Clear my doubt

guys pls clear my doubt.Avni always had problem with Ashish that he never took a stand for Ayesha .Neil when went against the family n got engaged to Rhea she got a huge respect for him.so why she keeps saying she doens't want to become ayehsa maa .So when Neil is Asking her to come back again n again so then she s refusing .Neil is taking stand for her so den she s having problem ...what's the fault of Neil then..m very confused.avni then should never be angry on ashish Mehta then .Becoz Neil n he are in same position right ?If their is one thing which Shweta hasn't done is killing apart from dat both are doing same thing

i think avni cares more about neil here ... not herself ..

She doesn't want a situation where Neil has to choose one or the other like Ashish. Like Ayesha, she doesn't want to be in a situation where the husband is torn apart by the love for both. I can very well see her point. She has seen the turmoil her parents faced and want to avoid that at any cost. It's not that she's accusing Neil of being another Ashish.

She saw what happened to her dad so she doesn't want Neil to go through the same pain. She's thinking about him more than herself.

My take is when ashish did take a stand his mom to separate her son from did all the dramas tat eventually took her mom life and then ashish too so may be tats impacted her to tat lvl

But Best was today when Neil got angry and said that neither she is Ayesha Maa nor he is Ashish Mehta...it was Awesome.

Avni has always wanted a family a normal family that everyone has that what the serial started with also.

Originally posted by: sssenorita

But Best was today when Neil got angry and said that neither she is Ayesha Maa nor he is Ashish Mehta...it was Awesome.

So i guess whatever everyone is pointing out so what I conclude is that her childhood memories is making her do dat.So now my question is since she loves Neil n family then she doesn't want him to separate from them.So den don't you think ashish was also in love with his mom n family .M not gonna talk about how mehta family was .M not talking about truth bt then now wen she doens't want Neil to choose den ashish should too be forgiven for choosing his mom over Ayesha .Ayesha too was in love with ashish.Let me come clear m nt telling Neil n ashish are same.M jus talking about situation .It's almost same situation where Neil has to choose between wife n mom.He chose Avni . Similar way Ashish chose his mom.My jus point is Avni should now understand what Ashish must have gone through then.Another thing I want to clear my point is pls don't mistake me that m supporting ashish .M jus talking about situation which is very similar.Like bebe said history is repeated.obviously Avni doesn't want Neil to be away from his family bt then how can she expect Ashish to be away from his family.So then she just can't use ill words against her dad.Neela maa too said Neil is not ashish n neither she s Ayesha.comparing the same situation I jus have got a doubt