Tu Thodi der aur Ther Jaa! My Take

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Behno aur Behno! What an adorable episode it was today! That eagerness to talk, those ways of convincing one another, those indirect yet direct hints! It was just way too adorable for our babies! Zain and Aditi rocked those expressions and moments! Special shoutout for DD! Man, sometimes I end up loving our AvNeil shippers more than AvNeil! Because they end up doing more than half of the efforts our babies should be putting! But still! AvNeil would be special.

First and foremost, I get Ali! He is scared of losing his best friend/love and over and above Nano is encouraging him to lie (Bad Advise Nanno) which is making him uncomfortable around her. He should really just tell her and Neil everything. That way atleast he can come out that guilt. That way AvNeil will also know who to be careful off. Common Ali, we are here with you! Bol de! You will feel much better man!

Next, I was expecting Neil to get answers from Rhea after knowing that it was actually Rhea who plotted against Avni! I am surprised they didnt think of that. Knowing Neil's character, he is someone who digs until the last cell to get the truth! I wonder why was that not taken into consideration. I guess time will tell. Maybe he was still lost in Avni that he didnt think of that. #justkidding!
Now coming to our babies! Avni man! She really needs to stop with this ehsaan stuff. It is clearly pissing Neil off. But somewhere I do get where she is coming from. She doesnt know her feelings. And in order to get her message out to him clearly and FAST, she ends up saying stuff she shouldnt be saying. Avni is really bad with her words. She doesnt know how to say rightfully word her unknown feelings. She is trying her indireact ways like Neil is. Behen meri, if you cannot understand or trying to her understand the hidden meanings of his frustration and what he wants, how can you expect him to do so. We can see and HE can also SEE that you are trying real hard to explain. But why use words like EHSAAN and piss him off even more! I get! She doesnt want to upset him and wants to MANAO him soon. And in that haste, she is continously pissing him off. Beta, just TRY to focus on what he is trying to say rather what he is not! You will know what to do and how to MANAO him!

Avni is really bad at understanding indirect hints. Like Neela has been trying indirectly trying and so has Neil. And rightly so they do call her TUBELIGHT. Because she will not understand. She has to be TOLD directly! She will NOT understand those hints that Neil can. And if she is told directly, she is gonna get SCARED as love is something she wants to stay away from. And I think thats what is causing the frustration in NEIL. One when she keeps naming his help as 'EHSAAN' and second he is not directly able to tell her how much he wants her to be with him forever because he doesnt want to scare her away or overwhelm her with his feelings. He took all the baby steps he could with her but now he doesnt know what else to do. He doesnt want to lose her at all. And her calling everything EHSAAN is making him think that whatever she did for him was again out of favor and not because she wanted to. Even though he knows she wanted to do it by herself. Both of them are dealing with too many complicated emotions. They are more like "kya kare aur kya na kare".

The melody and songs chosen were really cute. Especially 'PATHAR KE SANAM'. It was literally Neil's heart singing! Woman! Cant you see that I want you! What is this Ehsaan shit? Get out of it! I loved how irritated Neil was when Avni was constantly imitating him. I also loved that focus on Avni's one drop of tear when she was hurt that he left. It was more like if only he stayed back a little longer, I would have made him understand. She felt miserable. She knows he is miserable too. He is upset with her. And that is something she is not able to take. If only she gets this EHSAAN word out of her dictionary! The song that instantly came up in my mind was "Tu Thodi der aur ther jaa". That is really both of their condition right now! And thats why the title as you all can see!

But ladies and ladies! EHSAAN is finally going to get its much needed rejection letter! And its getting promoted too another level very soon! Guess? Common man! Guess!!!! SAAHHIII JAWAABBB!! Its getting promoted to SACHHIII DOSTIII!!! Yaaayyy!!! Ya ya, I see those sulking faces! Lord! Some of the forum wasis including me are really wondering that if life and death situation could only get her realization of SACHI DOSTI, what in the world will make this girl realize of SACHHAA PYYAAARRR? WHAT!!!! Anyways! I hope its worth it. It will probably NEELA MA again putting some sense in this PAGAL LADKI (as she rightfully calls her). I just hope and pray that realization for AvNeil is the most beautiful scene ever!

Another scene which I loved the most was Avni getting so worried and bothered thinking something happened to Neil. She just wanted to reach him and see that he was ok. Like for that moment, she would have just stopped breathing. She was that desperate to just see him ok. And I also loved how Neil's concentration and focus changed after he saw Avni in the station. Like a moment before, he was getting mad at DD and just focussed on his talk with his boss and the next moment, he is lost in her after seeing her, wondering what she was doing there. Man, these two are so madly and deeply in love with eachother! This separation is really breaking my heart.

And AMOL BABY! Do whatever the hell you want in hurting AvNeil because your plan baby is "bringing them closer in the backseat of their rover". So you can do your "jhinga lala jhinga lala" dance with your jungle wali dadi thinking that you succeeded while we all, the die hard AvNeil shippers would just do "tatad tatad" as our victory dance!



Also! I felt it was really weird if Neil to be ok around Bebe!

ALSO: Can we all write something to the CVS and make sure something can be done with the editors? Man, they really suck. People who cover the OLVS are much better than them. Those people who make all shorts of lovely VMs are much much better than them. We have a crucial sequence coming up. I just dont want these editors to screw it up. Maybe spam on twitter or write email/s to star plus regarding this? They NEED TO BE REPLACED.

Ignore typos! Using phone
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Lovely take Shonali, loved it especially the way you described Avni and Neil's feelings, you echoed many of my thoughts!

AvNeil as you so rightly said, are madly in love with each other but they have their reasons for not directly saying it and in Avni's case for not realizing it but I like the angst, the longing, the love, the pain, the care, the confusion, the frustration, the desperation, the emotional turmoil... It's these things which make for a beautiful watch!

Alas there was no confrontation scene with Rhea!
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Originally posted by: arshisfan

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Lovely take Shonali, loved it especially the way you described Avni and Neil's feelings, you echoed many of my thoughts!

AvNeil as you so rightly said, are madly in love with each other but they have their reasons for not directly saying it and in Avni's case for not realizing it but I like the angst, the longing, the love, the pain, the care, the confusion, the frustration, the desperation, the emotional turmoil... It's these things which make for a beautiful watch!

Alas there was no confrontation scene with Rhea! </font>



Thanks Naj for commenting! I know! Their angst is beautiful and heartbreaking! Like these two are making me cry for them!

And yah! I was really dissappointed with no confrontation scene with Rhea. I thought that was highly essential

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