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Shilpa (sajani), nice post, I have no arguments in that effect.
But I have one doubt, u said navya should never lie. So what she should have done? Gone to her mom and said, " ma today anant said I love U, what do I tell him?".
thank u sweets for the reply...🤗
Now as for ur question...
Let me say...if that question is going to be just abruptly presented to her mom on 1 fine day...then no...
Maybe...let me present a scenario...n this is from 2 of my personal experiences...1 from myself...and I have 1 seen in someone else..
I used to stand where navya stood once and began to hide the truth from my mom about my love life just like navya...n when my mom got to know about it by herself...she was as broken n shattered as meeta...n u know wat she told me then...that it wudnt have hurt as much if I wud have told her everything myself from the beginning vs she finding it out herself via others...
Know what I saw in someone else's situation...
This gal from the very beginning ...ever since she began to get attraction towards guys like how all gals do...she began to tell every thing to her mom...how she found the guy cute...how she felt attraction...how a guy was passing at her...n u know what I observed...the mom n the daughter...slowly began to get more closer...more like friends n slowly became best of friends to such an extent...that when she met the love of her life...the mom understood her daughter...her feelings...n infact provided the best of the guide...
Moral of this that I learnt:
The first mistake we gals tend to do is to hide even our little attractions towards guys...we infact share it with friends...When a guy passes at us...we giggle to ourselves n laugh it off with our friends...but we tend to hide it from our mom...WHY, I ask????
Do we forget...that mom is a woman at the end of the day...who have been thru the same age n stage of feelings once in her lifetime as well??? Do we just assume she will not understand those bubbly goose bumps we get in those feelings we get???
Similarly...Navya did wat we all tend to do at that tender age...
Wat m trying to say here is...if Navya wud have started to tell her mom from the very start...of her lill feelings of attractions towards Anant (even her confusion towards her feelings)...things may not have blown out of proportion ...the mom wud have been aware of her daughters lill heart n the feelings brewing in them...she wud have gotten acquianted with the type of guy Anant is if Navya wud have kept dropping lill lines about him and it may not have come as a shocker for the mom...infact...there wud have been a strange but a very strong bond created between the mom n the daughter...and just like in reality of how we gals do...navya didnt realize that her mom cud be the bestest friend she cud ever have...coz she will understand her the best n guide her the best as well...Had she kept her mom in the loop of her lill beating heart...then coming to her n telling her "mom...today Anant said I love u to me and I felt a certain good feeling in me"...now based on wat I just said above...how do u think the mom wud have reacted?? Atleast I dont think she wud have gotten shocked n scolded her😳
Meeta is not really upset that Navya is having a guy in her life...she is more upset that navya did not inform her about it...n chose to betray her trust...She chose to keep her feelings hidden from her mom n thats where meeta is feeling the disconnection with her daughter...
Meeta is fearful to lose her daughter due to this disconnection n also coz she has no clue who the guy is...wat kinda guy he is...
I hope I was able to explain this better...I maybe wrong in my perception...but I can only say...that when I see meeta...I can totally comprehend with her reactions n to me they are justifiable😳😳
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