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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Ctrl-Alt-Del


I am Muslim, and in my family, there are many marriages that could be considered love marriages. They are arranged by the families so not everyone knows that they are love marriages. However, their 'love' is liking between two people and then telling the parents about their choice. Dating on roofs, meeting in hotels, giving gifts, holding hands, or doing anything that is not allowed in Islam to do with a na-mahram is objectionable. Also, both boys are girls are sensible enough to choose someone who is compatible with them and their family since marriages in our culture are between two families, not just between two people. In KAM3 and RB, the boy and girl fall for a person that is not compatible so muhabbat mein nakaami was inevitable.

Yeah that’s fine, and that happens a lot actually, getting to know someone with their family knowing is common but it just depends on how you interpret ‘love marriage’. Choosing and liking someone and getting to know someone is different to be actively involved with someone without anyone knowing.

With Kam3 and RB I agree with what you’re saying.

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: awida

Can lost love draw you to the almighty? I think it is possible, coz if you don't lose your mind or life over this loss, you can always return to the one and the only.😊 In this ep Dilawar told Feedi that aashiq finds sukoon in lonliness. So I guess in lonliness Feedi will form a strong bond with Allah. ❤️ I wonder how Dilawar didn't become peer fakeer himself.😆

aare ab sub peer fakeer nahi bante .

Everybody has own way to deal with heartbreak

Apna feedi thoda alag kism ka hai😆

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Unique.Sheep

😲 i disagree with that

Its very rare where love stories are unsuccessful, but those ones become the most intense

Adhura pyar hi saccha pyar hota hai kyunki wo shadi ke chochlo me naho fasta🤣

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Ctrl-Alt-Del


I am Muslim, and in my family, there are many marriages that could be considered love marriages. They are arranged by the families so not everyone knows that they are love marriages. However, their 'love' is liking between two people and then telling the parents about their choice. Dating on roofs, meeting in hotels, giving gifts, holding hands, or doing anything that is not allowed in Islam to do with a na-mahram is objectionable. Also, both boys are girls are sensible enough to choose someone who is compatible with them and their family since marriages in our culture are between two families, not just between two people. In KAM3 and RB, the boy and girl fall for a person that is not compatible so muhabbat mein nakaami was inevitable.

but yr mohbbat kab ye sub dekhkar hoti hai😆

Mohabbat toh bus ho jati hai

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: awida

In reality too most of lovestories are unsuccessfull. 💔 But this kind of ishq which Feedi has for Mahi is a rarity.🥺 I know only few ppl will appreciate it in this material world. But this pure love, and junoon is what legends had : Majnu Laila, Soni Mahiwal, Heer Raanjha, Romeo Juliet , and few more ..have such lovestories which remains forever

Except that in all these stories, Laila sohni shireen and juliet didn't go for second hand option . They loved their counterparts and I guess for all of them, it was love at first sight. Their love stories ended tragically but they loved each other and there wasn't a third person between them. These men didn't crush their self respect the way Farhad did.



This kind of love is rarity because it's the height of nonsensical thinking , which leads a person straight into depression and suicidal thoughts in normal world , so i can't appreciate it...nothing like..material world mein iski jagah nai. They made the story about girls choice not her falling in love inspite of her status ...now it's guilt and sympathy which will be called deewangi..all as per her convenience...she sees Farhad as a pest ..I mean..she acts like he is a pest..then she changes her tune suddenly..Itna bekar writing I didn't expect.



Why aren't love stories successful? Why not ? Afsane toh kahaniyon se bante hain 😍 bollywood movies r full of love stories. Itni jaldi junooni pyar hota maine bhi kabhi nai dekha. I need to format my brain 😆 N come up with some good examples.

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Posted: 4 years ago

https://youtu.be/0CTqZDrp1Q8

nazim shah nsal khtam kar dene ki baat kkarta pata nahi kiski .😆

Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: Hamzahali09

Love stories in a Muslim household? Literally all the marriages in my house have been arranged so I guess it’s rare for some cultures and traditions. Most people in the older generation believe in love after marriage, besides it’s not even permissible in Islam but I guess making it halal as quick as possible saves you from sin.

What is not permissible? You can choose who you want to marry.

Couples are made in heaven after all

Personally I find love after marriage to be more pure

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Posted: 4 years ago

Hi All KAM3 fans!!

I saw KAM when I heard about KAM3 airing soon and became a fan of it. I knew I had to watch KAM3 not just because it was (implied) season 3, but more so due to Feroze - huge fan of him & his acting !! Was Fantabulous in Khaani (even my mom became a fan of his after watching it 😉)

Anyways, I had been waiting for sometime to put my 2 cents based on what has been shown & interpreted by me. I hope my thoughts dont confuse you all, like it does to me 😆

Story: I havent read any of the novels. However based on what I read in articles and discussions, I feel that he wasnt just inspired from Devdas, but he is doing so from other places as well

  • Taking KAM legacy forward with Khuda & Love
  • Mixing it up with Devdas by showing the class difference. Certainly the inspiration is not for anything else because originally Devas was love between 2 people (different classes) & male lead resorted to alcoholism which most certainly isnt the case here
  • Interweaving different (seven) stages of love (from arabic literature). I will try to bring in a little bit through characters

Mahi: I personally think Iqra has done a great job by showing us a character who is so confused at the feelings that she is experiencing, starting from feeling the freedom of air at the train station to now. Coming from a conservative background where there are separate Male/Female areas, surrounded by guards 24x7, it was certainly a breath of fresh air to travel to Lahore with only her bhabhi & Fakeera. Someone who has never interacted with a male - friend (forget love), other than her father & brother, befriending someone like Farhad to achieve the goals (getting her friend to meet her fiance), it appeared very normal to do so when you know you are returning in 4 days. To her he was someone whom she could "use" and throw away at her convenience, not to be remembered later for various reasons. It was okay for her to lead him on knowing well that he is attracted to her. Her biggest shock was when Farhad came to confess his feelings and turn her world upside down. Somewhere she too went through the same that he went in terms of shock to denial of accepting that someone could take her game seriously & come to her to confess. But her world truly rocked only when he confessed to her about his feelings. She experienced .. Fear .. Fear of falling in love .. Fear of falling in love with someone who was willing to give up everything for her ..

She went from denial to guilt and today she is standing on the cusp of guilt & love. And today's episode when for the first time she was his pain, she found herself standing on that cusp. Hereon, her journey begins of overcoming her guilt and falling in love with him.

Farhad: I have no words to say how great he has been in expressing his mischievousness (with his family), his dedication to work, his pain (of being rejected by her). I just can't.

I don't think he is a stupid guy. He is someone who is an emotional person, who thinks from his heart and is currently in denial and trying to grasp the reality of being rejected. it is him who is going through these stages of love - attraction, infatuation, love and from now his journey begins towards worship for his love. Isnt it true that worshiping your love is equivalent to worshiping God (Allah) -> Khuda aur Mohabbat ! I will leave madness & death aside for now because I dont know what the writers have decided for the end. But I won't be surprised if thats where they decide to move towards.

A few observations: I believe there's a thought process that goes into wardrobe design. Because I absolutely loved how they showed the character growth through their wardrobe. Farhad starts off this cheerful and happy-go-lucky guy with these white tshirts/sweaters. His down to earth personality was explored through neutral colors at the wedding and a little bit at Bhawalpur. And now, he is in darker shades with little bit of neutral shades thrown here or there showing the darkness (not evil) in his heart - pain, agony, suffering. I am seeing the same thing with Mahi as well - bright (cheerful) to neutral (widowhood) .. Both of them are showing character growth - its like you need to fall from height to realize the gravity of things around you (sorry for the lack of better words)

Today's episode: Overall the episode was the best so far. Feroze's subtle expressions of heartbreak (seeing her waiting to catch a glimpse of Taimoor, her slipping away from his hands/last efforts to win her heart), realization (that he can never be enough for her due to class difference) & hanging to the hope by its last thread (thanks to mixed signals 🤔)- were beyond words. These 3 moments stood out the most for me, only because of his acting. He couldn't divulge to this friend he made or cry out loud (2nd moment), and only to whom who is aware of his feelings

My Predictions: I think Mahi will meet him once to completely shatter him prompting him to move - Jazbaat dialogue. But it might be the train station meeting that will make him finally move him on his wheels. It is here that she will end up breaking her own heart in return (unbeknownst to her). From the promos - I think he might want to see her one last time (with the help of Dilawar) at her college - the scene where he sees her walking with her friend; and finding that stone/pearl in the library. I think the confrontation with Sajal & Dilawar will prompt him to move, but not sure yet. Usually my predictions are pretty bad ..😆

I dont think they have cut scenes, they are probably unfolding them slowly - right now in linear fashion. Not sure if they plan on using flashbacks/dream sequences to showcase their Lahore interactions - Shayar & Mohabbat dialogue.

Good God this post turned into a book already .. Sorry for exhausting your patience guys ..smiley26

My attempt was not to justify anybody's (Hashim Nadeem, Farhaad or Mahi) actions, they are merely my interpretation of the 10 episodes so far.

Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: FarhaadkiMahi

Adhura pyar hi saccha pyar hota hai kyunki wo shadi ke chochlo me naho fasta🤣

Thats because when you get something to uski value kam ho jati hai

You start taking that person for granted

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Posted: 4 years ago

Originally posted by: FarhaadkiMahi

😆 Sajal loving a worng person who allready in love.

But feedi doesnot love somebody who love someone else .trust me if he ever find mahi love taimoor or somebody else he is first one to back off .

Problem is mahi doesnot love taimoor. Deep down he knows mahi loves him (delusion bhi ho sakta hai) but it has to be break . & only mahi can break but i feel aur gud gober hoga🤣

Mahi doesn’t love Taimoor or Feedi. At least she wants someone like Taimoor. She says it to her bhabi. She’s very clear on what she wants in life. She wants an educated spouse. She likes Taimoor which eventually becomes love. She doesn’t even like Feedi.


And Sajal doesn’t know Feedi is in love with someone else. According to love logic pyaar dekh ker to nahi hota.

So why can’t Feedi force himself to love Sajal? Isn’t that what he is expecting from Mahi????


Feedi being Devdas is pitiful not loveable. If Mahi pities him, that isn’t love. Any Good human will be afraid of the danger Feedi is putting himself in. She wants him to leave. She can’t be clearer than that.

Edited by -shabz- - 4 years ago

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