DOTW : What kind of love is that...Karthick?

Originally posted by: anithu

I can understand your frustration regarding karthi character..

According to me..Karthi and raji..both are at mistake..

Raji being a village girl and only daughter pampered by her father from her childhood..She was dependent on her dad for everything..Even to make a single decision or to solve any problem or share anything in her life..she was ultimately dependent on her father..She saw the another world when she started working with karthi , vishnu , lakshmi , kaushik , susan and soundarya..Life always comes with what we never expect..Raji saw the friendly nature , a caring shoulder , love , affection , feeling towards karthi..A girl like raji cannot take decision all of a sudden just because she is in love with karthi..But she changed..She was able to share her thoughts , problems , her feelings was well reciprocated to karthi in falls..But what mistake she was doing is not commited herself to karthi..knowing well aware she and karthi love each other..Facing her father is a challenging for her..Love can make wonders..Time for her to decide as she cannot live without karthi..

Karthi a man who is heart full of Gold , cool , city bread...fully independent to make decision of what he needs from childhood , an angry young chap..who is short tempered , possessive of raji..quite demanding kind of guy towards his love..His day to day life with raji , her innocent talk , her dependent nature on him...made him crazily fall for her..Everyman want her girl to choose her man when comes to life long commitment..when one mind and heart makes karthi to wait till raji decides..another mind longing for their love life..When raji unable to come forward daily..he is frustrated..which is merly possessiveness..Karthi insecurity of raji love for her father make him to irritate raji to the core..His heart beats only for raji but raji confusing mind make him to feel so much pain which blurts out in angry mood..

On the whole both raji and karthi in mistake..For raji time has to come to decide for her love towards karthi and for karthi..space needs to be given to raji...whatever it is..

Originally posted by: SnowGirl18

'' Give the ones you love wings to fly, roots to come back

and

reasons to stay''

I am highly disppointed with karthiks character, i understand his anger over raji, but i dont understand the logic that if you love someone and that someone has to love you back, i would say his love is that of a selfish one and not selfless, he is emotionally blackmailing her.

What is love ?

Something which comes without ant expectation, expectation that the person has to love you back , the same way, i was truly inspired by this guys character from the start , but not anymore, i support Raji , being an ordinary girl if i am put under the same circumstances i wouldnt dare accept karthiks love, i am an average girl i love my dad the most, and i am open about it,but karthik , being such a hypocrite, being selfish since the start, first it was the age thing and now this.

I am may be the only person who is supporting her here but i do because i understand the logic behind her behaviour, but i dont see a point supporting karthik! Raji has definitely come a long way for her love, breaking even her promise to her father, letting go of the age issue, coming from a rural back ground, i am proud of this girl, but kathik???

What kind of love can it be Karthick? A selfish, stupid love!!!

PS Sorry for the long post, but i wanted to vent out my frustration!!

Share your views 😃

nice views friends,

@sathya u have spoken my mind ,in a beautiful way,i couldn't have done that as nicely as u did😊

according to me love is commitment,and understanting,

accepting each other as they are...

karthik also did that ,but there is a limit to every thing,life should not be one way traffic,

one person is always at the receiving end one is always giving end,there should be a balance atleast to some extent,

i don't thing true love is "not expecting anything from lover,it doesn't make any sense,

there is no wrong in expecting his lover to say her love to him,who is dearly loving her,

he is not asking her to elope with him against her father,he just wants a word,a commitment from her side,

can't he deserved that atleast?

raji's problem is not the one popped up suddenly ,it was there from the very first day of their meeting,after coming to this far..she is hesitating to say the love is not at all acceptable

if she has a problem,she should have talked to him about her dilemmas so that they could have come up with a solution to the problem,[don't say that she is a shy girl ,she will not talk openly nnu,she had gone over broad in talking while in kone falls]

instead of doing that ,always saying "naan yeppa sonnen,yeppa love pannenn,naan onnum commit pannalai"

it was not at all acceptable,in fact it was an insult to her love.

if she doesn't have the guts to say her love,then why the hell she stared loving karthik at the first place.

she expects him to wait for her till eternity but she can't open her mouth and say a single word

if he feels sad and roam like devdas,there is no concern ,she is all set to marry her father's choice,

but she can't bear that he is moving on with some one,

i really doubt her love,if she really loving him she would have given him commitment long ago.

this girl seriously needs some courage and steady mind.

i don't say what karthik said yesterday was correct,he is also at mistake,

he is dieing to hear that three words from her,this is the ultimate wish of every lover i suppose,

in that process he is forcing her to say that word is also not correct,

he may wait or he may distance himself from her but blackmailing her is indeed bad.

but what to do this girl had left him with no other option.

seriously,director should leave this dragging track,and move the story with some other interesting track,it will spare us from discussing these many things and banging our heads.

Originally posted by: SnowGirl18

@Sathya,Kalabhas, thaks for sharing your opinion 😊

I beg to differ with you both!

In my opinion love has a different connotation , and yes karthiks expectation is not valid, again its my opinion , i respect yours too!

no props,opinion always differs😃

as per my opinion,a good relation should build up on both sides contribution,

what i am saying is raji too have some responsibility towards their relationship,

she can't deny that,atleast she should give a minimum guarantee to her love.