Adiza

Ok yes i am a shipper of Aditi and Zain. But I know my limits..and even if they dont be together although I have hopes, i will still accept the fact that they are good friends with a smile. I love them together and I love them individually as people. Its their decision what they do but if I get AdiZa vibes , then whether its just me living in denial or what - it makes me happy now since AvNeil is getting snatched and thats what counts. I appreciate the fact that they accepted the ship name of AdiZa happily as very few actors accept it. Im sure they will hang around and meet even after the show because of their friend circle is the same now too. As even Abhilash has met Aditi a few times now. No matter whether they become real or not, my hope will stay alive , their friendship is real and they are good friends for sure.

Beautiful honest post ❤️

Just curious to know how do you know they are good friends? Do you have some inside information ? All fans have to go by are interviews and posts on social media I think anyone who says they are fake or pretending to be friendly in front of the cameras are sadly too cynical. They are not fake or pretending . Zain was honest enough to say they were not friendly at first and they both agreed their offscreen bond improved over time and anyone can see on social media and in later interviews they are more friendly than at the beginning so they are definitely friendly. I don't know if you have looked at Zain's previous shows but he is a very extroverted friendly teasing joking person with both his male and female costars. He just took some time to get to that level with Aditi because as he himself said they have different personalities. He is blunt and joking and she is a bit sensitive. Anyway does the fact that he is friendly teasing joking with his former costars mean he is good friends with them. Probably not. They are friendly but would not make time to hang out one on one or with each other's friends' groups regularly. Also some good friends you don't see regularly due to a busy schedule or living in different places . You may not speak to them or get together for years but you know you can call them up at any time for help advice and no time has passedIf Zain meets up with his former costars through events or mutual friends I am sure they will laugh and talk and click pics but it does not make them good friends. Same goes with Aditi. The only difference here is they have mutual friends in common from the past or present Naamkaran cast who like to entertain and get together so he might meet her more often than his other costars. However imo they are still friendly not goid friends Zain's good friends seem to be Purvi Nalini Abhilash and even Gulfam who he goes out with regularly one on one and even introduced to his parents . So what if Abhilash met Aditi. They are all in the same industry and bound to meet . He met her at the SPA awards where Nalini andothers were present. He visited Zain. on the sets and met her. He also visited Zain on the sets in TEI and met his coactors there. He met her at the interview at their place because he lives there. Yusuf and Rakesh were also there and it was for an interview . So what if they all hung out after. They are all friendly extroverted people in the same industry I have a group of friends I regularly hang out with a group of friends but I don't consider everyone in the group a good friend. I am closer to some than others and these are my good friends who introduced me to other people in the group eho they may be good friends with but I am not. I like these other people and are friendly with them but they are not really good feiends just friends by association. I probably will not hang out with them one on one if my good feiends are also not there. By the way a differing opinion does note mean someone is being negative Some fans are addicted to a tv show and actors personal lives and accuse others of being negative if they disagree with them. Someone on instagram even says she will sue the channel and production house for her the mental torture they are putting her through. First of all get a geip. There is no legal basis for this. This is just a tv show and actors personal lives are their own. You have the freedom to look at it or not. Recognize the signs of addiction obsession and wean yourself off it or get help feom family and friends especially if this is all you think about or do to the detriment of other aspects of your life. Don't blame someone else

Originally posted by: sps0114

Beautiful honest post ❤️

Anyway I am done commenting on this as it will probably just go around in circles with those who have differing views accused of being negative. All this expenditure of emotional energy and then many will go on to become obessed with another show and couple offscreen maybe as they have done many times in the past over the course of years and will probably do in the future again. Does no one see this as abnormal and a vicious cycle? Just because many people do this does not make it right or acceptable.

Originally posted by: contentdriven

Just curious to know how do you know they are good friends? Do you have some inside information ? All fans have to go by are interviews and posts on social media I think anyone who says they are fake or pretending to be friendly in front of the cameras are sadly too cynical. They are not fake or pretending . Zain was honest enough to say they were not friendly at first and they both agreed their offscreen bond improved over time and anyone can see on social media and in later interviews they are more friendly than at the beginning so they are definitely friendly. I don't know if you have looked at Zain's previous shows but he is a very extroverted friendly teasing joking person with both his male and female costars. He just took some time to get to that level with Aditi because as he himself said they have different personalities. He is blunt and joking and she is a bit sensitive. Anyway does the fact that he is friendly teasing joking with his former costars mean he is good friends with them. Probably not. They are friendly but would not make time to hang out one on one or with each other's friends' groups regularly. Also some good friends you don't see regularly due to a busy schedule or living in different places . You may not speak to them or get together for years but you know you can call them up at any time for help advice and no time has passedIf Zain meets up with his former costars through events or mutual friends I am sure they will laugh and talk and click pics but it does not make them good friends. Same goes with Aditi. The only difference here is they have mutual friends in common from the past or present Naamkaran cast who like to entertain and get together so he might meet her more often than his other costars. However imo they are still friendly not goid friends Zain's good friends seem to be Purvi Nalini Abhilash and even Gulfam who he goes out with regularly one on one and even introduced to his parents . So what if Abhilash met Aditi. They are all in the same industry and bound to meet . He met her at the SPA awards where Nalini andothers were present. He visited Zain. on the sets and met her. He also visited Zain on the sets in TEI and met his coactors there. He met her at the interview at their place because he lives there. Yusuf and Rakesh were also there and it was for an interview . So what if they all hung out after. They are all friendly extroverted people in the same industry I have a group of friends I regularly hang out with a group of friends but I don't consider everyone in the group a good friend. I am closer to some than others and these are my good friends who introduced me to other people in the group eho they may be good friends with but I am not. I like these other people and are friendly with them but they are not really good feiends just friends by association. I probably will not hang out with them one on one if my good feiends are also not there. By the way a differing opinion does note mean someone is being negative Some fans are addicted to a tv show and actors personal lives and accuse others of being negative if they disagree with them. Someone on instagram even says she will sue the channel and production house for her the mental torture they are putting her through. First of all get a geip. There is no legal basis for this. This is just a tv show and actors personal lives are their own. You have the freedom to look at it or not. Recognize the signs of addiction obsession and wean yourself off it or get help feom family and friends especially if this is all you think about or do to the detriment of other aspects of your life. Don't blame someone else

Originally posted by: contentdriven

Just curious to know how do you know they are good friends? Do you have some inside information ? All fans have to go by are interviews and posts on social media I think anyone who says they are fake or pretending to be friendly in front of the cameras are sadly too cynical. They are not fake or pretending . Zain was honest enough to say they were not friendly at first and they both agreed their offscreen bond improved over time and anyone can see on social media and in later interviews they are more friendly than at the beginning so they are definitely friendly. I don't know if you have looked at Zain's previous shows but he is a very extroverted friendly teasing joking person with both his male and female costars. He just took some time to get to that level with Aditi because as he himself said they have different personalities. He is blunt and joking and she is a bit sensitive. Anyway does the fact that he is friendly teasing joking with his former costars mean he is good friends with them. Probably not. They are friendly but would not make time to hang out one on one or with each other's friends' groups regularly. Also some good friends you don't see regularly due to a busy schedule or living in different places . You may not speak to them or get together for years but you know you can call them up at any time for help advice and no time has passedIf Zain meets up with his former costars through events or mutual friends I am sure they will laugh and talk and click pics but it does not make them good friends. Same goes with Aditi. The only difference here is they have mutual friends in common from the past or present Naamkaran cast who like to entertain and get together so he might meet her more often than his other costars. However imo they are still friendly not goid friends Zain's good friends seem to be Purvi Nalini Abhilash and even Gulfam who he goes out with regularly one on one and even introduced to his parents . So what if Abhilash met Aditi. They are all in the same industry and bound to meet . He met her at the SPA awards where Nalini andothers were present. He visited Zain. on the sets and met her. He also visited Zain on the sets in TEI and met his coactors there. He met her at the interview at their place because he lives there. Yusuf and Rakesh were also there and it was for an interview . So what if they all hung out after. They are all friendly extroverted people in the same industry I have a group of friends I regularly hang out with a group of friends but I don't consider everyone in the group a good friend. I am closer to some than others and these are my good friends who introduced me to other people in the group eho they may be good friends with but I am not. I like these other people and are friendly with them but they are not really good feiends just friends by association. I probably will not hang out with them one on one if my good feiends are also not there. By the way a differing opinion does note mean someone is being negative Some fans are addicted to a tv show and actors personal lives and accuse others of being negative if they disagree with them. Someone on instagram even says she will sue the channel and production house for her the mental torture they are putting her through. First of all get a geip. There is no legal basis for this. This is just a tv show and actors personal lives are their own. You have the freedom to look at it or not. Recognize the signs of addiction obsession and wean yourself off it or get help feom family and friends especially if this is all you think about or do to the detriment of other aspects of your life. Don't blame someone else

My comment get a grip was directed at a person who keeps posting threatening messages on instagram to the channel and the production house. I just used her as an example of how over top some fans can be . Also I did not mention her name. I was not speaking about anyone on this forum. I have seen others mention things from twitter IG so I don't think I am breaking any rules here. Also I am not dictating whether people should ship or not. No one including myself has any power to do so . People will do what they want to do . I was just expressing my opinion which may differ from others and I was curious to know why some hold the opinions they do. I was not being rude or condescending or negative. I was giving an opinion about the behaviour of some fans not all ( and I did not mention anyone by name or say it is restricted to those on this forum) from a clinical psychological perspective of addiction. But apparently views which people don't agree with are negative rude and condescending. I thought this forum was a bit mature but it is really no better than the other social media sites

I was not mocking fans love . Please don't put words in my mouth. I am a fan of the show and the actors portrayals of the characters. If they ship them and give reasons why you think they are a real couple and I believe the opposite why is your view more valid than mine? Also why is my view deemed negative. This is the second time that I am making posts on this forum . I have only made one post before a fee days before. I also have the freedom to post a lengthy post if i want to I am not the first to do it. I have no idea ie online dating is relevant to this discussion and really don't want to know. Let us respectfully agree to disagree. I noticed a trend of addictive behaviour in some members of this fandom and was just giving my opinion from a clinical psychology perspective. It was not targeted at anyone in particular . This and another fandom are the only two I have ever followed on social media but I will not make that mistake again

Originally posted by: contentdriven

My comment get a grip was directed at a person who keeps posting threatening messages on instagram to the channel and the production house. I just used her as an example of how over top some fans can be . Also I did not mention her name. I was not speaking about anyone on this forum. I have seen others mention things from twitter IG so I don't think I am breaking any rules here. Also I am not dictating whether people should ship or not. No one including myself has any power to do so . People will do what they want to do . I was just expressing my opinion which may differ from others and I was curious to know why some hold the opinions they do. I was not being rude or condescending or negative. I was giving an opinion about the behaviour of some fans not all ( and I did not mention anyone by name or say it is restricted to those on this forum) from a clinical psychological perspective of addiction. But apparently views which people don't agree with are negative rude and condescending. I thought this forum was a bit mature but it is really no better than the other social media sites