Regarding Yesterday

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Yesterday their was argument about the justification of Bela's behaviour towards Mahir.
First of all I did not intend to hurt anyone by my comments. If anyone got hurt by my comments the I apologize for that. I did not want call anyone cruel. (And me apologizing does not mean I have changed my POV)

Neither I said that an assault victim is free to punish an innocent. What I wanted to say is it is difficult for an assault victim to trust anyone easily and we can't blame her for that. Also we should not want her to get hurt anymore. Even if it is in a tv show. I hoped that I just have say this once and that would be enough. Everyone would understand what I was saying. But it did not happen and a heated argument started. I just hoped as a women everyone would understand her situation once I point that out. But unfortunately it went otherwise.

I too believe what Bela is doing is wrong. But it is not illogical. An innocent guy standing with a bunch of rapists is assumed to be a rapist and if you see someone holding a gun seconds after someone is shot you assume that person to be the killer. This is what people's common sense says.

And also it is not true that she doesn't have an inner conflict. She does have an inner conflict. When Arvind brutally beated Mahir 😭 Bela could not stand that. She had to convince herself to attack Mahir. She even used her power to make his injuries go away. And she does have feelings for him. She seems to be lost in his eyes. Knowing the fact that Mahir is innocent doesn't mean we have to blame Bela. If Mahir was actually guilty and all his innocence were an act then no one would say a word. Rehaan also tried to save Bela from Vish when he didn't know the truth. But that doesn't make him innocent. So how is she supposed to trust Mahir. From her POV Mahir could easily be acting.

Anyways whatever it is. I didn't mean to hurt anyone. I just wanted to share my opinion. So once again I am extremely sorry for any of my behaviour which has hurt anyone.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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No offense taking. Your free to express your views in a professional manner. And I completely agree with what you said. As I said in one of my posts some people are frustrated with Bela because of how she is behaving with Mahir. But as I said in my post, the story hasn't reached the part where Bela realize Mahir is innocent. We as viewers know and it can be a bit frustrating but looking at it from Bela POV she is right in her own way. She is a new naagrani with lots to learn but surrounded with the wrong people. She is here for a mission and doesn't care about anybody feelings. So her being insensitive is logical. Regarding the Jamini track few good things that came out of it is that slowly this will show Bela that Mahir wasn't what she thought he was and maybe a lot of things will be revealed.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: stormfly13

Yesterday their was argument about the justification of Bela's behaviour towards Mahir.

First of all I did not intend to hurt anyone by my comments. If anyone got hurt by my comments the I apologize for that. I did not want call anyone cruel. (And me apologizing does not mean I have changed my POV)

Neither I said that an assault victim is free to punish an innocent. What I wanted to say is it is difficult for an assault victim to trust anyone easily and we can't blame her for that. Also we should not want her to get hurt anymore. Even if it is in a tv show. I hoped that I just have say this once and that would be enough. Everyone would understand what I was saying. But it did not happen and a heated argument started. I just hoped as a women everyone would understand her situation once I point that out. But unfortunately it went otherwise.

I too believe what Bela is doing is wrong. But it is not illogical. An innocent guy standing with a bunch of rapists is assumed to be a rapist and if you see someone holding a gun seconds after someone is shot you assume that person to be the killer. This is what people's common sense says.

And also it is not true that she doesn't have an inner conflict. She does have an inner conflict. When Arvind brutally beated Mahir 😭 Bela could not stand that. She had to convince herself to attack Mahir. She even used her power to make his injuries go away. And she does have feelings for him. She seems to be lost in his eyes. Knowing the fact that Mahir is innocent doesn't mean we have to blame Bela. If Mahir was actually guilty and all his innocence were an act then no one would say a word. Rehaan also tried to save Bela from Vish when he didn't know the truth. But that doesn't make him innocent. So how is she supposed to trust Mahir. From her POV Mahir could easily be acting.

Anyways whatever it is. I didn't mean to hurt anyone. I just wanted to share my opinion. So once again I am extremely sorry for any of my behaviour which has hurt anyone.

👍🏼 I know how hard it is for an assault victim to trust people .once go to rape victims and talk to them how they undergo mental trauma. For years they can't trust any male .for us normal persons it seems odd but for them it is natural. Just think from their pov so bela is not wrong at all in not trusting Mahir..



Saying bela should be punished bcos she did not trust Mahir..I don't understand how can someone post that .how can a rape victim trust a new male in 4 days think from rape victim pov please show sensitivity towards victims of rape or sexual assault as it takes long time for them to trust males
Edited by VARUNI2014 - 7 years ago

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