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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: adigaag

Many are not working on the trend ...if all contributed we would have trended world wise koi naa some other time😉


Even I was not able to help till now as my whole day was booked with classes. 😔 I'm home now and will help out as soon as I submit a very important assignment to my teacher.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Haha the flaws that Gurmeet-Debina pointed out are so true! 😆 Debina seriously needs to learn to control what she says. While she might be saying correct things, the way it comes out leaves a bad impression about her on the readers and I have seen that happening a little too many times. About Gurmeet, I guess that's something he can't change because if someone prefers to bottle up his feelings, you can't really force him to share them with anyone, no matter how close that person is. I just hope people would stop hurting him emotionally. There is only this much a person can handle and I think Gurmeet has been trashed MUCH MORE than anyone could have possibly handled ...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Euphoria.

Haha the flaws that Gurmeet-Debina pointed out are so true! 😆 Debina seriously needs to learn to control what she says. While she might be saying correct things, the way it comes out leaves a bad impression about her on the readers and I have seen that happening a little too many times. About Gurmeet, I guess that's something he can't change because if someone prefers to bottle up his feelings, you can't really force him to share them with anyone, no matter how close that person is. I just hope people would stop hurting him emotionally. There is only this much a person can handle and I think Gurmeet has been trashed MUCH MORE than anyone could have possibly handled ...

Yep exactly! but I doubt people like DB can change either...example Kareena KK. She does not stop blaberring ever..she speaks without thinking most of the time...but atleast they are what they are...they speak their mind and heart even if they speak anything without thinking😆...you can point out their flaws in their face by bashing them like most of them do or just saying out your thoughts in a civil manner...M more scared of backstabbers/cheaters/two timers than anybody else..they make you look like a fool when you had all the good intentions in the world and with a leap of faith you placed your trust on that person and suddenly they make you look like a stupid and an idiot😆...and then we keep thinking if this would not have happened, this would have happened..but whats the use after all has happened and someone has made a fool out of you and you think of all the ifs and if nots...People like GC are hard to change...but I guess DB knows the trick by being her true self...she can make GC speak so no worries there
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Posted: 11 years ago
True, Debina's nature can't be changed either but it really isn't a good thing. People start thinking of them as blondes who don't use their brains before saying anything. With Debina, people become more critical. Saying this from my personal experience, I did start to respect Debina because of NB but when I read her interview after the results came out, I was a little disappointed. When someone doesn't completely like you but is starting to like you and you say such things, it becomes hard for that person to like you ultimately. As for Gurmeet, I think he does share his feelings with Debina otherwise he would explode with all the emotions pent up within him.

Backstabbers and two-timers are not even in the picture. While I can still stand people saying ridiculous stuff, I can't stand cheats AT ALL. You have no rights to play with someone's trust and emotions that way. Absolute NO NO.
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Posted: 11 years ago
I agree Debina really needs to control herself when she's talking. As far as online interviews go, we don't know how accurate those are or aren't, so I generally give more credence to video interviews of their twitter/facebook/blog entries and I feel that Debina is trying to change herself. She still says and does things that may be taken in a wrong way, but throughout NB I felt she was really making an effort to comport herself in a mature way, and I hope the same continues in KKK. I think in a way, all this criticism she's receiving online is also having a good effect on her, though some of the comments are way beyond disgusting.
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Posted: 11 years ago
I feel bad for her, really. While she has done things because of which people might not like her, the sort of things that have been said about her is not just cheap but extremely inhumane as well. I haven't seen many celebs apart from Gurmeet-Debina (and Kratika) who have been such terrible victims of cyber-bully, and the reason behind why they have been (or are still being) bashed is absolutely ridiculous. Those people really need to get a life.

I don't know if Debina is learning to control herself because that one interview kinda undid her attempt of winning our hearts to an extent. But you're right Janaki, we don't know the tone and the exact words used in a written interview.

Just a random something, I really want to see a snap of Debina and Kratika together some day, even more than a GK/GD snap! 😛😆 I want to see how these 2 interact with each other now! 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Euphoria.

I feel bad for her, really. While she has done things because of which people might not like her, the sort of things that have been said about her is not just cheap but extremely inhumane as well. I haven't seen many celebs apart from Gurmeet-Debina (and Kratika) who have been such terrible victims of cyber-bully, and the reason behind why they have been (or are still being) bashed is absolutely ridiculous. Those people really need to get a life.


I don't know if Debina is learning to control herself because that one interview kinda undid her attempt of winning our hearts to an extent. But you're right Janaki, we don't know the tone and the exact words used in a written interview.

Just a random something, I really want to see a snap of Debina and Kratika together some day, even more than a GK/GD snap! 😛😆 I want to see how these 2 interact with each other now! 😳


Yeah, no matter what she said in the past, she did not deserve any of the inhumane comments that wished her death or illness. It's really creepy what some people can wish upon someone they don't even know! No one deserves that. Period.

I don't know about written interviews too much. They can be sweet and I do enjoy reading most of them, but for me to like or dislike someone, it has to be based off of their audion/video interviews where I directly listen/see them saying something, or through their official blogs or facebook/twitter accounts. These little media articles can be misleading. We just never know.

I too want a Debina and Kratika snapshot! There was that one pic in PV's 1st anniversary when Gurmeet was with Debina and Kratika in one shot, but I want a pic of them without Gurmeet too. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
What to deny when every1 here are expressing with genuineness. Loved every post <3

Anu, I'm sailing in same boat as you are. Debi did stun me with HT article...i was like not again please! I guess a lot of people did feel disoppointed with finale results n as GC said he received more phone calls for loosing then winning in JDJ. Ofcourse they deserved to win n with surprising result n humongous response from every1 ..She might of felt what they wanted to convey. But saying it right on a new paper, which is ridiculous is not a good thing to start with.

Janaki ka i kind of feel Debi did try to stay calm n composed during NB... she neva said more then required on show which was surprising after watching her in welcome for me. She butts in between most times when GC is talking but during NB and that too on stage she was hand in hand with GC...

Adi... Hi fi partner 😆 Why the betrayal pierce deep into heart?! I see you as violent sherni after that incident huh.I count on your words fully... Atleast Debi speaks foolish things which makes ppl to take stands but what abt certain ppl who fly high n say nothing? Debi atleast said Jnatha hamare saath thein... but some ppl don't even remember fans leave common audience! What to conclude from their audacity ? They leave everything to ppl to decide n draw conclusions...if the situation turns ugly they don't even have a word to ease the situation...no they actually don't care abt anyone
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Posted: 11 years ago
Nethra, I love your siggy! OMG it's sooo cute! Aayu is the cutest baby I have ever seen on ITV and hats off to the casting directors for finding a baby who resembled Gurmeet and Kratika so much!

I guess you can understand Debina's sentiments when she was giving that interview after they had lost the trophy. Honestly, a lot of people (barring the fans) wanted them to win. My mum was sad that they didn't win because she was more impressed with Debina's growth as a dancer than Gurmeet as a dancer for that matter. So much so that she refused to watch the finale. So Gurmeet (and Debina) were not wrong in saying that they are the winners in the eyes of the public. Apart from the fans, the common viewers wouldn't have bothered with the voting as much and that's probably why they lost out on the vote count as well. However the line that threw me off was the bit where Debina said that they were the highest scorers and the highest voted couple every week. We know that this isn't true and is an exaggeration. I think Debina gets carried away when high on emotions and ends up saying things which might not all be correct. But even then, like what Janaki has said, NOTHING justifies the actions of rabid fans who have wished death upon her! I don't like a number of people but I can never find it in me to wish death upon them. God's watching everything and every wrong action of yours would be accounted for. Those people should fear God, even if they don't fear anything else.

About those people who get away with everything they do, well Karma is a bitch. If they have done something wrong, they would be punished for it, sooner or later. Let's just wait and watch. You can't get away with hurting someone so deeply, never.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Aww! I know...
i'm missing PV little too much these days. Our CG is dead so i had to search my folder to pic one n ended with this one :)) I know Aayu is the cutest baby.. I specially love the pic of Aarti kissing AaYu n in other Yash giving a lovely smile <3 I so wish to have loads of creation on AarYa on PV anniversary atleast!

Exactly Anu... If she had ended with highest public appreciation things wouldn't have appeared this bad but she took upon statistic! In terms of growth in voting without a doubt they are the winners. They were not even in top block back then but with weeks they stood strong along the ladder n made it to top once... which is a real growth. But that doesn't give right to say they got highest votes every week!

I happened to see lot of support for GC-DB from family audience... some are Mytho fans n many simply liked the couple in love. They connected to them with marriage issue while the othr contestants were of couple in love... so family audience did have a thing for GurBina, our country still conservative in some sense, they don't prefer couple doing intimate dance b4 marriage. It might sound strange but this is what i heard many family around me talking... But the difference was they never really cared to vote :(
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