My expectations! - Page 2

Originally posted by: piya2025

I may sound weird Ritz,So Pahele hi ..Im sorry..

anyway,Moving on to the point to your points :)

Anant's Background :

Kinda disagree,You probably cant relate to him background coz he's a guy but if there were a girl with the same background im sure you could have relate well..if not then you might just understand..

1st of all,Its totally my belief that guys like Anant hardly exit,May be having 2/3 traits like him or simply don't but Anant-I dont think boys like him exit (I repeat)
But as its a show & he's in so acc to his situation,A person can take stand against his family for his love when he has got the assurity from the girl that yes we are sure "its love" We are right,We have the guts,so its the time for making a decision & follow it..
But in his case..
They know its love but the girls doesnt have the guts yet to be with him totally,She,from her heart its not strong yet so as navya said in a epi,"When Im not sure that if i can go against my family for you or not then how can I told you to do so" Exactly the point..Then how can he take a stand? For whom? why?-when things are not even sure..
Yeah He could have be like "look into my eyes,u goona admit now",corning the girl n all then she would have say "ok ok Lets go,we are on for a war against family for our love"-Then do you think it would be anything but real? who does such stuff in real life? we have only seen them in SO's show ..

Yes that getting engage,not saying anything..thats where I agree..that bit is unrealistic to some extent coz which guy would do that.. I can understand his upbringing n all that,the way that creepstar married off his bro as well but still its not really happening..if CV's had shows that He stood against it (like he did during Nimisha's engagement time) it'd have look much realistic.

Being friend-Poor guy,He's trying to talk but The girl is not giving him a chance..So I dont blame him here.

Conversation with Family - Dude..You need it to do it Right NOW.. Kise ko bhi pakad Bhaiya,Nimisha..mom..Bol pahele aghae ka badh mein soch lena.. are you hearing CV's.. That fammily is not all about that creepy baba,Prabhuji's putri Buadadi.,Daaat majjan wali babi,not so dream girl Shagun..for once look around n get some sane member to deal with that poor chap.

About Navya :

Im a girl but honestly I can relate more with Anant's pain than Navya its funny..Not saying I totally dont coz As i said before..Im very much like her,may be a bit more confident..but as they say,You cant understand a girl's mind ,can u? So I guess,In navya's case its the same..She's right in her way,,She wanted to talk to him but then cut the call thinking about the phone call she got from a unknown number.. trying to be happy when she's not..dont we do that just to let our family feel its all good when its not.
Yes she did congratulate Anant coz she herself made the move n said "move on" the relationship is probably not meant to be as we love our families too much to scarifies them for our love..

Some one said it so correctly..

When a friend become your lover its love but its hard to be friends with the one you loved.

About being emotional-You cant blame actually,Its an individual traits,sometime a person cry over a small thing but the same person doesn't even shed a tear when s'thing big n bad happen..

I agree,being "today's generation" one need to be bold ,strong etc what you said but you know,each country,culture,individual's things,upbringing are different,no matter in which century we are living & also each love story cant be a fairytale..s'time we have to be strong enough to let go our love as the situation demand & no matter how much you want but its just in your destiny n you have to..

Sometime your family-no matter how much they love you,makes you cry just for the sake of their"always right decision" without thinking right/left..

I so agree with that dialogue of baba-

"I love you verrry much..but beta ji dont dare (as you dont have the right)to question my decision..aur middle way ka toh sochna bhi na (lol)

Originally posted by: anantanant

Interesting post and equally interesting reply above. I understand ritz's frustrations - it's justified. Taking a stand for someone you love and care about is something I thought Anant's character will do. But as piya pointed out, Anant is not able to do that because he does not yet have that assurance from Navya that she loves him. Navya herself does not realise how much she loves him - she is thinking now that she can forget Anant and move on, however sad/difficult it may be. There will come a time (hope cvs will show this transformation) when both will realise they have strong enough feelings for one another that will give them courage to stand up to their families...

Believe me, as someone who has seen friends face this situation (faced a break-up when the other person felt they could not handle family's pressures, then got back after a few months, now happily married), AnYa need that realisation. I am sure then Anant will take a stand, and so will Navya.

Originally posted by: pkaur92

Nice post Ritz
I agree, anant should share his problem with atleast nnimisha - thats what bro-sis are for, well technically!
and if his bro asked him, he should have told him

and navya, for god sake!!!!!! stop trying to ignore him, he loves u, u tke him as a joke (as far as i understand)

gosh, i dont think after all this navya is worth anant (dont kill me lol)
i mean i understand her pov aswell that by talking etc, they will just increase the pain, but u gotta stand together in pain too - thats LOVE

Originally posted by: supria

😛😛 hi Ritz... a great post, n uve echoed some of the v thots that ran thru my mind after yesdays episode...but piya's reply above gave me a new insight...thats y i love n dont miss coming out here to this forum...its become as big an addiction as watching the show...u get some many new thoughts n answers to many blink-n-miss things that happen on this show...one thing im angry with ananth is y is he just not talking to anyone?? not even his big adorable bro...n even ranbir, navya being the darpok is herself telling things to her friends ...then y is this guy just not talking? yesday, i somehow thot that he wud express his frustrations to his mom after banaraswali toothpaste sil announced to him abt the roka...n he v well knew his mom knows he is not happy n neither is she...then y didnt he just manage to talk to her rather than glare at sick sagun trying to dress up???

the cvs need to make ananth a bit more stronger...

anyways the cvs r pushing the separation track a bit faster wehen compared to the engagement drama by showing the days pass fast thru different dresses n newspapers...rather they cud have shown more of that n less of the dress-jewellery display happening with the banaraswalis ...its really sick to watch them forever on tv...n that too with the bhootnis...😉😉

Originally posted by: -Noorii-

Well said , thank God someone agrees with me! If this story is of the new generation then why are they so restricted? Nowadays , all the youngsters are free to do whatever they want.

Originally posted by: smisidren

Ritz...nice post again...

Expectations...That s why Anant is in such a bad situation...To meet the expectations of the family he reached nowhere near Navya's expectations...Broke the poor girl's heart as well as his own...Well, there is a ray of hope for us from the recent articles regarding the missing of Anant...Here, I expect a character change in Anant after the incident...A more bolder stonger Anant...

Dont know what to expect from Navya...But she did the unexpected and shocked Anant by congratulating him reg engagement...I guess Anant was expecting non stop tears as a reaction to the news...I really appriciate this bolder Navya and the efforts she is making to move on after the break up...U Me Aur Tv seg showed another unexpected act by Navya...she will go in search of Anant during the night time...

I expect something from Shagun also...Sweetie, pls pack ur bags and go back to Banaras...Dont listen to ur cunning sis...Anant belongs to Navya...

Lastly, Some expectations from CVs...Hope they will giv some tension free episodes after the few weeks torture...Pls show more of Anant's thoughts abt Navya...And pls show more of Navya's family than Rama-Shagun...

Originally posted by: --Naina--

Hey Ritz ! I agree and disagree with some points. Here goes my view.

Anant : Yes, for me too, its difficult to relate to Anant's background but I can understand his situation. He is in a complicated situation where he can't go against his family. Even if he does, what is he going to get? At the most, he might just be successful in stopping the engagement, but that won't guarantee that his family would accept Navya. Firstly, thanks for commenting sweetz,as of the bold part above, that is wat I want right now!I want him to declare that he does not want shangun in his life!!!As of Navya, tilldate, I am not convinced about ANYA, and hence I do not want him to talk about her at his home..let them be sure about each other first, then they shall automatically figure out how to convince the families!,..Secondly, he is just a student, not earning, so he can't move out, and coming from that kind of a hitler family, he might just be sent abroad to study. Oh well ! Start a new track then! Long term and long distance relationships!😆

That might be interesting too!!!😆though, i wud miss the hugs and kisses!!😉

In real life, you can only take a stand for something you are sure about. He knows he is attracted to Navya, and she too reciprocates the same feelings, but can any teenager confidently say that he/she is my soulmate! Period! ??? One doesn't really know about such deep stuff as a teen . As it is rightly said, people take a full lifetime to find a soulmate, he is just 19 ! Generally too, even if one is not dating any girl, getting engaged/married as a teen is nightmarish! 😲 ( I mentioned this once before too, its a legal offence to get a boy married before 21 , Baba should be behind bars! Where is the police?😆 )

Exactly my point...and thats why all I am expecting from Anant is call off the engagement(since he is sure he does not want shagun) and start as normal friends with Navya..get to know her, give her an assurance that if decided, he shall be with her for a life time..and get back an assurance that she shall stand by him thru thick and thins...maybe ye sab hote hote they will turn 21!!!a better age to realize wat they mean to each other?😳

I agree with you that it was important for him to talk. He had the best opportunity to pour his heart out to his brother. He didn't.. 😕 I understand he said " ab kya faida " or something like that when his brother asked whether he loves someone, but still, if not Navya's, he is sure about his feelings. He should have talked to Mohan then! He is just bottling up everything inside him and its going to explode someday..

Agree , when you talk about being of today's generation, one ought to have a say in things that specifically concern you and your entire life. I think, sensibility is not really that serials are concerned about😆 This Sh*Tgun girl has not , even once, talked properly to him.. All she does is staring! How is he even supposed to know her nature then? 🥱 and they are planning to make him settle down with her!What will she do the entire life? Just stare at him?🥱

Great [point!!she either dreams of speaking all romantic stuff with him, or just keeps staring at him with a stupid grin on her face!Doesnt she have an urge of talking to her so called fiancee??

Navya : Its difficult to get over a break up specially when one sees that person's face every day. One feels uncomfortable ( if the breakup wasn't smooth ) . I could understand her behaviour when she suddenly got up in yesterday's episode as Anant entered the Canteen or When she was telling Appy-Ritz to help her in forgetting Anant.She can't really do anything more at this point. She likes a guy who is to be engaged to someone else. What can she take a stand for then? It brings me back to the same point I mentioned for Anant. You can only take a stand for something you are sure about. She just needs to be sure about her feelings and become friends with Anant again, if not lovers.

I agree again!!!she does need to introspect herself and should give him a chance to reveal his inside...and that might happen if they decide to be friends right now!tghough, it shall be difficult to do that, specially after the proximity they have shared!!But atleast, they must give it a try!