Think N vote

Originally posted by: Newly_Born

Nice post. but wats the problem? why renuka used that bechari wali lines?

Originally posted by: Preet078

Before I share meh view ..I want to tell dat i dont have siblings ..so may be I m wrong ..I want to share views which i made after listening meh friends experience wid deir siblings...

Their is saying children are eyes of parents ..so if any one eye get infected v care for it more than other..v take preventive step for other eye but not dat level d infected one..

Same here in case of navya and renu..Renu behaves like strong dat may be d reason meeta not concern for her as for navya .or may be meeta never shows renu her love as she shows towards navya..

So its time of meeta to show her care and love to renu..Khate pyaar karne sae kuch nhi hota dikhna bhi padte hai..

Originally posted by: manojshonafan

WOW PREET U BROUGHT SUCH A STRONG POINT👏 well done u r absolutely right here maybe since both Navya n renu r poles apart where Navya is a shy coy gal next door wheras Renu is strong outspoken so maybe due to their contrast natures meeta might have felt more protective towards Navya since she knows renu can tackle situations on her own n besides u just echoed what mom says like children are like eyes of parents u cant chose between them but if one het affected u tend them more but that doesnt mean u neglect the other since even that hurts it will pain u

well done preet u brought up such a strong valid pt😃

Originally posted by: Chaits_04

There is one more dimension here.

Since Meetha thinks that renu is happily married and she has somebody who will take care of her, she is not concerned abt her.

But since Navya is still young and still with her parents it is parents duty to take care of them and worry abt them.

Now that Meetha realises not everything is OK with Renu she may show strong concerns and feelings for her and may repent for their decession of getting her married to Gautham!!

I feel parents will always like each child equally. Its only that they are less worried abt strong minded kid when compared to not so bold one..

Though I am a mother. I have only child so I do not know how I would have differentiated.

But i am a daughter among 2 girls so this is what I have written..

Originally posted by: anantanant

Hi Manoj :-)

Like Preet, I am also an only child, so I don't have personal experience of siblings vying for my parents' attention - they've always been there just for me. This has its drawbacks too - sometimes, I feel that I carry the burden of all my parents' hopes and aspirations on my shoulders alone - so when I let them down, they have no one else who can undo the damage! Also, it can be really exasperating in some situations - imagine Navya being an only child - at least Renu can try and talk to her parents on her behalf, na? Also, it takes the heat off Navya a bit when there are more children to worry about (my view). Whereas my parents had only me to think and worry about so in a sense that gave me no breathing space sometimes! So there are pros and cons here...

OK now, purely from a story point of view, we have not been filled in with all the details about Renu. I think we will see/hear more of it (hopefully) in the coming weeks. From what we've seen so far, Renu has faced all the problems of being a first-born - parents would've been more strict with her than her siblings. She is feeling hard done by because of this (as she mentioned during the picnic time - she feels that except her, everyone else lives their lives on their own terms) - may be she feels her parents are more understanding of Navya and Harsh compared to her.

I think a good mum-daughter chat is needed between Renu and Mita - I hope that Mita listens to Renu instead of brushing off her problem or forcing her to return home to Gautam. She should be supportive.

And I don't understand why she wants to hide this from Deepak? Shouldn't he know what's going on in his daughter's life? I don't understand the need for secrecy there!