Why Bani is angry with Veer!!

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So bohat log keh rahe hai Why Bani is still angry with Veer? She is showing her naagin eyes to him in every 2 secs.. She is pushing him to sofa and all that.. She has attachment with Jay..

Pehle toh Jay k liye koi attachment Bani k dil mein pehle bhi nahi thi.. Aur aj toh bilkul bhi nahi hai. And she is not angry with Veer also, woh hatred bhi nahi hai.. It's like Biwi wali gussa.. She is not really ignoring him.. Bas sata rahi hai, and we know uski ego problem hai thodi, aasaani se admit nahi karegi k she has feelings for Veer.. But she is not angry also in that way. Agar gussa hoti toh Chupke se blush nahi karti, Veer k liye smile nahi karti.. Yeah beech beech mein pareshan ho rahi hai, kyon ki yahan maamla itna serious hai and Jay Veer uski baat na sunke bachchon ki tarah ladh rahe hai, toh gussa nahi aayega kya? 😅 But she is not showing her anger to Jay, bas Veer ko hi dikha rahi hai.. Because hum apne khusi dukh gussa sab emotions ussi ko hi dikhate hai jinko hum pyaar karte hai.. Yaad kar k dekho, hum bhi humare life mein unn se hi naraaz hoke byath jaate hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai, woh friends ho, family ho, siblings ho ya life partners.. Jay kya kar raha hai, kya soch raha hai isse Bani ko ghanta farak nahi padhta.. But Veer.. Bani has lots of expectations from him.. She trusts him.. Iss liye woh apni naraazgi Veer pe hi nikal rahi hai. But woh narazgi bhi 2 min ka hai.. Agle hi moment mein she is smiling for him.. I know meri baaton se kahi log agree nahi karenge. But this is my thought. Mujhe toh scenes dekh k aisa hi laga.. 😊

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Dwipi🤗Ok so I posted this in your thread only, but since I have written it already, I am not going to type so much again, and just go ahead and paste my post here. So here it goes,

Hi Dwipi, sab itne gusse me hai yahaan, mujhe laga ki mujhpe hi bambaari na ho jaaye aaj ke aajsmiley37Isiliye tere post me sumdi me aake post kar rahi husmiley2. Koi alag se post nahi bana rahi. Waise bhi weekend ke baad review deti hu, lekin thoda sa apna kuch observations de rahi hu, jitna mujhko samajh aaya. And this is after watching in parts, not as whole.

Bani as Adi Naagin has strength, but no brain to complement the aura of an Adi Naagin. Time and again she has just proved, that she lacks the mind to plan and execute any proper game. She is as good as Daksh is, why, because both have strengths, their animalistic instincts are on point, but they don't have leadership qualities. Both have the warrior and killer instinct, but what kills and mars that is the lack of brain, ego issues, and lack of compassion. Being a leader if you are not humble and treat everyone as trash and not show gratitude, then what kind of a leader are you.

Coming to VAni, every husband-wife has a separate equation going on about them. As a third person, we could find it disrespectful or humiliating, or insulting, but their equation is only them, no outsider or third party can comment on it. For example, initially how Shivaay treated Anika, and Anika gave it back to him. Then after marriage, Shivaay mistreated Anika many times, and Anika put up with it because unconsciously she understood where Shivaay comes from, what his thought process is, she always understood that the intent was not to hurt anyone but to protect or safeguard someone in his own quirky SSO style. In our society, wives are always supposed to understand the husbands and put up with them. And that is exactly what is shown on TV. Women are mahaan; husbands are weak. We say why don't these women have self-respect? If a husband is doing that, why is it considered so wrong? For Veeranshu, his love is greater than anything else for him, is it so wrong? For Bani her duties are greater than any emotion, is that so wrong? Emotionally and as a person, Veeranshu is much much superior to Bani and it is his love, trust, and understanding, which makes him that. We love him that way. I am okay with that. Infact, I appreciate a man making an effort here, instead of the woman doing it.

Regarding Bani, I am not saying I don't have complaints regarding how their story is being shaped or the lack of romance. But I surely don't have complaints about their equation. Bani pehle sirf nafrat karti thi and only tried killing him. She has moved on from that. Daatna ho to Veeranshu, aankhein dikhaana ho to Veeranshu, dhakka maarna ho to Veeranshu, lekin haath pakadke jaana ho to Veeranshu, chupke se uski baat pe hasna ho to Veeranshu, uske muh pe daatna aur dusre ke saamne tareef karna, Veeranshu ko Jai ke upar trust karna, ye sab bhi dikha mujhko. Bani implicitly trusts Veeranshu, she does not trust Jai anymore, and feelings to thi hi nahi. She needs Jai in that house with the same POV that Balwant allowed Bani in that house - keep your enemies closer. Simple. Bani ab daayan se maastarni ban gayi hai.smiley36 Veeranshu ki bachcho wali harkaton pe daatna aur phir uski jokes pe chori chupe hasna. Aur rahi baat emotions ki, to jitna woh dabaati hai na, utna hi uspe bhaari padega.smiley36 Kyunki eventually, you will explode, and then who knows what will happen.

Coming to Markaat, yes she is turning out to be a formidable opponent, and she has a twin, and Bani will be the one to figure it out, but probably Veeranshu may take his time since it is about his mother after all. But I think when Veeranshu will be conflicted, the Cheels will come to Bani's rescue, more like Veeranshu's rescue. They will put their faith in Adi Naagin and Adi Naagin in the Cheels. I think this is what this track implies. In her bid to isolate Bani, and pull her sons and Meera over to her side, the people Bani trusts and loves in a way, she will find an unlikely ally in her enemies - Balwant, Pawan, Daksh, Ponky, the ones she has not even thought of. When will Bani use her brain to think tactfully and go and speak to Balwant?smiley44 The dude knows everything.

Sharma sisters overall are incorrigible, even Meera.smiley37Tapish ke bas ki nahi hai madam Meera. Uske liye Daksh hi sahi hai, jab Daksh khud sahi rehta haismiley37

Emotions ki baat kare, to this show lacks emotional quotient overall. Sab me ek hi emotion hai jo dominant hai above all emotions, which is weirdsmiley29. Veeranshu ka hai pyaar, Bani ka hai badla, gussa, nafrat, Jai ka lalach, Balwant ka gussa, Sharma family ka laalach again, Cheelo ka aiyyashi, and Chandrakala ka ghamand. Yahi hai bas. Koi aur emotional arc dikha hi nahi aaj tak. Supernatural shapeshifters hai ye, vampires to nahi ki emotion ke devoid ho. Pata nahi itni kamti kyun dikhaate hai.

And, regarding my post, this is thoroughly my opinion. I always watch the show with zero expectations, so I really did not find the episode bad at all, there was progression in Bani is some areas and not overall. Jai's character arc is weird as of now. He isn't changing anytime soon, and I don't think he will and don't want him to either.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Completely agree with u dwip 👍🏼👏🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dwipanita

OK Lecture Didi firse aa gayi! 😆

So bohat log keh rahe hai Why Bani is still angry with Veer? She is showing her naagin eyes to him in every 2 secs.. She is pushing him to sofa and all that.. She has attachment with Jay..

Pehle toh Jay k liye koi attachment Bani k dil mein pehle bhi nahi thi.. Aur aj toh bilkul bhi nahi hai. And she is not angry with Veer also, woh hatred bhi nahi hai.. It's like Biwi wali gussa.. She is not really ignoring him.. Bas sata rahi hai, and we know uski ego problem hai thodi, aasaani se admit nahi karegi k she has feelings for Veer.. But she is not angry also in that way. Agar gussa hoti toh Chupke se blush nahi karti, Veer k liye smile nahi karti.. Yeah beech beech mein pareshan ho rahi hai, kyon ki yahan maamla itna serious hai and Jay Veer uski baat na sunke bachchon ki tarah ladh rahe hai, toh gussa nahi aayega kya? 😅 But she is not showing her anger to Jay, bas Veer ko hi dikha rahi hai.. Because hum apne khusi dukh gussa sab emotions ussi ko hi dikhate hai jinko hum pyaar karte hai.. Yaad kar k dekho, hum bhi humare life mein unn se hi naraaz hoke byath jaate hai jinse hum pyaar karte hai, woh friends ho, family ho, siblings ho ya life partners.. Jay kya kar raha hai, kya soch raha hai isse Bani ko ghanta farak nahi padhta.. But Veer.. Bani has lots of expectations from him.. She trusts him.. Iss liye woh apni naraazgi Veer pe hi nikal rahi hai. But woh narazgi bhi 2 min ka hai.. Agle hi moment mein she is smiling for him.. I know meri baaton se kahi log agree nahi karenge. But this is my thought. Mujhe toh scenes dekh k aisa hi laga.. 😊

I m glad that you have taken it in this way.

I think so we are unable to connect with bani because we don't know what is going inside her heart and brain. The lack of monologues are reason that I am unable to understand the behavior of bani. Bani is egoistic soul that's why she did not thank veer or apologized on trusting jay.

Hum har bar khud sy hi assume kar lety hain. Bani ny tandav kiya veer ky liye so we thought she loves veer, bani hold his hand, we thought she trusts him, bani ny gussa aur ignore kiya veer ko so we supposed to think that iss gussey ky pechy pyar chuppa hai. Kab taak bani ki ek smile ko hum uski feelings samjh lein. Why all the time we have to assume things. Why can't makers show clearly what she wants.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Totally agree with you!😳 Even I didn't see anger in her behaviour, but what I saw was the superiority complex for which I have ranted in excess!😆 Usska voilent ishq gale utarneko thoda time jaayega muzhe!🤔 Maybe out of too much love for Veeranshu but when she throws those tantrums at him it irks us fans!😆 But I found it rather inconsistent! She's so guarded all the time whenever he's around! But the guards will have to come down at some point! Maybe Veer understands his gharwaali like no other!😳 Problem was never the characters dwipi, its the execution! Everything is left for our imagination! Isslye we start to have such extreme reactions towards episodes!😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Your perspective is right dwipi.

I feel the writers have to give more time to the Vani dynamics so that audience ko bhi baatein theek se samajh aaye. So much is left to our own imagination. I get it agar Bani Veer se gussa ho, Naagin eyes dikhaaye... Fight kare, I feel there can be other ways as well to express their equation agar dialogues nai hai toh... Vani ko bass thoda sa time aur dede... Like a proper 5 minute scene where they express themselves if not anything else.

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Originally posted by: libran90

Dwipi🤗Ok so I posted this in your thread only, but since I have written it already, I am not going to type so much again, and just go ahead and paste my post here. So here it goes,

Hi Dwipi, sab itne gusse me hai yahaan, mujhe laga ki mujhpe hi bambaari na ho jaaye aaj ke aajsmiley37Isiliye tere post me sumdi me aake post kar rahi husmiley2. Koi alag se post nahi bana rahi. Waise bhi weekend ke baad review deti hu, lekin thoda sa apna kuch observations de rahi hu, jitna mujhko samajh aaya. And this is after watching in parts, not as whole.

Bani as Adi Naagin has strength, but no brain to complement the aura of an Adi Naagin. Time and again she has just proved, that she lacks the mind to plan and execute any proper game. She is as good as Daksh is, why, because both have strengths, their animalistic instincts are on point, but they don't have leadership qualities. Both have the warrior and killer instinct, but what kills and mars that is the lack of brain, ego issues, and lack of compassion. Being a leader if you are not humble and treat everyone as trash and not show gratitude, then what kind of a leader are you.

Coming to VAni, every husband-wife has a separate equation going on about them. As a third person, we could find it disrespectful or humiliating, or insulting, but their equation is only them, no outsider or third party can comment on it. For example, initially how Shivaay treated Anika, and Anika gave it back to him. Then after marriage, Shivaay mistreated Anika many times, and Anika put up with it because unconsciously she understood where Shivaay comes from, what his thought process is, she always understood that the intent was not to hurt anyone but to protect or safeguard someone in his own quirky SSO style. In our society, wives are always supposed to understand the husbands and put up with them. And that is exactly what is shown on TV. Women are mahaan; husbands are weak. We say why don't these women have self-respect? If a husband is doing that, why is it considered so wrong? For Veeranshu, his love is greater than anything else for him, is it so wrong? For Bani her duties are greater than any emotion, is that so wrong? Emotionally and as a person, Veeranshu is much much superior to Bani and it is his love, trust, and understanding, which makes him that. We love him that way. I am okay with that. Infact, I appreciate a man making an effort here, instead of the woman doing it.

Regarding Bani, I am not saying I don't have complaints regarding how their story is being shaped or the lack of romance. But I surely don't have complaints about their equation. Bani pehle sirf nafrat karti thi and only tried killing him. She has moved on from that. Daatna ho to Veeranshu, aankhein dikhaana ho to Veeranshu, dhakka maarna ho to Veeranshu, lekin haath pakadke jaana ho to Veeranshu, chupke se uski baat pe hasna ho to Veeranshu, uske muh pe daatna aur dusre ke saamne tareef karna, Veeranshu ko Jai ke upar trust karna, ye sab bhi dikha mujhko. Bani implicitly trusts Veeranshu, she does not trust Jai anymore, and feelings to thi hi nahi. She needs Jai in that house with the same POV that Balwant allowed Bani in that house - keep your enemies closer. Simple. Bani ab daayan se maastarni ban gayi hai.smiley36 Veeranshu ki bachcho wali harkaton pe daatna aur phir uski jokes pe chori chupe hasna. Aur rahi baat emotions ki, to jitna woh dabaati hai na, utna hi uspe bhaari padega.smiley36 Kyunki eventually, you will explode, and then who knows what will happen.

Coming to Markaat, yes she is turning out to be a formidable opponent, and she has a twin, and Bani will be the one to figure it out, but probably Veeranshu may take his time since it is about his mother after all. But I think when Veeranshu will be conflicted, the Cheels will come to Bani's rescue, more like Veeranshu's rescue. They will put their faith in Adi Naagin and Adi Naagin in the Cheels. I think this is what this track implies. In her bid to isolate Bani, and pull her sons and Meera over to her side, the people Bani trusts and loves in a way, she will find an unlikely ally in her enemies - Balwant, Pawan, Daksh, Ponky, the ones she has not even thought of. When will Bani use her brain to think tactfully and go and speak to Balwant?smiley44 The dude knows everything.

Sharma sisters overall are incorrigible, even Meera.smiley37Tapish ke bas ki nahi hai madam Meera. Uske liye Daksh hi sahi hai, jab Daksh khud sahi rehta haismiley37

Emotions ki baat kare, to this show lacks emotional quotient overall. Sab me ek hi emotion hai jo dominant hai above all emotions, which is weirdsmiley29. Veeranshu ka hai pyaar, Bani ka hai badla, gussa, nafrat, Jai ka lalach, Balwant ka gussa, Sharma family ka laalach again, Cheelo ka aiyyashi, and Chandrakala ka ghamand. Yahi hai bas. Koi aur emotional arc dikha hi nahi aaj tak. Supernatural shapeshifters hai ye, vampires to nahi ki emotion ke devoid ho. Pata nahi itni kamti kyun dikhaate hai.

And, regarding my post, this is thoroughly my opinion. I always watch the show with zero expectations, so I really did not find the episode bad at all, there was progression in Bani is some areas and not overall. Jai's character arc is weird as of now. He isn't changing anytime soon, and I don't think he will and don't want him to either.


Oh yes... Maine woh replies abhi dekha.. Kal IF mein log itne gusse mein the. But mere paas poora din time hi nahi mila iss pe discuss karne k liye, forum pe aane k liye . Upar se aj mere Instagram page mein bhi dekha k logon ko Vani equation pe complaints hai bohat, sab comments kar rahe the. Toh I felt I should make a post about it. Matlab mujhe laga log sayad ek angle se cheeson ko dekh rahe hai, they want jhapak kar k jump maar k romance suru kar do. They are not analyzing enough, otherwise yeh jo progress hai Vani equation mein, woh dikhta.. Toh abhi jab I checked ur comment, I was like OMG yeh toh ditto waisi hi hai jaisa maine socha hai.. Matlab ek ek point true hai. Khusi hui k Chalo koi toh hai, koi toh notice kia iss points ko 😳

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: amlavs

Completely agree with u dwip 👍🏼👏🤗

Thank u so much Lavi.. Actually insta pe u r the first one who said k episode pasand aaya. I was like Chalo koi toh hai mere team mein😆

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dwipanita

Oh yes... Maine woh replies abhi dekha.. Kal IF mein log itne gusse mein the. But mere paas poora din time hi nahi mila iss pe discuss karne k liye, forum pe aane k liye . Upar se aj mere Instagram page mein bhi dekha k logon ko Vani equation pe complaints hai bohat, sab comments kar rahe the. Toh I felt I should make a post about it. Matlab mujhe laga log sayad ek angle se cheeson ko dekh rahe hai, they want jhapak kar k jump maar k romance suru kar do. They are not analyzing enough, otherwise yeh jo progress hai Vani equation mein, woh dikhta.. Toh abhi jab I checked ur comment, I was like OMG yeh toh ditto waisi hi hai jaisa maine socha hai.. Matlab ek ek point true hai. Khusi hui k Chalo koi toh hai, koi toh notice kia iss points ko 😳

Thank you Dwipi.🤗

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: _NINA_

I m glad that you have taken it in this way.

I think so we are unable to connect with bani because we don't know what is going inside her heart and brain. The lack of monologues are reason that I am unable to understand the behavior of bani. Bani is egoistic soul that's why she did not thank veer or apologized on trusting jay.

Hum har bar khud sy hi assume kar lety hain. Bani ny tandav kiya veer ky liye so we thought she loves veer, bani hold his hand, we thought she trusts him, bani ny gussa aur ignore kiya veer ko so we supposed to think that iss gussey ky pechy pyar chuppa hai. Kab taak bani ki ek smile ko hum uski feelings samjh lein. Why all the time we have to assume things. Why can't makers show clearly what she wants.

Iss k liye toh Mukta se baat karna parega baba!!!

Yes monologues ki bohat kami hai. Present situation mein jaise Bani ki monologues mila hi nahi. Maybe makers also want us to assume. Woh bhi hum e surprise dena chahte hai. We are so attached to Vani, specially with Veer, iss liye makers don't want k hum e pehle se hi sab pata ho. Hum e bhi ussi din pata chalega jis din Veer ko pata chalega 😳

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