Originally posted by: Pixierocks
I know right.
For me dhara as a character is someone who has always put band aid over a fracture and never really addressed the real issue. When dev and shiva fought, she was like gale mil jao and ykb. When shiva and raavi fought, she was like sab thik kar do. Stay together. And as long as her family potrays a superficial happy image, she is not concerned about anything else. So kidnapping shiva and forcing raavi for marriage is something i feel goes with her character. Hasn't she always been like that? Right from the marriage track, controlling and taking decisions without consulting the people involved.
What didn't make sense to me was why give the dlgs of samarpan, zabardasti and tyaag midway and then flip her? She should have been team pyaar mai sab kuch jaayaz hai right from the start.