Naamkarann : society thinking

Want to say this for a long time today i am gonna say it . What is this jayaz and najayaz whats the difference . Agar wo bachaa najayaz hai toh woh ek bimaari hai jo baaki bachoo sai alag rakhaa jathaa hai ... arsheen as avni aksed the society a very good question . They ( najaayaz kids ) drink different water or use different sunlight because they are najayaz . Do sun say that it wont give light because she is najayaz . Why do ppl make them different ... society in bacho pai tags lagaa kar rakhaa hai . In bacho ki zindagi karaab kar key rakhaa hai . For me the only difference of jayaz and naajayaz are that they are tags given by our so called mahaan society. Wo innocent hai unhey takleef kiyu deyna unhey punishment deykar kiyaa mileygaa . Accept a child as it is . As gods gift not as something else ...

Seriously yaar...Najayaz bche nhi hai society ki soch hai...If two adults who love each other decides to stay together and have kids its their will..Who are we to decide their character or their child's character on the basis of this...

Sabse bada Rog, Kya kahenge log...

Discrimination is always based on something a person cannot change. THAT is the main issue. Be it race, color, caste, religion or even being illegitimate. I guess you can change your religion if you wish, but what you were born to will always be a part of you. Who your family is will always be a part of who you are.

I really don't understand why our society is really behind this jayaz najayaz race . Western society has come beyond it . No kid is illegitimate when it's born as it is not the one deciding it's birth or religion or caste and etc . It's only the parents . If someone is to be blamed it should be the parents and not the kids . They have the same heart and flesh like us and breathe same air . This discrimination is so sick .

Please let's not give too much credit to western society.They have divorce rate of more than seventy percent and women and kids are abandoned in a heart beat in the name of freedom.Women are treated like some sex object and depression is rampant in their society.They have multiple partners and kids go through so much emotional abuse including women.Every culture has their advantages and disadvantages and just by watching some tv show blaming Indian culture and saying western society is superior is ignorance and immature

I am not illegitimate or the so called najayaaz. I was born of legal parents but had been brought up by my mother since l was ten years old. I hate it when some people say this " bechaari bin baap ki aulad" . As if my wayward father had contributed to my upbringing apart from just giving his name.

Dnt know when this society will clean their dirty mind . They watch series and movies but they can't understand same problem with najayaz y don't they think they are most special children by God

@Sanathana123:

Personally I have lived most of my life in western countries. But I have my roots in South east Asia. So I know what it's like in both eastern and western cultures. By no means do I trivialise the many issues faced by women in the west, and sometimes the women themselves are the culprits. Just live too free and have no care for consequences. Men who just run around, abandon thier kids and never think of consequences either. But there are also responsible people who not only do right by thier family but even take on other people's kids and do so much in society. In that sense I have seen a lot more generosity in the West. Less judgement than the east!

All I pointed out was that at least in the west you are no longer judged by your parents marital status and nor should you be. There was a time even the West was exactly the same. So they worked to get where they are when it comes to punishing illegitimate children and women who may get pregnant without marraige. The east has a long way to go before they stop blaming the Woman for everything!

Just saying (like Bebe) "this is what society thinks" is not good enough. People need to stand up and say "Don't care what they think. This is what I think". People need to have the guts to stand up to the truth. To tell the truth and accept it! Without that nothing will ever change and men like Ashish and women like DVM will go Scott free while Ayesha's and Avni's continue to pay the price!

Glad you made the post and agree with who have replied to this post