Ye To Usse Bhi Bada Apshagun Hoga

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Posted: 9 years ago
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' Ye To Usse Bhi Bada Apshagun Hoga'

This is what Ritik told Tanvi. His conversation with Tanvi today was a total reflection of his mental state, his dilemma, his honesty & his genuine personality
Ritik & Tanvi's marriage preparations are in full swing.
On one hand Tanvi is planning to spend her life with Ritik and for this she wants to take him away from his family members without even bothering to discuss this with Ritik.
On other hand Ritik is fighting with his emotions. He is in a dilemma. He never believed in love but now he has realized his feelings for Shiyanya. When he was told by Yamini to close his eyes and think about his life with Tanvi, instead of Tanvi, he sees Shivanya as his bride. Surprised and disturbed by this, he wants to discuss all this with Tanvi . He does not want to get married to Tanvi , his best friend just for the sake of it. But at the same time he does not want to hurt Tanvi.
Tanvi does not want to show her face to Ritik as it is considered as Apshagun before marriage.
In his very genuine & straight forward conversation with Tanvi, he hugs Tanvi and pours his heart.'Jab do log ek doosre se pyaar nahi karte phir bhi Shaadi karte hain ye to usse bhi bada Apshagun hoga'
He shares with Tanvi that to keep her happy, he will be pretending to do certain things his entire life which will not be his actual emotions. And Tanvi having aware of this fact, will be hurt throughout the life. So its better if he does not marry her so that she will be hurt only once but there will be scope for her to fall in love with someone in future who will reciprocate her feelings.
I was so much impressed by this gesture of Ritik. Tanvi always knew that Ritik does not love her but was confident that he will never fall in love with any other girl. Having fallen for Shivanya, Ritik confessed to Tanvi what he feels for Shivanya & that he is seeing her everywhere. With utmost sincerity & honesty and more importantly as a true friend Ritik shared everything with Tanvi and even said that he does not deserve Tanvi.However Tanvi is in no mood to listen to Ritik & tells him not to project himself as 'Great' and leave her. She is in no mood to leave Ritik & tells him that she will be waiting for him in Mandap.
I am not going to discuss about Tanvi's behaviour,.But my love for Ritik increased multi fold today. He is such a genuine, sincere and honest person.
As usual, Arjun did splendid job, portraying varied emotions of Ritik with total ease and perfection.👏👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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wonderful topic preeto...srsly tht scene increased my RESPECT for Ritik by many folds...👏👏

he ws honest abt his feelings n took responsibility too n tht not all can do tht..👏👏

lik i said in AT For me the best scene tonight ws ritik being honest abt his feelings for tanvi n his genuine concern of not spoiling her life n hence he confessing same to tanvi..RESPECT to Ritik..

Tanvi..ke scenes tonight indicated she doesn't truly love ritik.. she's just obsessed abt him n hvin delusion as if she loves him.. her reputation love said it all..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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From Ritik's POV i would say he did the right thing...whats the point of marrying if you are sure you can never love that girl...😕

But i'm not getting tanvi's character here...i hate that she told today..that her love would be enough for both of them...seriously ????🤢


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

wonderful topic preeto...srsly tht scene increased my RESPECT for Ritik by many folds...👏👏

he ws honest abt his feelings n took responsibility too n tht not all can do tht..👏👏

lik i said in AT For me the best scene tonight ws ritik being honest abt his feelings for tanvi n his genuine concern of not spoiling her life n hence he confessing same to tanvi..RESPECT to Ritik..

Tanvi..ke scenes tonight indicated she doesn't truly love ritik.. she's just obsessed abt him n hvin delusion as if she loves him.. her reputation love said it all..

Ritik proved himself to be a true friend. He did not hide anything with Tanvi and with utmost sincerity shared everything with her.
Respect & love this guy and really feeling for me.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: J-O-E-B-O-Y

From Ritik's POV i would say he did the right thing...whats the point of marrying if you are sure you can never love that girl...😕

But i'm not getting tanvi's character here...i hate that she told today..that her love would be enough for both of them...seriously ????🤢


Tanvi in my opinion is a selfish person who wants to marry Ritik as he is rich & handsome.More than love, for her Ritik is a status symbol which she wants to have at any cost.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post dear.
Ritik is innocent nd honest.
Bt tanvi's character is confusing.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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thank you for this post...i have yet to watch the episode but the scene does look very touching..ritik is such a welcome and refreshing change from the typical arrogant,rude,cruel heros on tv ..someone whom you would like the first time you meet..so charming,such a gentleman and so honest...the best thing about his relationship with tanvi is that he has been honest to her,at every juncture...he is trying to be the good friend,good son yet his heart has found its own way...earlier he was confused about this pull towards shivanya,hence would just drift towards her unaware of the morals and norms being questioned...and when he has realized as the wedding approaches that this is not what he wants...he does the right thing ,very clear in his mind and approaches tanvi..

but tanvi is not mature enough to even understand ritik...she never was...he was like that favorite doll or cycle when she was a kid..hence now she wants him and yes the status holds importance to her...this is how she was brought up and this is her definition of love..nothing wrong in it...but then completely phasing out ritik and his feelings from this wedding is highly selfish...she has always been in denial about shivanya...she thinks it is a passing phase and taking him away from everyone is the solution...does she think he is not capable of booking his own return ticket and coming back or he is ever going to forget shivanya...

am happy she is running off or calling this wedding off for whatever reason...this indeed was a bigger apshaghun than all the mess in ritik's kundali...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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res. will comment once I watch the episode.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: well-wisher

Tanvi in my opinion is a selfish person who wants to marry Ritik as he is rich & handsome.More than love, for her Ritik is a status symbol which she wants to have at any cost.



i think you're right...she don't love him...all she need is a secure life and a status symbol...😡

Ritik beta go boy go...shivanya nagin is far much better than tanvi nagin...👍🏼
Edited by J-O-E-B-O-Y - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ritik's staright forward nature and his being so honest with his fiance is one of the most appealing characteristics!
totally with Ritik today. and regarding Tanvi she is very immature and what i feel is she is not in love rather is living with her infauation for Ritik. she wants him at any cost, which is rather selfish, and when in love you cannot be selfish to the person you love.

Tanvi doesnt deserve Ritik at all

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