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WHAT I SAW TODAY!

So I am guessing we all saw the episode and hopefully all are fuming with the physical abuse being shown in the name of discipline!

I get Dhara's side, she is frustrated, the poor woman has more than she can handle, SHE NEEDS A DAMN PSYCHIATRIST 🤣 but they are ruining her character, she never hit the boys when they were younger, why would they show this now?

Discipline can be done without physical violence as that only increases fear, doesn't increase someone's ability to rethink their actions!

This episode also showed me exactly how young the guys are, it's only been 10 years, and the guys are not older than 22, I don't do support any type of against young or older people! It is not a good look! Poor Dev, Gaumbi and Raavi were also swept up in this storm! 🤣

The duo deserved punishment for sure but not like this! 🤔

Good Points Today: Krish is a phenomenal dance! 😆 Like damn dude, he actually did a great job and it's sad that his dance sequence is overshadowed by the one-sided WWE match!

Bad Points: Physical Abuse 🤢 please no! Most of the generations are traumatized by it! Don't show that shit on TV and keep normalizing it!

I agree! The physical abuse was ridiculous, but not as much as hearing the shrill of her voice for almost the entire episode. So much a drama! What I would have done was let Krish get away(common sense would tell you it’s him from the height and build of the “bhoot”), calm Miss Fancy Pants down and turn the tables on the 2 Idiots. I would make Krish think something serious happened and then watch him and Idiot number 1 repent. So much drama, my head hurts!

Dhara was already frustrated and this prank was the last nail in the coffin I feel. The way she kept saying, none of you will come to me with your problems shows that she is fed up of everything happening... Rishita not at all trying to adjust, Raavi crying and blaming her(she is right at her place though), all these have taken a toll on her..

But that doesn't justify the physical abuse in any way🥱 just sometime ago she was stopping gaumbi from slapping Krish, now she resorted to the same thing

The scary thing about this is what it connotates: if she can beat them up with a sense of rightfulness at 22, she's probably done this before too when they were even younger - however sporadic such instances might have been, and how disturbed she must've gotten to be in such a state of mind, it doesn't take away from her willingness to actually resort to violence. Dhara's character has been tarnished for all viewers. The Dhara we saw with the kids before leap seems like an altogether different person.

Awesome post 🤣

You have a point.. she didn't beat them up when they were young ? Shiva has acted worse with mami. Playing pranks on her frm simple to weird to worst , yet she has been defensive for him..so what changed now ?

That physical abuse was traumatising to see. But I get it. In such households, disciplining with a stick is still considered an acceptable practice. I just wish the show shows that it’s not okay to beat someone like this for their mistakes. I hope Dhara repents and regrets hitting them. Krish and Shiva promise not to misbehave, Rishita agrees that she wants to live with the whole family.

Dhara needs to accept that she crossed the line. This is so that TRP aunties understand that hitting anyone, even a grown up is not okay

Originally posted by: LoLo

I agree! The physical abuse was ridiculous, but not as much as hearing the shrill of her voice for almost the entire episode. So much a drama! What I would have done was let Krish get away(common sense would tell you it’s him from the height and build of the “bhoot”), calm Miss Fancy Pants down and turn the tables on the 2 Idiots. I would make Krish think something serious happened and then watch him and Idiot number 1 repent. So much drama, my head hurts!

It could have turned into a fun track too! Dhara could have used it to teach the boys a lesson in a different way! But no...Dhara is her name and violence is her game! 😳

Originally posted by: Swathu

Dhara was already frustrated and this prank was the last nail in the coffin I feel. The way she kept saying, none of you will come to me with your problems shows that she is fed up of everything happening... Rishita not at all trying to adjust, Raavi crying and blaming her(she is right at her place though), all these have taken a toll on her..

But that doesn't justify the physical abuse in any way🥱 just sometime ago she was stopping gaumbi from slapping Krish, now she resorted to the same thing

Exactly, I posted earlier somewhere that I get it, I get Dhara! The poor woman has to put up with everyone's drama, everyone's tantrums, everyone's complaints, everyone anger, everyone's requests, everyone's health, everyone's responsibility! I 100% get her and I feel for her because at the end of the day she has to answer to Saasu Maa, not the boys!

But the violence and that's exactly what it is, is not it! 🤢

Originally posted by: Felicie

The scary thing about this is what it connotates: if she can beat them up with a sense of rightfulness at 22, she's probably done this before too when they were even younger - however sporadic such instances might have been, and how disturbed she must've gotten to be in such a state of mind, it doesn't take away from her willingness to actually resort to violence. Dhara's character has been tarnished for all viewers. The Dhara we saw with the kids before leap seems like an altogether different person.

I am going to stay positive on this point and hope that she never hit them as children as we never saw it, she got upset with them and didn't talk to them but she never hit them! But it also goes to show, if she managed to discipline them when they were younger without physical abuse, why is it being done now? It makes no sense!

But you are right!

Dhara's character is being butchered and I think it's all in the name of TRPs! 😭

Originally posted by: _charu_

Awesome post 🤣

You have a point.. she didn't beat them up when they were young ? Shiva has acted worse with mami. Playing pranks on her frm simple to weird to worst , yet she has been defensive for him..so what changed now ?

I don't know but I think the writers logic is this!