Originally posted by: AnnaSloan
So? 6 months marriage is big than 28-30 years of relationship? Especially when you don't remember one bit of six months of marriage? She is tom dick and harries for him because he DOES NOT remember.And 6 months in the real world is practically nothing and if you are told that the reason for marriage was because your brother ran away from the wedding, if that was a compromise wedding in the first place - why in the world would you believe your so-called 'wife'? Six months of a married relationship can NEVER be put equal to 30 years of living with a family. Marriages break even after 10 years because the guy always tends to believe the family and not his wife in the real world. 6 months is not even ant-size issue here.Of course, I will believe my family in a memory loss. Why would I trust a stranger who I don't remember? We know Sumi is wrong - but does Mahir know that? If MIL against DIL is common - so is it very common for guys to put their mom's on a pedestal that no DIL and at times no god can match. From his pov, Mahir is believing the woman who gave birth to him - should he really believe her or the woman who he knows jack about!? A mother can never match up to a wife - Period. That's a harsh reality but it's the truth.Even after not believing Bela he is listening to Bela - and Bela's actions in the past are what is not helping her. Whatever she did at that time was in full control of her life and emotions - letting Yuvi near to her to an extent - that anyone would doubt her - and that's why no one can even logically come and support her. What Mahir is doing now is in the pretext of a memory loss and not intentionally. If Mahir really thought Bela was characterless he would have called her that ages ago when her actions could have been interpreted as such.I definitely don't support his decision to marry Vish - that is wrong. But otherwise, Mahir is being true to what a normal human being does.