Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #4 - Page 67

Originally posted by: Sakmen

In today's episode when rishita came and told everyone that dev has already eaten, gaumbi reversed his plate gesturing that he won't eat now.. I know the family eating together value n all.. but I found it a little unfair to raavi, I mean it's her first rasoi and that poor girl has made all the effort to complete all the ritual.. it's wrong not to eat

All this may aggravate her inferiority complex.. just like rishita wearing that small dress as someone mentioned

Have to agree. I think Gaumbi acted too quickly (which he normally doesn't do) there by turning over the plate. I think he was just angry because he was under the assumption that Dev would eventually come, but felt sad that his wife and brother told him a few white lies (family foundation should never fall over silly things like this). Maybe he realizes his rash mistake so he makes the gesture to feed Raavi (as shown in the precap)?

In terms of inferiority complex, I don't know if Raavi is that type of person. I figured she lived in her own small bubble her whole life. Considering herself to be Somnath's most beautiful or the prettiest girl of all time. I think it just makes her happy when people validate her thoughts, and maybe it shows her a sense of place and belonging. In terms of her hesitancy with Rishita, I think it's more to do with Rishita's behavior. Raavi never knew of Rishita before this, but Rishita comes at her at every opportunity by making sure to show Raavi just how much DevTa are meant to be.

It gets kind of irritating when someone keeps coming up to you and showing how they're better. So, I think Raavi is particularly enjoying the praise coming from the Pandya family right now. From Krish's 9/10 to Dhara's 11/10, to Gaumbi's care and respect for her. It gives her an opportunity to not please her inferiority complex, but just herself in general. At least, that's what I thought.

Originally posted by: _charu_

Ah ! Apt comparison 🤣 Devdhar 🤣at least dhara is smart sometimes but dev is some level ka bhondu. I don't like dharas band aid attitude. She thinks all is well in her Yadon ki baarat world when there r underlying issues. Bec dhara.chooses to either hide them or not confront for family peace . By this , I don't mean rishita must become dhara part 2 , here pandya family will have to adjust more than rishita. Ur right, eating alone is no big deal , but yes, first rasoi wale din nai. Or dev can tell her u do what u want to, don't force me to follow you .

Dhara needs to chill and enjoy her pending honeymoon. She will either have to be more assertive if she wants hum saath saath hain world to stay , or take it easy. Ab rishita ko jungle queen banna hai ye raat ki rani , let them enjoy their honeymoon .

The last paragraph had me in splits 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: milkcakejamun

Have to agree. I think Gaumbi acted too quickly (which he normally doesn't do) there by turning over the plate. I think he was just angry because he was under the assumption that Dev would eventually come, but felt sad that his wife and brother told him a few white lies (family foundation should never fall over silly things like this). Maybe he realizes his rash mistake so he makes the gesture to feed Raavi (as shown in the precap)?

In terms of inferiority complex, I don't know if Raavi is that type of person. I figured she lived in her own small bubble her whole life. Considering herself to be Somnath's most beautiful or the prettiest girl of all time. I think it just makes her happy when people validate her thoughts, and maybe it shows her a sense of place and belonging. In terms of her hesitancy with Rishita, I think it's more to do with Rishita's behavior. Raavi never knew of Rishita before this, but Rishita comes at her at every opportunity by making sure to show Raavi just how much DevTa are meant to be.

It gets kind of irritating when someone keeps coming up to you and showing how they're better. So, I think Raavi is particularly enjoying the praise coming from the Pandya family right now. From Krish's 9/10 to Dhara's 11/10, to Gaumbi's care and respect for her. It gives her an opportunity to not please her inferiority complex, but just herself in general. At least, that's what I thought.

I agree, that's why I said she doesn't have inferiority complex in general but yeah somewhere down the line it might ne there with regard to rishita only and it might get aggravated if instances like this keep happening and may burst out sometime..

Dropped a new OS

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156799235

i dont blame dhara the way she is she came into panda house to get the responsibilities she knew what she is getting into so she never had the time for herself .

NEW READING MATERIAL!! I would like to profess my love to you and all the writers on this forum!

Originally posted by: EmeraldPrincess

Dropped a new OS

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/156799235

True!! The writers in the forum are awesome!!

Okay so I was so upset at the zabrdasti sindoor scene and Shivas man handling I wrote my first OS. Lmao leave me alone haha

Also I don’t want to waste your time with my introduction but just know I have been following this thread for the last few weeks and really appreciate y’alls humour!!

Anyways, I came up with this scene just briefly. This occurs after Raavi leaves to pacify Shiva after her outburst during the pooja..

Raavi walked towards the balcony and Shiva, khadoos as always had turned his face away from her. Heaving silently into the abyss.

“Shiva”, Raavi whispered.

Shiva didn’t turn around.

“Shiva dekho.” Raavi said.

Shiva ignored her, deciding to raise her voice higher she said “ Aye Shiva. Dekho mein tang aa chuki hoo. Mein bhi insaan houn. Mujhe bhi dard hota hai.

Paata hai ki tum Maami ko nafrat karte ho aur mujhe bhi. Lekin shaadi toh ho chuki hai na”

“Aye Mami ki bhen ki beti! Lecture na do. Nafrat nafrat ki khel tum logo ne shuri ki thi”

“Shiva, saat saal ke bachi ko nafrat ka khel nahi aata. Tum to bare ho gaye ho na. Mujhe sirf yahin khena hai ki jab tum mujhse zabardasti karte ho to dard hota hai.”

Shiva had already turned around staring intently at Raavis face.

Raavi angered at his behavior went up to him and grabbed his wrists. Squeezing as hard as she could until Shiva yelped.

“Dehka, dard hua na?” Raavi released her grip.

“Mujhe dekho na. Pyar toh maine kisi aur se kiya tha. Zabardasti se meri shadi kisi aur se hogayi. Dard. Jo aadmi se shaadi hui woh mujhe akela chor gaya. Dard. Shaadi ke do din bad jub mujhe yeh rishta qabool karne ka waqt aaya- jab mein sindoor lagane chali gayi toh yeh hak bhi tumne cheen liya. Dard.”

Shiva’s gaze could no longer fall from her eyes. How hopeful had they once been, so lively. These days when he looked at her they were quiet and always at the edge of grief. He twisted his wrists still feeling the imprints Raavi had made on him.

“Tera dard ka toh hisab nahi hai mere paas. Hum toh tumse nafrat ki umeed laga bhete the. Ab toh tu meri patni aur mein tera pati. Pata nahi kaise ho ga yeh sab.”

Raavi turned away.

Shiva following her gaze, “Dekho, tumse maafi mangne ka hak to Dev ko hai. Lekin tu thik kheti hai. Mujhe tere saath zabardesti nahi karna chahiye. Patna nahi kya ho jata hai jab tu mere paas aa jati ho. Hosh kho deta hu aur dimaag bhi nahi chalta. Lekin yeh kheta hoon ki aaj se koi zabardasti nahi.”

Raavi felt a slight burden of relief fall over her and a glimmer of hope finding its way in her heart.

“Maan toh nahi kar raha. Lekin tu khe raha hai to maan leti hoon. Chale, hume pooja pe chale jaana chahiye..”

They walked back to the pooja. Rishita had already grabbed Devs hand. And the pandit had already started the kasme’s. Shiva’s hand was still by his side, and Raavi gently grabbed his finger. Her grip startled Shiva who had already begun to repeat his promises.

That is beautiful Tina! I liked how you not only took care of the sindoor scene, but also man handling scene. Do participate in the discussions!

Nice one!! Please post the OS on the forum.