Originally posted by: Amara_B
If this was 'real life' I would dislike all three of them (Etisham Sania and Shehrish).
Shehrish: is a selfish and careless individual, she's hot-headed and can't see beyond what 'seems' right to her. I disliked her character from the very first episode because I though she was out of order when she (1) screamed at Sania's MIL , and (2) became overbearing with other people's children.
However I feel a lot of Shehrish's insecurities are symptoms of depression. I genuinely think Shehrish may have some mental imbalance caused by not being able to have kids, and Shyam just doesn't know how to handle that. He's not even considering the possibility, he's just labelled her mad and washed his hands off her when she is his wife.
Which brings me to why I dislike Shyam (I think I dislike him the most out of the three of them). He is a spineless, good for nothing, fool.
First instead of telling his mum he wants to marry Shehrish he quietly gets engaged to Sania (which suggests he never loved Shehrish). Then when Shehrish told him to break the marriage off, he broke it off. Just like that, not thinking about how this would effect the innocent bystanders (i.e. the girl and her family).
When Sania came back into the picture instead of being a man and having the guts to tell his wife the truth, he assumed she wouldn't understand and chose to lie. Of course if you hide something like that from your spouse doubts will form. I honestly believe if he was honest in the first instance Shehrish would have been perfectly fine. I hate how people are saying it's all Shehrish's fault for doubting Shaam. They forget that the first person to do shuk in this drama was Shaam. He had shuk that Sherish wouldn't understand, that's what caused all these problems in the first place.
Shaam was looking for an out. Shehrish was overbearing and he wasn't happy in his relationship with her. Instead of being honest and trying to fix the problem, he displaced all the blame on Shehrish, giving himself an easy way out. Sania was his golden opportunity. He started comparing Shehrish to Sania the moment she came back into his life. For him Sania was an opportunity to get rid of Shehrish without having to look like the bad guy.
He made no real effort to fix things with Shehrish. Sure he repeatedly expressed his anger that she was doubting him, and shoutingly stated he would never cheat on her but it was always to sooth his own ego. To remind himself that 'hey it's ok I would never cheat so I'm not at wrong here, even if I do like Sania'. He never genuinely sat down with Shehrish and tried to build bridges.
He stalked Sania. Buying things for her, making sure she was comfortable, etc. was NOT his responsibility. Instead of chasing after her he should have been working at his own marriage. Sypmathising with someone does not mean you take them into your home and start treating them like a long lost friend. Today Sania said 'you're my husband not my boyfriend so why should I feel guilty', the first thing that came to my mind was 'whether you want to admit it or not, you two were acting like boyfriend/girlfriend whilst Shehrish was away'.
Then he jumped into marriage with Sania. What kind of a person marries another woman without their first wife knowing, and without divorcing their first wife?
To top it all of now he doesn't have the spine to fix his mess. He's stringing both women along to satisfy his male ego. Why doesn't he divorce one of them? And if he doesn't want to divorce either, then why doesn't he come clean and say this.
Shaams character seriously makes me sick.
Sania. Where do I start. Such a self-absorbed little girl. She calls Shehrish childish (and I agree) but she acts like a little girl herself. You're a fully grown woman you idiot, stop acting like the innocent victim in all this and take responsibility for your sins. She keeps saying 'maine koi guna nahi kiya' she's in denial (just like Shehrish).
She is a highly educated woman who has proven (whilst she was married to Ali) she is more than capable of living independently and providing for herself and her son. Yet she chose to act like an uneducated, helpless girl, who needs a man to live off.
She's such a two faced cow. At least with Shehrish what you see is what you get. Sania keeps saying she's innocent, but her actions speak louder. She told Ali she wouldn't marry again. Why the hell did she say this. She has every right to marry again so why did she say she wouldn't. I think it was to make herself look like the innocent princess. She clearly never intended to hold true to that promise because it didn't take much convincing for her to marry Shaam.
Instead of going and finding some rented accommodation, she goes and lives with relatives, after lying to both them and her mother about the cause of her leaving home.
Instead of finding a job she chose to rely on Shaam and then go and live with Shaam. No self-respecting woman does this. No self-respecting woman goes and lives with the man she is accused of having an affair with!
She married Etisham without telling her mum anything. To this day her mum doesn't know she's divorced let alone the fact that she's married. If she was completely innocent she'd have no qualms in telling her mum. She knows she is in the wrong (same goes for Shaam in why he hasn't told his mum). She said today she married Shaam for Izzat. If she cared about her izzat even a tiny bit, she would NEVER have lived with Shaam, or in Shaam's house let alone marry him. She married Shaam because she was attracted to him, Izzat had NOTHING to do with it.
Now again she's being manipulative in acting like the innocent one. She's casting Sherish as the 'bad' woman, by saying 'oh Shehrish keeps bad mouthing me and treating me like crap, but I am willing to sacrifise everything for her (that's how good I am) if only Shaam would let me go to Australia'.
Errr no. If she was truly that remorseful, and that willing to leave. She would leave. She wouldn't use a lame excuse like this one, to stay.
So yea I dislike them all. The worst is Shyaam, followed by Sania, and then Shehrish.
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