Pandya Store|Episode Discussion Thread #3 - Page 21

Originally posted by: Namita-M

Yes!!! Achcha hai!! Humari khoob jamegi in this phase. I’m so excited.

Nothing more beautiful than watching the realization dawn slowly. I love it ❤️

I am excited especially for Shiva's realization. He's gonna be awkward as hell and its gonna be amazing

Even Raavi is gonna be awkward but I guess it will be more of Shiva as he is way unaware about such types of feelings😆

Originally posted by: Namita-M

The best part about this family is, they all have their shortcomings and we will see them grow together.

Gives me the fuzzies

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

I know right

I am excited especially for Shiva's realization. He's gonna be awkward as hell and its gonna be amazing

Even Raavi is gonna be awkward but I guess it will be more of Shiva as he is way unaware about such types of feelings😆

You know, I feel Shiva likes her deep down. 😆

He might surprise us, who knows. Unintentionally, their lives have involved around each other.

Raavi, knows him too, maybe that’s why so much anger directed at Shiva.

I believe Krish will have a blast watching these two, just like us 😆

Originally posted by: Namita-M

You know, I feel Shiva likes her deep down. 😆

He might surprise us, who knows. Unintentionally, their lives have involved around each other.

Raavi, knows him too, maybe that’s why so much anger directed at Shiva.

I believe Krish will have a blast watching these two, just like us 😆

I can't wait for the whole family teasing them and these two all shy and blushing 🤣

Hello everyone,

So, I am finally back after watching the episode. I have a lot to say with the problematic Pandya family. Yes, they are a problematic lot because each individual has some intense problems that needs to be addressed instead of giving this Hum Saath Saath hai in freaking 2021!

Problematic Dhara:

She is kind hearted, extremely sacrificial and has done a lot for the family. Agreed. Respected. Her sad expression at even the tiniest side tracking from her home cooked food is problematic. Dhara baby, every individual is different. A family unit need not love everything YOU think is appropriate. Kids love to eat outside on a trip. If she is craving restaurant food, BIG DEAL! Chill.

Dharam Sankat:

Putting bhabhi’s home cooked food and Rishita’s food side by side and representing competition. Reiterating female patriarch system in households where the head female of the family needs to be treated like God. It’s simplistic. Feelings aren’t associated with food. We are still stuck with stereotypes and it’s funny how Rishita being this nagging wife is viewed from the lens of a crime. Agreed, Rishita is selfish but she isn’t an outsider who needs to worship your Dhara Bhabhi. Love grows! Slowly and steadily. Dhara stepped into her motherly mode which is great but give others a chance to know her as well. Let’s sing Kumbaya may not work each time. These are real people.


Raavi Made to feel Guilty and family dynamics being explored instead to grief counselling for a suicidal person:

Wrong questions asked to her: Tu toh Somnath ki achi ladki thi, Dhara Bhabhi jaisa bana whatever.... Misplaced anger. Making her realise her mistake.

Dhara’s counselling: Sab theek ho jayega.

Dude, mental health issues are REAL! Suicidal tendencies need to be addressed. Her state of mind needs to be explored instead of gaslighting. My biggest pet peeve is the trivialisation of mental health issues. Did anyone ask her the right questions.

Raavi, how do you feel about all this?
Raavi, is it making you uncomfortable?
Raavi, do you need a break from all this?
Raavi, I know Shiva isn’t your soulmate. Why don’t you talk to him. Or do you want to maintain a distance so that you feel better.

Raavi, do you want to seek professional help.

We are in 2021 for God’s sake and I wish a show had to guts to normalise mental health.

That would have been a real caring family to me instead of leaving her with manhandling Shiva.

Shiva-Raavi

These two are exactly stuck where they were, they have unresolved childhood issues and both know each other too well. Shiva knew what to do with her when she broke into hiccups. But, hello, stop making everything about an insult to Dhara Bhabhi. There are other individuals in the house and why should she become like Dhara Bhabhi. It’s problematic. His thinking and simultaneously Raavi who isn’t in the right frame of mind to understand anything.

In short, despite the familial love they all harp about, it’s a deeply problematic family.

Love can heal wounds but sometimes, you need to rip the band aid off, change it, let it bleed and get proper air.

Else, you’d be left with fulminating misery and putrid emotions.


It’s highly problematic that the family wants Dhara to decide everything for them. It’s deeply unsettling.

Originally posted by: Namita-M

You know, I feel Shiva likes her deep down. 😆

He might surprise us, who knows. Unintentionally, their lives have involved around each other.

Raavi, knows him too, maybe that’s why so much anger directed at Shiva.

I believe Krish will have a blast watching these two, just like us 😆

And also these two are more comfortable with each other

Like Shiva won't be like this to any girl. This type of comfort is just with Raavi

Raavi maybe I have no idea feels a sense of belonging with him and hence sees it as her right to have an unfiltered mouth

Krish is defo us audience

Sab jagah se entertainment lunga!

Originally posted by: Amphitrite

I know right

I am excited especially for Shiva's realization. He's gonna be awkward as hell and its gonna be amazing

Even Raavi is gonna be awkward but I guess it will be more of Shiva as he is way unaware about such types of feelings😆

Exactly

That's what I'm waiting for! How Shiva will realise the feelings which he never came across!

The best will be slow realization, He realising bit by bit. That'll be a treat to see!

Today's episode was very interesting. I think I absolutely have a soft corner for Dhara. As much as she can be a little overbearing sometimes, she is a mother in the true sense of the word. Loved seeing her taking care of Risitha like a chotu baby.

I liked how Shiva called out Raavi for misdirecting her anger. Raavi I think needs to find herself once again. Shiva is the voice of reason in the family many times if ya'll have noticed it. He defends everyone, is straightforward and calls out the BS of Dev.

Which brings me to Dev. Man, why is he like this? Makers please do something and make me understand this guy. He got into a fight with Shiva and was being annoying with the whole I am your big brother crap. Please, I really want to root for DevTa.

Krish being the best character ever his one liners and general fun presence. 🤣

I hope they use ShiVi BGM again. It was lovely and they have not used it since the Kidnapping track.

Originally posted by: GrilledCheese

I can't wait for the whole family teasing them and these two all shy and blushing 🤣

Ooh that part was so much fun in the Tamil version. So I legit can't wait for it to happen here.

Originally posted by: Abhipyaarhua

Today's episode was very interesting. I think I absolutely have a soft corner for Dhara. As much as she can be a little overbearing sometimes, she is a mother in the true sense of the word. Loved seeing her taking care of Risitha like a chotu baby.

I liked how Shiva called out Raavi for misdirecting her anger. Raavi I think needs to find herself once again. Shiva is the voice of reason in the family many times if ya'll have noticed it. He defends everyone, is straightforward and calls out the BS of Dev.

Which brings me to Dev. Man, why is he like this? Makers please do something and make me understand this guy. He got into a fight with Shiva and was being annoying with the whole I am your big brother crap. Please, I really want to root for DevTa.

Krish being the best character ever his one liners and general fun presence. 🤣

I hope they use ShiVi BGM again. It was lovely and they have not used it since the Kidnapping track.

When Krish said- Gaumbii

& Suddenly both brothers hugged each other, that was funny 😆

Post kidnapping track They're using Raabta in bgm for ShiVi.

Even I miss their old bgm!