i respect your view and opinion but i would also like to express mine may b am wrong but still...
i dont intend to hurt anyone its jus my view hope ppl will respect it!!!
see first of all each n evry one out there in nach was irritated, exhausted and frustrated with too much stress n every one reacted in a diff way!!
in that task guys had to do make up and HAIR which i think is very tuff and that too in that stressful environment!!!
its very tuff for a guy to do that and of course gals especially actresses are conscious and possesive about their hair make up style n all that!! himanshoo thought amruta will guide him and he is a very sincere and hardworking guy he gives his heart and soul to whatever he does and inspite of being stressed he was doing it n asking her small small details very politely n answering to small small basic details was getting irritating for amruta and she was trying to be calm in the start but later on even she got irritated and was shouting a bit when himmi very politely asked baby pin kaise lagau she said rudely that mere aankh peche hain kya in a loud tone out of frustration n i cant blame her for that it was just that wo bhul gayi thi dat himmi is not makeup dada n this fact n behaviour obviously irked him! so same with himmi he also got angry on her behaviour!! himmi was sincerely doing all the make up by asking ques like an innocent child coz obv guys were clueless!! he was actually doing mehnat as he said in IV and din want it to go waste as time passed! it was when she was irritated she spoke a lil roughly which we have seen in many previous tasks and he gives a smile but here in such kinda situation in anger he said idiot though i feel he did not mean it but yes it is hurtful to hear at that point of time though after some time things get normal as it was not such a big deal!!so basically it was amu who started rough behaviour and he lost his patience n reacted more!!!and finally amu balanced it and cut the argument by saying sorry!himmanshoo is dedicated and no nonsense guy types!!
other guys like sharad deepesh parag were diverted here and there doing a bit fun but himmanshoo was dedicated!!
i feel when u get a gem of a person like himanshoo who is mature,sorted, understanding,loving,caring,sacrificing and kind hearted person(amruta herself says this) then even if you compromise on some level it is fine! i feel both of them understand each other's drawbacks and accept it and love each other unconditionally thats the most impt thing!!!
in fact if i get a guy like himmi i would happily compromise like amruta otherwise i dont deserve that person!!
hum khud sita nahi hai to why do we want ram???(jus generally saying)
.its jus that he has anger issues but no one can be perfect or else he would become god!!
the truth is evryone is gonna hurt you you jus need to find the one WORTH suffering for and amu herself said that ""mujhe itna kuch bura nai lagta apna transformation kyunki jo maine paya hai that is PRICELESS!!!
sometimes even my parents call me rudely.
me,my mom and my bro do put up with my dad's anger(most men have bad temper) because we love him to the core and we know how much he has sacrificed for all of us and how caring loving and understanding he is and he is the bestest dad,hubby,son,brother,son in law,etc etc in the world and if me mum and bro cant even put up with his anger and calm him down then we dont deserve to be lucky enough to get such a gem of a person in our lives!! even i get hurt and i tell my dad to control his anger but then after watching himmi in nb7 i learned to jus forget these small things!!!
for a marraige to work even when both are opposite its very important that both of them are pure at heart and both are very good human beings and i find this quality in both himmi and amu and especially himmanshoo and even amruta accepts that
most importantly they love each other very deeeply thats why whatever it is they wanna stay together and grow old together because they complete each other!!!
both of them are not perfect but i admire and respect them for being genuine people and i get to learn many things seeing them!!
i have learned to just forget and forgive from himmanshoo and his line """agar insaan hi nahi rahega to uski galtiyon ka kya karenge""" just stole my heart!!!
Edited by ngelzndemons - 10 years ago