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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

How will Sweety/Lucky know if Pinky does not tell..😆

That's why Pinky should have discussed.

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Hemz

@PhoenixSnitch49

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

But if Pinky wud have told/discussed with LS. Sweety would have said no - 101% and then Pinky would be -- 😲Humare bacchhe alag hain?Kya main mere bhanje ko bhi gift nahi de sakti??😭

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

@Phoenix

At least it would be less embarrassing...Just imagine how it will be if Sweety denies the gift and asks her to take it back? ANd ask her if they cannot afford to get a bike.

I really hope Ginny tells Raashi about the promise for bike..and Raashi tells Pinky and stop giving the bike.

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Freethinker112

@Freethinker112

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Bike is an expensive gift, so they should have talked about it.

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ice.maiden

@ice.maiden

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

As discussed sometime before, there are 100s of Sweetys around us. You will find a lot of "I know it all" aunties always ready to give free advice. While they are good natured and their intentions are good, they have the wrong notion that they know everything about raising a child. Though this is not directly related to the topic, I am always reminded of Sweety when I encounter any of these aunties dishing out their free advice😆

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ice.maiden

@ice.maiden

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Coming to the topic, the root cause of the issue is that Sweety is extremely insecure, and she is running away from everything that is making her more insecure and clinging on to her old ways.

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Hi..yes..there are aunties like sweety.. that's fine
but this time she is too much out of control
she is not allowing anyone to talk and she is not listening... earlier she at least used to listen is Lucky says something serious.. but this time she is totally blinded...no trust on anyone but herself

and what's the solution to people like her?

Edited by Shwets1502 - 12 years ago

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ice.maiden

@ice.maiden

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Shwets1502
Hi..yes..there are aunties like sweety.. that's fine
but this time she is too much out of control
she is not allowing anyone to talk and she is not listening... earlier she at least used to listen is Lucky says something serious.. but this time she is totally blinded...no trust on anyone but herself

and what's the solution to people like her?

Life itself should teach them, Shwets.. No person can make them understand. Because according to them, no one knows better than them

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Shwetha

@Shwets1502

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

I agree Sushma that she realising by herself is better but it should not be too late...if she just listens what other is trying to say...she can get some clarification in her thoughts. she should not think others are wrong especially her own family.

I am not for shouting at her and making her listen..that won't work...now talking calmly also is not working...how long can the family bear her and wait patiently for her to realise and change?

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ice.maiden

@ice.maiden

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Sweety needs to realize that it is ok for her to make mistakes and that she need not be right all the time. Once she realizes this, she will be ready to accept her mistakes.

Right now, she is running away from the fact that she has made mistakes, and is outshouting everyone who points them out to her. She is busy trying to prove to everyone (including herself)

that she has never made mistakes.

Maybe someone needs to tell her that its ok for her to make mistakes, every human being does. For your own growth, you need to self-introspect and learn from your mistakes and not try and convince yourself that they are not mistakes at all.

Edited by ice.maiden - 12 years ago

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