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Love
When we are in love we can not convey the emotion because love is silent. We are accustomed to communicating in words but there are no words to convey emotions. We use our words to tell people about our emotions or give symbols in their place. Our words are symbols that the other person can interpret and understand how we feel. The emotion of love is formless and so we rely on words as a code for communication.
Flowers, chocolate, jewelry, and cards are wonderful symbolic ways to communicate our emotion.
Giving symbols of love can be a way for a person to hook our attention and get what they want from us. We become attracted to that person because we value the symbols they give us. A compliment is an easy symbol for someone to give that gets our attention. We give them more attention because we enjoy compliments. If someone makes promises to us of a beautiful future we can create a whole dream in our mind of what our life will be like with them. We can fall in love with the dream we have in our imagination that is inspired by their words. In this case it is our own love being expressed for that dream we feel. Whenever we hear or think of those words or that person we feel the emotion for that dream in our mind. The symbol can be a trigger for a powerful emotional dream that we store in our memory.
Misunderstandings between men and women do not happen because they are from different planets like Mars or Venus. Misunderstandings and reactions often happen because men and women interpret symbols of love differently.
Until you learn the meaning of the words that someone uses, there are going to be miscommunications and misunderstandings.
efore you can explain your coded meanings for words and symbols to someone, you will first have to be aware of them yourself. This means being aware of what your symbols mean, how you interpret them, and the emotional attachments you have given to images and dreams in your mind. When you are aware of your own coded symbols, you can communicate more clearly with another. Clear communication will raise the quality of understanding, respect, and clarity in your relationships.
Do you think guys misunderstandings between behir have cleared????
Or I must say today's episode was sign of calmness before strom
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