getting engaged to that disha phisha..!!! Openly engaged in a uninterested romance with her..!! Always treated Raavi as shit..!!! The entire family treats her like a doormat!! I started watching PS thinking it might be less toxic, but its the same.. same female cast treated as doormat and constantly manhandled by her husband and his good for nothing family and coincidently she’s an orphan... that Rishita does all sort of blunders, but the rules don’t apply to her..coz they’re saved for the orphan bechari female cast that is adored by the audience... i hate ITV.. and the makers should stop using the Shiv bholenaath reference for Shiva coz unlike Shiva, bholenaath was not an adulterer bhabhi bhakt, also didn’t manhandle his wife..!!

Bold: second worst bhi zyada ho jaayrga nahi?? Kyunki sitara pe worst husbands ki koi kami nahi, infact ITV pe worst husbands ki koi kami nahi h. To mention a few - Aditya Kumar Tripathi, Vanraj Shah, Harsh Vardhar Birla, Aubhav Kulshrestha, Fateh singh Virk, Rishi Oberoi and the list always goes on...

Originally posted by: Kween_Snowflake

Bold: second worst bhi zyada ho jaayrga nahi?? Kyunki sitara pe worst husbands ki koi kami nahi, infact ITV pe worst husbands ki koi kami nahi h. To mention a few - Aditya Kumar Tripathi, Vanraj Shah, Harsh Vardhar Birla, Aubhav Kulshrestha, Fateh singh Virk, Rishi Oberoi and the list always goes on...

Shat pratishat 🤣🤣 agdi barobaar bolis!!

Shiva is what Pandya Store parivaar calls it, bail buddhi

There are similarities between Shiva and Suman, both are hot tempered (Dhara’s words). Any little thing, ready to blame others. One only blame others when they love someone passionately.

I am not defending Suman or Shiva here, their past mistakes cannot be forgotten but Suman taking it out on Raavi is also her love towards Raavi.

Shiva is least interested in Krish issue as he was more interested in making Raavi realise how much he wants her attention but only his way of showing his affection is through anger.

Raavi does understand him and Suman and hence she was the last person to be with Suman but needs to put her SM obsession aside and focus on Shiva.

Originally posted by: Kween_Snowflake

Bold: second worst bhi zyada ho jaayrga nahi?? Kyunki sitara pe worst husbands ki koi kami nahi, infact ITV pe worst husbands ki koi kami nahi h. To mention a few - Aditya Kumar Tripathi, Vanraj Shah, Harsh Vardhar Birla, Aubhav Kulshrestha, Fateh singh Virk, Rishi Oberoi and the list always goes on...

Exactly

I won't say 2nd worst

I will say he is in list of toxic and bad husbands of ITV.

Originally posted by: Seja1

Shiva is what Pandya Store parivaar calls it, bail buddhi

There are similarities between Shiva and Suman, both are hot tempered (Dhara’s words). Any little thing, ready to blame others. One only blame others when they love someone passionately.

I am not defending Suman or Shiva here, their past mistakes cannot be forgotten but Suman taking it out on Raavi is also her love towards Raavi.

Shiva is least interested in Krish issue as he was more interested in making Raavi realise how much he wants her attention but only his way of showing his affection is through anger.

Raavi does understand him and Suman and hence she was the last person to be with Suman but needs to put her SM obsession aside and focus on Shiva.

@Bold: I don't agree

She doesn't loves Raavi or cares about her.

She was literally accusing of her stealing and did all the shit before remarriage.

No one loves Raavi

Shiva thoda bohot apne mood ke hisab se karta hain otherwise no one loves or cares about her in the show nor the makers.

Originally posted by: Elska18

He’s the second worst husband because the Top most worst husband is still Virat Chavan of Ghum🤣🤣 anyway shiva almost committed bigamy by getting engaged to that disha phisha..!!! Openly engaged in a uninterested romance with her..!! Always treated Raavi as shit..!!! The entire family treats her like a doormat!! I started watching PS thinking it might be less toxic, but its the same.. same female cast treated as doormat and constantly manhandled by her husband and his good for nothing family and coincidently she’s an orphan... that Rishita does all sort of blunders, but the rules don’t apply to her..coz they’re saved for the orphan bechari female cast that is adored by the audience... i hate ITV.. and the makers should stop using the Shiv bholenaath reference for Shiva coz unlike Shiva, bholenaath was not an adulterer bhabhi bhakt, also didn’t manhandle his wife..!!

@Bold: Exactly

I hate it the way they bring our god in between in their shitty writing.

Originally posted by: Palak2812

@Bold: I don't agree

She doesn't loves Raavi or cares about her.

She was literally accusing of her stealing and did all the shit before remarriage.

No one loves Raavi

Shiva thoda bohot apne mood ke hisab se karta hain otherwise no one loves or cares about her in the show nor the makers.

Fair enough.

Love I guess is a very big word I used for Suman. I still think Suman likes Raavi but her way of showing this like is in the form of anger.

Suman’s flippity nature towards her DIL flips according to her needs I guess but I was trying to see from Suman and Shiva’s anger point of view especially towards their treatment of Raavi.

Agree with makers part not liking Raavi’s character as much as Dhara and Shiva and have tried to ruin Raavi’s character of her obsession with SM track.