Ramesh use to cover up his brothers..is that so?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey Cousins.. After watching today's precap, where Ramesh said that,"maine pehle aisa bohot kiya aur main janta hu aur nahi chahta ki teri bhi halat iss ghar me meri tarah ho jaye" to Nisha ; it seemed like he used to take blame over his brother's deeds in past and slowly slowly he became the irresponsible one infront of his father whereas the other two remained goody. Do you also think that way?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I felt the same way. Either he used to cover up for his brothers or he has covered up something big for his family which no one is aware of. That's a nice twist and will justify Ramesh's character.
Why do I feel Dolly's mom knows what Ramesh could have done and that's the reason she keeps trying to help them out?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ditto my thoughts.. i felt he was trying to say that he had done lots of sacrifices n taken others blame on himself n do not want Nishu to repeat this mistakes.. May be he is still doing the same in business n hence getting less income. Will be clear only after seeing complete scene.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The problem was Nisha doesn't seem to care about what Ramesh was trying to say. I felt that weird. A little empathy would have been nice. She looked like she is still angry with him over the box argument they had.
As you said Vish, Ramesh seems to always taken others blame on him and now others take advantage of this habit and he isn't able to stand up for himself when he wants. He is completely right in asking Nisha not to be like that. I am sure he knows what Nisha did was right, but he fears for her.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

The problem was Nisha doesn't seem to care about what Ramesh was trying to say. I felt that weird. A little empathy would have been nice. She looked like she is still angry with him over the box argument they had.

As you said Vish, Ramesh seems to always taken others blame on him and now others take advantage of this habit and he isn't able to stand up for himself when he wants. He is completely right in asking Nisha not to be like that. I am sure he knows what Nisha did was right, but he fears for her.


I feel Nisha too doesn't respect her fathers just like others.. That's the reason she doesn't take any of his advice seriously. Nisha shares a great bond with her father but just like frnz.. I feel the respect which a father deserves is missing in their relationship and that's coz she has never seen anybody respecting her father.. She wants everyone to respect him but she doesn't realize that she needs to be the first one.

I guess Ramesh would have done the same for his bro or any other relative coz it's his nature but he doesn't want Nishu to be another Ramesh. He knows that she might earn love by doing this but will lose respect just like him and hence trying to stop her.The people for whom she is sacrificing will use her for their own benefits but will never praise her or stand for her when she will require them.

It reminds me of the episode where Ramesh was given less money.. I do not remember properly.. but the conversation indicated that the problem was from Umesh's father's side n the middle bro supported Ramesh but than blame came on Ramesh ultimately n he dint argue.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fairylover


I feel Nisha too doesn't respect her fathers just like others.. That's the reason she doesn't take any of his advice seriously. Nisha shares a great her father but just like frnz.. I feel the respect which a father deserves is missing in their relationship and that's coz she has never seen anybody respecting her father.. She wants everyone to respect him but she doesn't realize that she needs to be the first one.

I guess Ramesh would have done the same for his bro or any other relative coz it's his nature but he doesn't want Nishu to be another Ramesh. He knows that she might earn love by doing this but will lose respect just like him and hence trying to stop her.The people for whom she is sacrificing will use her for their own benefits but will never praise her or stand for her when she will require them.

It reminds me of the episode where Ramesh was given less money.. I do not remember properly.. but the conversation indicated that the problem was from Umesh's father's side n the middle bro supported Ramesh but than blame came on Ramesh ultimately n he dint argue.


@bold That's a wonderful perspective. Ramesh doesn't seem to get any respect from anyone. Everyone uses him from elders to his own son and Ramesh can't say no. It's his nature and probably he feels its too late to change. Nisha wants her father to get respect from Dadaji and her Tayji's but she needs to talk with respect with him. I loved how Ramesh asks her if she thinks she is a hero? That's the exact question I had in mind. She was right in whatever she did, but I didn't like the attitude in which she was answering her father. She can easily confess the truth to her family. They know the seriousness of the situation.

After Sumit's mother left, I wish Dolly's mother had told the family the truth. If she cares for Dolly, she should care equally for Nisha too. If Dadaji had known it was Sumit, Dolly might have been scolded, but I don't think her character would have been questioned the way Nisha's character is being questioned now.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502


After Sumit's mother left, I wish Dolly's mother had told the family the truth. If she cares for Dolly, she should care equally for Nisha too. If Dadaji had known it was Sumit, Dolly might have been scolded, but I don't think her character would have been questioned the way Nisha's character is being questioned now.


I agree.. Dolly's mother seemed to be a nice person who cares about everyone so I too was expecting her to confess the truth but may be she is not as outspoken as expected.. We have always seen her trying to hush kirti's mom when she insults Laxmi but her opposition was never strong.. Nor she ever succeeded in stopping her husband from scolding umesh so I feel she was scared to tell the truth in front of Dadaji.. i just hope she tells the truth to her husband and Laxmi. As her husband needs to understand that Nisha is not as bad as he thinks and Laxmi can feel proud of her daughter.. Though they will still feel bad coz of the accusation.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am sure Lakshmi and Ramesh won't believe what Nisha said.
Dolly's mother has to tell her husband or at the least Dadi. I feel Dadi can handle this situation and even talk to Dadaji regarding. I also like how Dadaji wasn't ready to believe Nisha. He knew she was trying to cover up.

I find all these sequences more interesting than Mr Right and Lahenga parts😆

Mohan seems to be compassionate with Ramesh at times, definitely more than Viren.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yes dear after watching today's episode me too think that like Nisha Umesh bhaiya also used to take whole blame of his brothers n now don't want Nishu's condition like that what is right now his condition i mean compromising in every thing like his career wanted to become a chef but with Family pressure got along in Family business
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shwets1502

I felt the same way. Either he used to cover up for his brothers or he has covered up something big for his family which no one is aware of. That's a nice twist and will justify Ramesh's character.

Why do I feel Dolly's mom knows what Ramesh could have done and that's the reason she keeps trying to help them out?

Very apt prediction. I totally second your thought there. Dolly's mother is always kind towards and tries justifying them. Yesterday also despite Nisha taking the blame, her eyes were all teary. She is always sweet to Ramesh and Lakshmi. This is going to be a very enticing twist if Ramesh had sacrificed much for the family and Dolly's mother knew it!

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