MOTW with a difference - Pallavi(Di) - Page 2

Originally posted by: muniza75

Congrats Pallu, once again you get a chance to Grill.
This time hope so i will not give you any chance to complain 😉 .

Thanks munni! 😃

When did I complain? I just said u posted Sheriff Bhai's questions last time! 😉

Here is my some questions to you.

1. As a mother what you think what is our first priority?

Undivided attention to your kids and taking care of their emotional, nutritional and educational needs!😳 In short, always "being there" for your children !

2. What you think about Damini as a mother?

Damini was a protective and possessive mother. On one hand she was very supportive to her kids, but she tried to kill Kripa because of her possessiveness abt Prithvi . She was too supportive as she even hid her children's faults many times and let them become psychotic! 😆

3. Plz write one Paragraph on motherhood.

I will quote some famous people here:

"God could not be everywhere and therefore he made mothers." -- Jewish proverb "Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother." -- Lin Yutang "The heart of a mother is a deep abyss at the bottom of which you will always find forgiveness." -- Honore' de Balzac (1799-1850) "My mother was the most beautiful woman I ever saw. All I am I owe to my mother. I attribute all my success in life to the moral, intellectual and physical education I received from her." -- George Washington (1732-1799) "By and large, mothers and housewives are the only workers who do not have regular time off. They are the great vacationless class." -- Anne Morrow Lindbergh (1907- ) 😆 "The mother's heart is the child's schoolroom." -- Henry Ward Beecher (1813-1887) Motherhood is the most beautiful feeling! When you hold your child for the first time, you feel blessed to be born a woman on earth and create this wonderful new life. At the same time its scary too as the child is totally dependant on you for every single thing for the first few years of his/her life. You feel responsible, apprehensive and totally immersed in this new life that God has handed over to you....to nurture, love and cherish! Motherhood is the toughest job on earth. A Balancing act worthy of applause! 😆

4. Nowadays kids are very spoil, how much one mother is responsible for that and why?

Mother (or rather parents) is responsible 50%.....the rest is outside influences. Mothers today want their children to have the best that they couldnt have so end up spoiling to some extent. But peer pressure and worldly influence also plays a major part in this process. All the designer brand clothes, ads on TV, consumerist society and instant gratification makes kids want more and behave badly with grown-ups if they cant get what they want. Respect is also gone from modern society! People dont respect elders, parents, teachers or anybody!

5. Did you heard about the incident of Austria? If yes what you think about that man?

Hes a monster, just EVIL! 😡
6. What punish you will give him?

I will lock him up in a tiny 10 by 10 rat hole for the rest of his life....and let him rot in his own dirt. So he experiences what his victims went through for 17 years in that low basement! 😡

7. After this incident do you think any woman is safe in her own home?

Ive heard of many such incidents but this is the worst! Right now I'm reading a novel on child prostitution which horrifies me! But it happens everywhere and nobody does a thing to stop it!

Women are not safe anywhere, be it home or outside as long as men rule the world!

8. What is the reason of all these incidents, rape, abusing, other violence?

Perversion, internet, just plain male perversion and control issues! The internet has opened up a Pandora's box of evils across the world.........but domestic violence always existed, maybe not reported so often. Its just men's debased ways of controlling the household!

How much do you blame on one woman about this?

Why would I blame women? They are the victims most of teh time! 😕

9. If you will get a chance to change one thing in this whole entire world, what it would be?

Men shd have babies too! Then they would know the difference! 😆

They would stop all the violence, abuse and other crimes as they would be too busy having babies and looking after them! Besides I believe creating life makes you respect life!

10. Plz dedicate one beautiful song on the special day of Mother's Day to all mothers of this forum.

Heres a beautiful Maa song from Taarey Zameen Per.....😃

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main kabhi batlaata nahi….
par andhere se darta hoon main maa

yuun to main dikhlaata nahi….
teri parwaah karta hoon main maa

tujhe sab hai pata….
hai na maa
tujhe sab hai pata…
meri maa

bheed mein yuun na chhodo mujhe….
ghar laut ke bhi aana paau maa

bhejna itna door mujhko tu….
yaad bhi tujhkoaana paau maa

kya itna bura….
hoon main maa
kya itna bura…
meri maa

jab bhi kabhi papa mujhe….
zor zor jhula jhulate hai maa

meri nazar dhoondhe tujhe….
sochun yahi tu aake thaamegi maa

unase main yeh kehta nahi….
par main seham jaata hoon main maa

chehre mein aane deta nahi….
dil hi dil mein ghabraata hoon main

tujhe sab hai pata….
hai na maa
tujhe sab hai pata…
meri maa

o main kabhi batlaata nahi….
par andhere se darta hoon main maa

yuun to main dikhlaata nahi….
teri parwaah karta hoon main maa

tujhe sab hai pata….
hai na maa
tujhe sab hai pata…
meri maa

Will come with more question tomorrow, till enjoy these 😳 .

Thanks for asking deep, philosophical questions instead of just abt IN or A-K! 😳 😆


Muniza

Originally posted by: adonis

Ha ha ha ha 😆 😆 😆

Congrats Pallavi didi 😉 for MOTW 😃

My Questions

1. How was Kripa as a mother

I think she was quite a good mother.....a little strict and by the book but fair enough! 😆 Like she got mad at Angad for feeding Prateek Pizza at the Hospital.....she was too uptight! 😆

2. How was Iqbal as a father 😆 😆 😆

U mean Angad as father! 😆 Angad was a terrible father, irresponsible, irrational, immoral. He spoiled Sur rotten during 1st 5 years when Kripa wasnt there ( I bet Kripa fixed Sur later on 😆}....he left a 4 yr old Prateek alone in the Mall to go buy ice-cream! 😡 How irresponsible and negligent is that?

Worst of all, he brought random bimbos into his bedroom while his 5 yr old daughter is in same house! DISGUSTING! 🤢


That is all
Sheriff Bhai 😃

Originally posted by: adonis

My next set of questions for u didi 😛

1. Who cleans bartans better ... Kripa or Iqbal Khan 😆

Kripa never washed bartans so I go for answer B! 😆

2. Who was jobless and is jobless more 😆 (Latest breaking news koi padha ) 😆 😆 😆

Kripa was never jobless.....she had the permanent job of repairing damaged goods Angad! 😆

3. Who fighrs more with costars and quits serials midway 😉😆

He can be called a "serial" quitter now! 😉😆

4. Who is unprofessional 😉

Answer B again., Lock IT, Mr. Bachchan! 😆

Originally posted by: monikaseth

👏HI pallavi , congratulation for this hot seat . 👏👏

My questions for you !

Choose one .

1.Kyph or Maayka . .....KYPH
2.Neha with vivaan or Iqbal. .............. IQBAL
3.Neha as a bubbly girl or serius women. .... BUBBLY😳
4.Neha as a business women or simple house wife. ........ BUSINESSWOMAN
5.Fish curry or Chikan curry. ...... FISH CURRY
6.Indiam cloths or western ...... INDIAN (Salwars)
7.Cold coffee with cream or Just simple coffee . ...... Cold Coffee with Cream (Mocha Frappuccino)


1. 5 Things about you .

Lazy, Witty, Sensitive, fun-loving, Creative!

2. 5 things which you still want to do.

Dance, sing, act, direct, visit the Himalayas!

3. 5 words for your mother .

Strict, old-fashioned, good story-teller, singing, acting.

4. what you fell when you hold your first baby daughter first time after giving birth?

It was an incredible joy.....a feeling of Miracle! 😳

5. when you meet jiju first time ?

When he came to meet me....arranged marriage style! 😆

6. As a mother what you want to teach your daughter .

Patience, self-respect, ambition and perseverance!

7. what you want to change one thing in your life if you got a chance?

Not listen to others' advice or commands and follow my instincts which is correct most of the time!

8. Best moment of your life , which you never forget.

I think the birth of both my babies! 😳

9. What you think about love ?

Pyaar koi bol nahin, pyaar awaz nahin, ek khamoshi sunti hai kaha karti hai

Sirf ehsaas hai yeh rooh se mehsoos karo"

10. Do you belive in love marriage .

Yes, I do to some extent but Ive seen love marriages collapse too when reality sets in.




Ok now some for Masti.

Tell me what you think about these character's.

1. Iqbal as angad. ....Impressive!
2. Neha as kripa ......Lovely!
3. Amit tondon as prithvi........Fishy!
4. Suvarna jha as misty ......Angry!
5. Sweta tiwari as prena. ........Graceful!
6. Ronit roy as mr. bajaj........Mindblowing! 😳
7. Smiriti Irani as tulsi . .......Maternal!
8. Faizan as kartik . ...........Cute!
9. Maya alagh as dadi. ........Cuter! 😳
10. Chetan as josh. .........Cutest! 😳

Your Fav Things.

1. Your Fav drink. .......Tea
2. Your Fav Food. ........Bengali Peas Kachori and Alu dum
3. Your Fav sweet. .......Kalo Jaam (Kala Jamun)
4. Your Fav Dress. ......Kurtis and pants
5. Your Fav Holiday place. ...... Himalayas
6. Your Fav Perfume ....... Amarige by Givenchy
7. Your Fav Place in Calcutta. ... Dakshineswar Kali temple
8. Your Fav brand for lipstick. ....Revlon
9. Your Fav Flowers .......Rajnigandha
10. Your Fav Fruits ........Mango😳, Jackfruit (kanthal)
11. Your Fav T,V Channel. ...... Sony, Zee
12. Your Fav Current T.V show. .... Waqt, Maayka

13. Your Fav FanFic. Mine or others? If its mine then its Teri Baahon Mein!

14. Your Fav Concert in kyph. ......Pyaar Kiya toh Nibhana! Loved the grinding and hand movements! 😉😳😆

15. Your Fav Mother Daughter or son scene in kyph .

Kripa saving Sur from accident, Angad posing for pics at the party with sur and prateek. 😳

16. Your Fav Sad scene in kyph.

Kripa loses baby in hospital, Angad gets blasted by Dadi...I still cry when I see it! 😭

17. Your Fav scene in kyph. ....Tabela scene when they stare at each other! 😳

18. Your Fav Song . ...... right now its Tumsey Hi from Jab we Met!

19. Your Fav movie Indian & International.

Indian: Sholay......

Foreign: Sound of Music

(each movie Ive watched 20 times at least)😆

20. Your Fav Car. : Nissan Maxima which I drive 😳 Its smooooth!

With love and best wishes monika.👏

Thanks monu! Wonderful questions! I really enjoyed them! 😃

Originally posted by: adonis

My next set of questions for u didi 😛

1. Who cleans bartans better ... Kripa or Iqbal Khan 😆
2. Who was jobless and is jobless more 😆 (Latest breaking news koi padha ) 😆 😆 😆

3. Who fighrs more with costars and quits serials midway 😉😆

4. Who is unprofessional 😉

🤣 you are too much adonis.. Awww Happy mother's Day to our Dearest Pallavididi..and Congrats..

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Me and Mr. Bachchan 😆😳.. I like it ... naa Im actually loving it 😉

Awesome answers didi, you absolutely rock. Happy mothers day 😃

Originally posted by: sudhirm_2007

🤣

🤣 you are too much adonis.. Awww Happy mother's Day to our Dearest Pallavididi..and Congrats..

Thanks Sudhir Bhai 😛

Originally posted by: Yeah

CONGRATULATIONSSSS DI!!!

I think we need ur son here to tell us howw greattt a mother u really are ..LOL!...But I can say without a doubt that you are an amazingggg mother going by ur amazing personality! 😃

Thanks Manna! My son might have a different version to tell! 😆

K sooo questionsss...

How do you like being a mom?

Its a wonderful feeling! 😳

Do u like ur kids calling you MOM, Mother, Ma, or Pallvi Mom, or just Pallavi?

Mommy or Maa of course! 😳

When was the last time you really got angry and shouted at your children? Or has that yet to come?

I shout at my son everyday....can u imagine what a 2 year old can do? Theres a reason why they call it TERRIBLE TWOS! 😆

What do u like doing best with your kids?

Go on vacations! They love to travel as much as I do! 😃

Do u find enough time for them?

Yeah, I do.....Im not online 24/7. I mostly post at night. Besides my daughter is all grown-up, she doesnt need my attention!

So what was better...being single or being a mother?

Each has its good points! 😉😆

What has been ur BEST mother's day till date?

I think this year..... last Sunday. 😳 we had a really great time in NYC....did shopping, ate out at Thai restuarant and my daughter gifted me with a Guess handbag! 😳

How do you want ur relationship to be with ur kids once they grow older?

As friends more than parent-child. My daughter is already grown up and I treat her more as a friend! 😳

What is better being a daughter or being a mother?

Being a MOM! 😃

What is your favourite song that you like or would like singing to ur kids?

"Forever Young" by Rod Stewart

What is the worst thing about being a mother?

Worry and anxiety particularly when ur small kid is sick or even abt bullying in school!

What is the best thing about being a mother?

When they cuddle or give a sloppy kiss! 😳

Okayyyy...

So now...do u think being a mother ever makes u biased or will make ur biased? Like there are certain situations in ur life when u have to choose between a relationship and what is right. Say if that was with your kids...what would you opt to do or what do u think you would opt to do?

I would always support my kids unless they do something terribly wrong. I would support them above all family members and friends. And if somebody insults or harms my kids, I never forgive them!

I'm not sure if you have two kids...but if you were ever caught in between your two kids..what would you do? Would you choose one over the other or something else?

My case is unique as theres a big age difference between them. But my daughter thinks I favor my son which might be true as hes the baby of the family. 😆 But she knows she comes first.....in birth and importance. 😳 I try to be impartial most of the time.


So I waas watching U, Me, Aur Hum last night. And in it Ajay is a psychiatrist...and he states taht in his study books there was a scenario where both the mom and child are sinking. The mom will try to protect the child, but once the water starts to get into the mom's body or she feels like she's almost dying she will use the baby's head as a base to lift her self out. He said that was some human reaction mechanism. Do u think that is true? Do you think you would ever do that? Say you did do it...would u be okay with ur actions or spend ur life guiltily? Say u saved ur self by using ur child but then were also able to save ur child....would ur consience be okay with that? I'm not saying that in a rhetorical way to create any guilty feelings...it's a straight question and I wanna know how u think u will react.

Ajay Devgan as psychiatrist? 😆

All BS I tell u! The doctors dont know anything abt real life. They treat human beings objectively, percieve them clinically like lab rats. I will tell u a real life story, to show how a mother values her child's life above all else, even her own life!

This happened to my jeeju's friend. His family got swept away in the tsunami of 2004. His parents, wife, and 2 daughters were all swept away by the giant tidal wave. Everybody survived except for the mother.....she saw her younger daughter being swept away in the water and died of a heart attack from the terror of losing her child. She could have survived if she let herself float like the others. But the trauma of watching her little one swept away killed her! 😭

Okayyyy...
ummm

Supposedly..according to the Mayan Civilization..the world is ending on December 21, 2012. They have not drawn any calendars beyond that day...after that day there will be NO Sun....no light...adn we will all die eventually. Do you think that will actually happen? Do you believe in such prophecies?

I believe in Nostradamus Prophecies but not all others! 😆 Really? 2012? Then we dont have much time, do we? ....No Sun, No light? I think they meant a nuclear holocaust which is totally possible. The entire earth is sitting on a landmine of nuclear bombs.....just a switch will activate it and blow up the entire earth.


Say the above was true...what would you like to accomplish in the next 4 years? Would you live all your dreams?

If it is true, then yes, I would like to fulfil all my wishes, especially travel and see the world (Egypt, Europe, Hawaii, Japan etc)......... but then my main dream would remain unfulfilled....to see my kids grown up with their own families! My life is half-gone but I would feel terrible for all young ppl who have their entire lives ahead of them.....unlived, unrealized! 😭


Okay and the latest stint...Iqbal quit Choona Hai Asmaan. Why do u think he didnt renew his contract? Do u think he did the right thing?

TRP wise he did the right thing as that show is a terrible flop....bad story, bad direction, low-cost Air-Force drama without planes and a very plain-looking heroine! 😆 But career-wise it was his second suicide. First being when he ditched Ekta and KAA! 😉 His reputation will be that of a serial quitter now, like a serial killer! 😆

Ive also heard that he was having ego-clashes with Vivan on the sets. 😉
And finally...

How do u think the director should've portrayed Kripa as a mother? Was her current portrayal fine with you...or do u think it needed to be better or completely different?

Kripa's attitude towards Sur was absurd and unrealistic. How can a mother leave her child and stay away for 5 yrs? They could have shown her sneaking to Mumbai to sneak a peek at Sur but she didnt even bother to find out if Sur was okay! 😕 But she was quite loving with Prateek. I think she loved Prateek more as he was Angad's child! 😉


And same with Angad...

Angad was a BAD Dad! He spoiled Sur and didnt teach her values or manners. He left Prateek alone in the Mall to go get ice-cream. Worst of all, he brought random gals into his bedroom with his 5yr old daughter in the house. 🤢


Do u think they should've become parents soo early on in their relationship?

No, they shd have done family planning! 😉 😆 Getting carried away with passion is fine but they shd have been careful, especially Angad, who was more experienced and worldly-wise. His other Gfs didnt get preggy, did they? 😉

Do u think it was right or wrong taht their first ever child..they lost, keeping in mind they had only dated for a few months.

They consummated their relationship on Kripa's birthday (what a birthday gift 😳😆)....and they were intimate in Goa too by the looks of it. So it was plausible that she conceived. Kripa was too innocent, or too stupid to be careful or ask Angad to be so! 😆

Kripa miscarried becuz of emotional trauma of Angad's rejection and also physical injury! 😭


If the show ran again where do u think each of AK's baby should've come..including Sur...and how many do u think they should've had?

I think they had one more child after 3 years, a daughter this time, they named her Anjali! 😆 Sur will grow up to be a model or actress (she was already a little diva)😆, Prateek will be a Rockstar like his Dad...😳 . The 3rd one Krish will be a lawyer, Anjali will be a singer like Kripa. 😳



kk I think i'm running out...Enjoy that...if some of em are too personal don't bother answering...jus skip them. Anddddddd Enoy ur time as being Mother of the Week! 😃 I shall be back soon to check out how ur excellency has answered the questions above! 😆 😃

Thanks, your Honor! I hope I could give satisfactory answers! 😃