Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #91|The Return of Raavi - Page 84

Originally posted by: Miss.M

Every word if the promo essentially came true... Even the end talking about the family being confused 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ I'm waiting and hoping that there is some sensibility at least in the future that will pull me back to watching it.

so true… I was not a dedicated follower of the show so never saw this promo earlier…but now I have seen it .. I think the end result was supposed to be this only…

I think their deep rooted hate has to hit extreme before numbing down…at this point, idk what to make out of it…but clearly Raavi is not in love…she just wanted to give her marriage a chance…

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

He should! Maami will have fits if he does that🤣

The least he could do..

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Raavi has went wrong at that time. I agree but the same way I forgive Shiva of pre marriage.

Bcoz it was not venomous to hear. It was not insulting for me to hear and watch it. But it is soo insulting to hear now the way Shiva talks when it isn't even directed towards me.

Shiva never told Raavi why he left her. Definitely Raavi shouldn't have taunted him for soo long but he never told her. Bcoz he thought he don't want to clear up the things.

When Raavi faught with Rishita bcoz she was insulting him, it was Shiva who said he doesn't give a damn about what others think and asked her to do the same. Then now why should Raavi defend him when he himself asked her not to do so ? (I definitely wanted her to shut those people but ya)

Now Shiva thinks that he isn't enough so let's character assinate her, insult her and give her divorce papers bcoz he thinks it is correct.

It has always been Shiva deciding things for Raavi. She was never in this relationship to put her point. & When she tried she was only Insulted in return.

Shiva trades her in exchange of kangan and instead it was Raavi who thought good in it even if there was nothing good in it. She was ready to jump for those kangan which didn't mattered to his family and he says ki he knew his brothers won't ever let him fall. Amazing. & That girl could have died but he would anyways would be saved and he made her feel like the biggest stupid person to feel his pain bcoz at the end agar kuch hota toh Ravi ke saath he hota bcoz his brothers would have anyway saved him.

Still that stupid girl got ok with it.

In Sawan Pooja he again insults but never even thought he did anything wrong.

His mother was putting fake allegations on Raavi defending is a very big thing he didn't asked her to shut up atleast Raavi asks her Massi to shut several times and she did too many times and when Mami is soo called villan.

Both have gone wrong but I never saw Raavi doing that wrong ki uska itna strong reaction will come from Shiva's side.

Misunderstanding

Thing is only Shiva decides of that piece of information is important or not to be known by Raavi.

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Not trying to sound bad but Raavi has given more reasons to be liked then Shiva did to Raavi in this relationship.

Shiva only saved her from physical harm and now even doesn't even give a damn if she gets hurt or not.

Shiva who used to be my favourite just keeps on doing wrong and then say he loves Raavi. Aur uska pyaar aisa hain jaha if Raavi even tries to be happy he will say stuffs like that her smile falls and she breaks further and I can be blind but I never saw Raavi doing the same.

👏👏👏 perfect !

there is no comparison between the 2..raavi might be wrong but the way everyone punishes her, specially shiva, is worse . they made it look like raavi doesnt wanna keep this relation coz shiva is living normally in the house and nobody talks about divorce or separation or what he does against raavi. he announced on the mike publicly that raavi is available for marriage but thats ok..everyone is judged by their latest mistake and raavi sinned by burning the lehenga. dhara shows the divorce notice to raavi n she forgot that its her sona shiva who got it in the first place. why should raavi alone try to mend everything , and gaura ka maan woh akele kyun rakhe ? she has full rights in the house as pandya bahu till the time she gets divorced. pandyas be damned. acha hua aaj sab

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Chances r very less but atleast can we see Raavi going to college?

I know she is unpaid maid and the person who will bear the nonsense and regressive stuffs of the other 3 females in the house.

But I really hope she goes to college

OG version mein ek scene hota hai jaha dono saas raavi ko bht daatti hai kyuki wo gold jwellery bech aati hai, utne mein shiva enter krta hai aur raavi ko defend karta hai without even knowing the matter. I so want something to happen here. (Akhir kab tak bas GAUMI peticoat chaap kehlayaega) ?

Only shiva can make her go to college. Baaki sab apne fayde mein pare rahenge.

Also raavi ka koi saga bhai ya cousin bhai ni aa skta kya, to take raavi away from somnath forever. Arey marrne k alawa normal scene v toh ho skta na, jaha in pandu people ko sach mein lage ki koi bht special chiz bht durr ja rahi. Shiva can go more mad and thinking ways to stop her from going and thinking about why does he want to stop her, gradually understanding about his feelings which are intense.

Believe me for a person who has devoted everything for his/her family, it takes a lottttttttttttttt of courage to go against them. He is the same guy who loathed Dev for thinking about rishita and not about family. He clearly said things because he was not in love. He could not understand what so great about love that he is ready to ruin relation b/w suman and dhara or suman and mama.

Now he is the one who is hell bent to do every wrong thing (right acc to him) to just free raavi.

He has been courageous but in wrong trajectory. Kisi ne bht khoob kaha hai : Baghi banna jaruri hai par kyu ban rahe ho wo janna aur bhi jaruri hai. There are endless possibility for this love story. They are strong creature yet very fragile in certain aspect.

This is the thing with shiva, he will not stay quiet like gaumbi if dahi wali aunty say shit to raavi or stop raavi blabbering with a kiss like dev did with rishita.

Meanwhile raavi wont be saying sone jaisa pati mera like dhara or aap shiva ko arrest ni kar skte, usne kuch ni kara like rishita. She can actually took very weird ways to torture the one who says something to her shiva, once rose in love. She is capable of doing atrangi things to a level where her bhoothnath have to stop her.

Originally posted by: deeps07

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krish is Overdoing it..one day krish is soft to shiva pulling him to dance along.. today I found him a bit too rude too , mourning abt the fact that they have lost ravi..and that is all due to shiva..

Gombi krish dev all are sided with ravi..and women sided with shiva I think..atleasr suman is and dhara based on her mood swings. And rishitha based on her personal benefits..🤪

i dunno why u say this..i felt he was defending shiva in front of his friends. 😕 but yeah i didnt like him throwing ink ..that was a violent reaction which was unnecessary. they could have made this scene light , like his friends teasing ke shiva lost on purpose for raavi ..but they made it yuck 🤢aisa laga abhi they will start beating krish and shiva will save him and kaka will come for cease fire..

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

so true… I was not a dedicated follower of the show so never saw this promo earlier…but now I have seen it .. I think the end result was supposed to be this only…

I think their deep rooted hate has to hit extreme before numbing down…at this point, idk what to make out of it…but clearly Raavi is not in love…she just wanted to give her marriage a chance…

Neither shiva nor ravi is supposed to be in love I think..shiva likes ravi..but he dnt believe ravi can ever have the same feelings for him..and hence he is anticipating the worst and rejecting her altogether..

Ravi too has the same feelings as shiva, in my views..her staring at shiva when she was pouring water during the jeera kaandh..her being shy and awkward when shiva was staring at her..she did react to everything when his his true feelings were unfiltered..

The problem here is..neither of them never verbalise their feelings to each other..

shivas hatred and anger makers her believe he hates her just like before and he is never going to love her..

Ravis ignorance , silence and wrong dialogues for the wrong things makes shiva believe she is adjusting with him for the sake of marrgand is disgusted by him..

The thing is..when she said she wanted to accept shiva and wanted him to accept her, proves that she too liked him the way he did..but the makers are so poor with their work that ,they never gave much scenes that proved what she said through her actions..but its for us to assume ..

Both of then are going thru a misunderstanding that neither of them can love each other..when they realise the good actions of both for each other,maybe we will find some progress. Like revelation of the behaviour those idiotic friends of ravi ..can clear her misunderstanding that shiva didn't cause the fight becz of his hatred for ravi..but he cared for her genuinely..

And shiva can see she is not happy to leave him even when the divorce is finalised, he can realise ,maybe she was indeed happy with him and not compromising with him..

Originally posted by: _charu_

👏👏👏 perfect !

there is no comparison between the 2..raavi might be wrong but the way everyone punishes her, specially shiva, is worse . they made it look like raavi doesnt wanna keep this relation coz shiva is living normally in the house and nobody talks about divorce or separation or what he does against raavi. he announced on the mike publicly that raavi is available for marriage but thats ok..everyone is judged by their latest mistake and raavi sinned by burning the lehenga. dhara shows the divorce notice to raavi n she forgot that its her sona shiva who got it in the first place. why should raavi alone try to mend everything , and gaura ka maan woh akele kyun rakhe ? she has full rights in the house as pandya bahu till the time she gets divorced. pandyas be damned. acha hua aaj sab

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It was due to her favourite Rishita and Krish due to whom she didn't wore it as she was about wear that lehenga only.

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She convientely forgot that it was her who asked her to burn it if she doesn't wanna wear it.

These people just love blaiming Raavi and blaim Shiva but never see what the shit they themselves do.

Originally posted by: _charu_

i dunno why u say this..i felt he was defending shiva in front of his friends. 😕 but yeah i didnt like him throwing ink ..that was a violent reaction which was unnecessary. they could have made this scene light , like his friends teasing ke shiva lost on purpose for raavi ..but they made it yuck 🤢aisa laga abhi they will start beating krish and shiva will save him and kaka will come for cease fire..

I did like that krish wanted to support shiva by going against those idiots and standing up for feminism..but I didn't understand why he had to throw that paint and all..like u said .violent reaction is a thing in pandya family..thats what I meant by him overdoing it..then the scene when he blames shiva for fighting with those people..Well shiva didn't even fight as much as krish did. .he just held their collar, warned them..and told them to get lost...krish was actually physical. He was lucky the idiots didn't beat him back..what abt bhabhi ma's stress then..🤪

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

Raavi has went wrong at that time. I agree but the same way I forgive Shiva of pre marriage.

Me too. I forgive them both pre marriage nadaani even though she have been subtle innher own insults towards him and he aggressive towards her.

Bcoz it was not venomous to hear. It was not insulting for me to hear and watch it. But it is soo insulting to hear now the way Shiva talks when it isn't even directed towards me.

I object! I definitely think ki Raavi had put many blames on his character. For example she tried to slap him after the kidnapping MU began and also said stuff like he left her and went off and how koi shiva naam rakhne se shankar nahin banta. Even in pooja in hveli he held her hand n even then because of her MU she said he wouldn’t need to take bows because he doesn’t fulfill them and yet we have seen that vow he has always fulfilled. Is that not accounted for Palak?? U feel it was not venomous?? It was very venomous for me to hear that. That was not pointing fingers at his character? Character assassination need not be just linking with some other ppl Palak. It can be this too.

Shiva never told Raavi why he left her. Definitely Raavi shouldn't have taunted him for soo long but he never told her. Bcoz he thought he don't want to clear up the things.

Now Raavi is silent just like Shiva was then. Raavi didn’t clear up what she feels about him. She instead calls him names again n again. She doesn’t defend him when her side of the world calls out to him and degrade him and expect him to take it lying down. If she wanted him silent she should have defended him to her friends instead.

When Raavi faught with Rishita bcoz she was insulting him, it was Shiva who said he doesn't give a damn about what others think and asked her to do the same. Then now why should Raavi defend him when he himself asked her not to do so ? (I definitely wanted her to shut those people but ya)

Shiva still doesn’t care what the world thinks about him. But her opinion matters. Because she is closer to him now. He had begun to see her as more. (The way of showing that is questionable I agree). Yet he had begun to see her as more than just his forceful wife. Her silence in that situation after sneha and diary just makes him thinks she agreed with those friends. She haven’t given him any other reason to not think that. Always made fun of him.

Now Shiva thinks that he isn't enough so let's character assinate her, insult her and give her divorce papers bcoz he thinks it is correct.

Shiva said go to those friends if u like being with them after she defends them to him when he is trying to tell her their reality. After her silence and the way she defends them in her frustration he says that in his frustration because after that there have been at least three scenes where he thinks he was wrong but cannot take back what he have done in the heat of the moment. (ABSOLUTELY WRONG THING TO DO!) and she slaps him (AGAIN WRONG)

It has always been Shiva deciding things for Raavi. She was never in this relationship to put her point. & When she tried she was only Insulted in return.

Accha? So the first night when Raavi decides before he utters a word ki tu tel hai aur main paani. Hum dono ka koi mel nahin. It wasn’t her deciding things? That was beginning point.

Shiva trades her in exchange of kangan and instead it was Raavi who thought good in it even if there was nothing good in it. She was ready to jump for those kangan which didn't mattered to his family and he says ki he knew his brothers won't ever let him fall. Amazing. & That girl could have died but he would anyways would be saved and he made her feel like the biggest stupid person to feel his pain bcoz at the end agar kuch hota toh Ravi ke saath he hota bcoz his brothers would have anyway saved him.

This I agree completely with u Palak. Mad guy. I do not support the man’s actions or words!!

Still that stupid girl got ok with it.

In Sawan Pooja he again insults but never even thought he did anything wrong.

Because she gave each dialogue tot for tat and before he even said anything about going to friends she began ranting on him on how he wouldn’t have gotten any girl for him because he deserves no one! N when he was about to say the reason why he did it she was he is jaahil gawar. Ok... So that is ok too!?

His mother was putting fake allegations on Raavi defending is a very big thing he didn't asked her to shut up atleast Raavi asks her Massi to shut several times and she did too many times and when Mami is soo called villan.

Maami is not so called villain. Maami is villain. She starts the fight always. N Raavi wasn’t even there to defend last time and before that she herself didn’t want to defend. Suman have said that after this matter started and maami have been doing this since years. So just Maami s support for Raavi will not erase her wrong doings. N when Maami can defend Raavi despite her mistakes why cant suman defend her son? So suman said wrong about Raavi and she is bad? Shiva went up to the mic after maami put all the ghee in fire and he was too much done with before he said the rishta thing! And even then he said main raavi ke laayak nahin. He never said raavi is at fault. So even that is wrong??

Both have gone wrong but I never saw Raavi doing that wrong ki uska itna strong reaction will come from Shiva's side.

Because u do not think putting blame on ppl when they r not at fault as wrong? Because u do not think knowing a persons reason for a certain action before calling them names wrong? She has been bullying him lowkey all her life. Or her friends wouldn’t have the guts to do this.

Misunderstanding

Thing is only Shiva decides of that piece of information is important or not to be known by Raavi.

Did she even ask what happened to trigger him? When he said tu nahin jante woh kaise hain! Did she ask why he said it?

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Not trying to sound bad but Raavi has given more reasons to be liked then Shiva did to Raavi in this relationship.

That is your opinion and u have all the reasons to stick to it. My opinion is different than urs. I see both as unlikeable. Her wrongs are not less than the guys.

Shiva only saved her from physical harm and now even doesn't even give a damn if she gets hurt or not.

And where is that shown? His clenched fists when she falls. Him holding her when she falls after dahi haandi cushioning her and all? Not counted?

Shiva who used to be my favourite just keeps on doing wrong and then say he loves Raavi. Aur uska pyaar aisa hain jaha if Raavi even tries to be happy he will say stuffs like that her smile falls and she breaks further and I can be blind but I never saw Raavi doing the same.

Her smile disappear n u saw that. But each time she has made fun of him with his own bros and her friends and even let the ppl talk about him. Its there too Palak.

If he is wrong she is too. That is all I say.

Brilliant post Maahi! You said it all perfectly 👏

Originally posted by: deeps07

Neither shiva nor ravi is supposed to be in love I think..shiva likes ravi..but he dnt believe ravi can ever have the same feelings for him..and hence he is anticipating the worst and rejecting her altogether..

Ravi too has the same feelings as shiva, in my views..her staring at shiva when she was pouring water during the jeera kaandh..her being shy and awkward when shiva was staring at her..she did react to everything when his his true feelings were unfiltered..

The problem here is..neither of them never verbalise their feelings to each other..

shivas hatred and anger makers her believe he hates her just like before and he is never going to love her..

Ravis ignorance , silence and wrong dialogues for the wrong things makes shiva believe she is adjusting with him for the sake of marrgand is disgusted by him..

The thing is..when she said she wanted to accept shiva and wanted him to accept her, proves that she too liked him the way he did..but the makers are so poor with their work that ,they never gave much scenes that proved what she said through her actions..but its for us to assume ..

Both of then are going thru a misunderstanding that neither of them can love each other..when they realise the good actions of both for each other,maybe we will find some progress. Like revelation of the behaviour those idiotic friends of ravi ..can clear her misunderstanding that shiva didn't cause the fight becz of his hatred for ravi..but he cared for her genuinely..

And shiva can see she is not happy to leave him even when the divorce is finalised, he can realise ,maybe she was indeed happy with him and not compromising with him..

I agree completely 🖤